Does lack of alone-time inhibit your activity?

[DanielleIU]

It seems that many of us pass up occasions for intimacy because we can't get enough alone time. Others are more indifferent and some enjoy the idea of doing things with other people nearby.

Do you care if someone else hears (or even sees) you during a sexual activity and does it matter if it's masturbation, oral, vag, or anal? And how does that change if it's an stranger versus a friend versus a sibling?

[ClaireHofmann]

Depends on the situation. I'm usually very private when I'm masturbating, I wouldn't feel comfortable at all doing it in front of any family members who are close to me. But I have masturbated in front of friends before a couple of times during sleepovers. We are almost all very intimate with each other and we have done sexual stuff before. I never really masturbated in front of complete strangers.

It's the same thing for oral sex. I've done it in front of friends.

I probably wouldn't have vaginal or anal sex in front of other people unless I was having a threesome or something like that.

Don't really care about people hearing me having sex unless they're my family.

[Jordan99]

I wonder how many of these threads get started by *girls* who really need advice and want to know, and how many are really guys looking to get cheap thrills by having girls answer these questions for their own jollies. I've been catfished on this site before and am leery of answering some of these posts by supposed *girls* For instance, one *girl* I was once PM'ing changed her username and used several different Pinterest photos pretending to be a *girl* she was not. In fact, *she* now uses an avatar and has completely abandoned using a real photo of herself nowadays. I have no intention of answering this post and would caution other real girls from responding to this post too.

[ashleigh7]

Yes!!!!! Not having some "girl time" can be so annoying...that it becomes a distraction for me. :/ Or even hard to get a good night's sleep!! :(

[annababy02]

Yes!!!!! Not having some "girl time" can be so annoying...that it becomes a distraction for me. :/ Or even hard to get a good night's sleep!! :(

I totally agree. Masturbating before bed is my stress reliever to calm me down when I get ready for bed.

[MagicGinnySurprise]

I don't care if my sister or brother-in-law or friends are around (depending on the friend it's sometimes more fun with them around), but I try not to do anything when my nieces might see (they're 2 and 4). So that inhibits me a little I guess.

[ClaireHofmann]

I totally agree. Masturbating before bed is my stress reliever to calm me down when I get ready for bed.
You're absolutely right. I think all girls should masturbate before going to bed.

[geanyna]

You're absolutely right. I think all girls should masturbate before going to bed.

Cant remember the last time i went to bed alone and didnt masturbate... i just love it and need it!

[ClaireHofmann]

Cant remember the last time i went to bed alone and didnt masturbate... i just love it and need it!
Yeah, me too. If I'm not having sex on that night then it's almost guaranteed that I'm going to masturbate. My body needs pleasure.

[angelina]

You're absolutely right. I think all girls should masturbate before going to bed.
you are right..i do agree..it is a greatest stress reliever..i did mbating with my group girls ( we are at now 5 from my class )..we did oral too within ourselves. But never in front of boys or strangers or parents.

[Alexis16]

Luckily I dont have any siblings and my parents are at work all day so Im loving my summer break :)

[Mswimmer]

I luckyly have my own room so I can mastrubate every night. But I would not feel comfortable doing it in front if my family. When we travel I stay awake the last sonI can do it in the shower or toilet but it is not the same thing.

[Usudirekfm]

Luckily I dont have any siblings and my parents are at work all day so Im loving my summer break :)

Thissss :-D

It does get tricky other times... but like others said, if you have your own room you usually get a pretty good shot at it at least every night!

[JessicaShy]

Thissss :-D

It does get tricky other times... but like others said, if you have your own room you usually get a pretty good shot at it at least every night!


Summer break seems the perfect time for more masturbating

I feel for you girls who don't have the privacy of your own rooms

[Nicole4All]

Getting privacy for anything more than masturbation is pretty hard. I've masturbated with friends and have done oral too. I would't care if a friend or sibling heard or saw me.

Not sure I'd want siblings to see me having vag or anal, though not sure I'd always care if they heard. It might be fun to do either together with friends at some point.

[Ashley2004]

I don't care if friends see or hear. They do it too sometimes. If I'm fooling around in public, I don't care if random people know but I don't want to get in trouble so I try not to be too obvious. I don't want my family to see or hear. That would be totally awkward and embarrassing.

