My friend no longer wants to see me for something I never did...

[Egg Toast]

So,this is going to be a long one. I have a very close female friend who I thought I had a crush on but it turns out I really didn't, I had already told her I had a crush and she seemed fine with it. But I wasn't able to tell her I wasn't thinking straight and really didn't because she had a dream that I had done some very explicit things to her without her consent and is now scared of seeing me in person and won't allow me to see her in person to talk things out. I didn't even know what I had done for her to think of me as such a creep, I had attempted to be as restrained as possible, only going into her room with her permission, not trying to make physical contact unless she initiated it, and even stopping jokes of hers because they were risque (like her shoving her underwear in my face). The only thing I can think I've done was keeping a photo of her she thought it was ugly in my coat pocket. What even am I supposed to do?

[samuel15]

You could Wright a letter to her explaining your situation and how you feel about what happen and just being honest and transparent.
Probably not the best advice but I’d say it’s a start

[ska8er]

Did u show that photo of her to
anyone else that would make her
angry? She might have just told u
that it was ok for u to have a crush
on her but the dream thing maybe
was a way to get out of it. Give her
space and c what happens.

[BlackParadePixie]

sooo.... she won't see you anymore because of a dream she had? that's not normal at all and you should tell her that isn't fair.

[Riley2015]

I can relate. Unfortunately i think some (not all) girls are very harsh with us boys and punish us even when its unfair. I am finding that out with my girlfriend who is always mad at me for something and i always have to get forgiven for something, even if i didn't do anything wrong :confused::lol:

[jamie_n5]

Well she must have some deep problems if a dream would set her off like that. You need to talk to her and tell her that dreams can be the most crazy subjects that your mind can conger up. You must tell her and convince her that you would never do anything to harm her in any way. If this doesn't work then everything is in her lap and she needs to deal with it. If it persists then I guess walk away and leave her.

[Max the Disenchanter]

Girl sounds crazy.

[Croconaw]

I would stop being her friend. She obviously has problems she needs to figure out within herself.