[Caycedilla]

I don’t have any siblings and both my parents work, so I’m not really lacking any alone time :lol: especially during the summer

[KristenM]

My parents are at work all day but my sister is always around. She doesnt bother me too much so I get enough alone time when I need to

[Cangirl]

Luckily I dont have any siblings and my parents are at work all day so Im loving my summer break :)

Lucky!!! :)

[Cangirl]

Depends on the situation. I'm usually very private when I'm masturbating, I wouldn't feel comfortable at all doing it in front of any family members who are close to me. But I have masturbated in front of friends before a couple of times during sleepovers. We are almost all very intimate with each other and we have done sexual stuff before. I never really masturbated in front of complete strangers.

It's the same thing for oral sex. I've done it in front of friends.

I probably wouldn't have vaginal or anal sex in front of other people unless I was having a threesome or something like that.

Don't really care about people hearing me having sex unless they're my family.

This is a lot like me I think. Except that I know family have heard some things. It's a little embarrassing for sure but sometimes noises happen or whatever lol.
But the same for friends and idk about doing it in front of a stranger. I dont know when that would happen unless it was some kind of dare lol

[Cangirl]

you are right..i do agree..it is a greatest stress reliever..i did mbating with my group girls ( we are at now 5 from my class )..we did oral too within ourselves. But never in front of boys or strangers or parents.

Cant remember the last time i went to bed alone and didnt masturbate... i just love it and need it!

Yeah, me too. If I'm not having sex on that night then it's almost guaranteed that I'm going to masturbate. My body needs pleasure.

Yep! It's the best sleep thing ever! My body needs it to at night just to relax and unwind especially if I've had a really bad day. I'm happy that other girls are the same :)

[Leena_2003]

Cant remember the last time i went to bed alone and didnt masturbate... i just love it and need it!

I'm the same. It's a routine that I don't easily miss out on. I can't see myself doing it with or in front of anyone else. I have my own bedroom so it's the perfect time I can do it in a relaxing way.

[angelina]

Yep! It's the best sleep thing ever! My body needs it to at night just to relax and unwind especially if I've had a really bad day. I'm happy that other girls are the same :)
yes...cangirl that gives a vent to our feelings. we should thank VIRTUAL forum to chat all this things freely and interact with many girls of our age..

[MajaVanessa]

Of course it matters if someone can see me. I wouldn't masterbate on the sofa with my parents sitting nearby ;-) With friends I'm much less shy, have masturbated in front of some, some have seen me giving head and being caught in the act also isn't the end of the world.

[bouldghirl]

That’s what my room is for. It’s my place and probably the only place at home where I can have privacy. It would be much more difficult if I shared a room. I agree that a good self delivered orgasm is the best way of helping get a good nights sleep.

[NudistFun]

I wonder how many of these threads get started by *girls* who really need advice and want to know, and how many are really guys looking to get cheap thrills by having girls answer these questions for their own jollies. I've been catfished on this site before and am leery of answering some of these posts by supposed *girls* For instance, one *girl* I was once PM'ing changed her username and used several different Pinterest photos pretending to be a *girl* she was not. In fact, *she* now uses an avatar and has completely abandoned using a real photo of herself nowadays. I have no intention of answering this post and would caution other real girls from responding to this post too.

Ding ding ding!

[Beccabear]

My mom usually leaves me alone at night and so it’s not a problem

[Caitigrrl]

Doesn’t happen to me much. Depends where and who I am sharing with
Long flights can be difficult and plane bathrooms can be yuck

[Brigje]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and sometimes in the mornings if i have the time, I have my own room but with no lock on the door. so anyone can just walk in at anytime. which may add to the excitement..:)

It certainly does :)

[Lexi_02]

I wouldn’t want my parents hearing or seeing me but I don’t care if my friends do, I’ve heard some of them before. No big deal

[ZoeH]

I just have an older sister but I never have a problem with privacy. I have my own room and my family respects my privacy

[ClaireHofmann]

I wouldn’t want my parents hearing or seeing me but I don’t care if my friends do, I’ve heard some of them before. No big deal
I'm just like you. Friends caught me masturbating before at a sleepover and I finished it anyways haha

[len05]

I'm just like you. Friends caught me masturbating before at a sleepover and I finished it anyways haha

didn't they freak out? i think my would

[Sailor Mars]

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