What age difference is OK

[jaret]

Since I know if your in middle school your friends could be 3 years difference in age, and in high school 4 years.
What age difference would you say is Ok to have sexually experiment with another boy?
Would you have different ages for J/O, oral or anal?
If you have had a age difference of more than a year between you and a friend, how much of a age difference did you have?
Did you have J/O, oral or anal.

[NamelessHuman]

Depends on your current age.

For me, at 17, I’d go anywhere from 14 to 20, so 3-4 years is fine.

What matters most is that it’s consensual, and you aren’t trying to push them into anything. If they want to experiment with you, it’s up to you if it’s an appropriate age really, they’ve already decided you are for them.

[roger.bait]

Depends on your current age.

For me, at 17, I’d go anywhere from 14 to 20, so 3-4 years is fine.

What matters most is that it’s consensual, and you aren’t trying to push them into anything. If they want to experiment with you, it’s up to you if it’s an appropriate age really, they’ve already decided you are for them.

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[joefelix]

It's very circumstancal, hard to say à specific gap that's okay

[scott2002]

I think a lot depends on age. Like, in 8th grade I would not go any younger than someone in 7th grade or older than maybe 10th. In high school, no youngster than someone in 8th grade. Just starting puberty (hairs just starting to grow)- nobody older than 13.

[TheMagicPotato]

It comes down to conscience and personal opinion.

Let's say you're 16 and you think 3 years is a good age difference. So you go and date 13 years old or a 19 years old.

As long as you're doing things legally and not getting with kids under 5-9 years old, you should be fine.

[kierbirmboy]

When i first started to experiment it was with lads my own age from school. When i started college I started to experiment with lads slightly older than me. Oldest lad i have been with was 20 years old when I was nearly 18.

I don't think there's a right and a wrong with age difference, but you've got to be confident and comfortable with yourself and takes things at your own pace.

[mick01]

I think 2 to 3 years is a good difference. But then depending on personality and maturity, it could be more.

[ShineintheDark]

I think it's very much about maturity and situational judgement. As someone who's currently 17, I'd consider maybe as low as 14 and as high as 25 but only because I don;t think I'd find any older attractive. A limit of 3 years younger would change as I grow older because the difference in physical maturity would lessen eg. when I'm 30, I'd consider 20 as my youngest etc. However, at 17 the difference in physical maturity would mean I;d never even think about a 7 year old.

[Zachary G]

Depends on your current age.

For me, at 17, I’d go anywhere from 14 to 20, so 3-4 years is fine.

What matters most is that it’s consensual, and you aren’t trying to push them into anything. If they want to experiment with you, it’s up to you if it’s an appropriate age really, they’ve already decided you are for them.

Its the same for me. I am 17 and I would say 14 and up (within reason). Kieran2001 has a good point on the rest.

[Matt 04]

I would have to say they needed to be around the same sexual maturity and stage of puberty as me and not below that. I would not experiment with guys that did not have pubes or could not cum.

[jamie_n5]

I would go maybe between 15-22 now at 19.

[Harrier]

I would go maybe between 15-22 now at 19.

It's weird to see that you have a bigger gap for younger than you would for older. But in some ways I agree, I just never thought of it before first being surprised to see your response. I'm also 19 (but just graduated from HS last month), so I have quite a few friends who are 15 or haven't quite turned 15 yet. But I don't have many friends who are 23 and older.

To answer the question - first of all I would not "experiemnt" or have sex with with a guy since I'm straight. It also depends on what your definition of "experimenting" is. I have been naked with other guy classmates and been naked with them at co-ed parties. We have stripped or jerked off or gotten bjs at parties. The youngest were 14. I have jerked off with my brother who just turned 15 but I don't think siblings should count. As for older I don't think I have a limit on that for "experimenting" or a quickie. As long as I found the person attractive I think it's fine. I had a women in her 40s give me a bj before. But I would never date someone that old. I don't even know how much older I would date. I wanna say 10 years older but idk how much I would have in common with her. And as for dating a younger girl Idk if I would ever date a girl in HS again now that I have graduated. 1-3 years younger would be fine but I really just don't want to live the HS life again, so I wouldn't wanna date a HS girl.

[Oscar-V3.0]

It depends on the age. 4 years difference, 22-18 is ok, but 14-10 definitely not lol

[House anatomy]

I would say 2 years above and below is probably the best bet. Thats just my opinion though. But I think its up to you

[Nnoki]

I got someone I'm intrested in, he's about 3 and a half years younger, so yeah, at the time that's my peak

[samuel15]

If the person is like me and the age difference isn’t noticeable I really don’t care. Up the bigger the difference the weirder I think it is. But I’m very hypothetical, I’m less bothered if it’s me or my friends.

[Brandon618]

Probably close to my own age is what i would prefer, but no more than 2 years either way

[Dmaxd123]

for me with ladies (but should be the same for you with a guy) it's more about circumstances than age with a few exceptions to stay out of any legal trouble if parents get upset

if someone is a bit younger but more mature thats better with me than someone my own age but less mature than the younger one

[hairy balls]

I don't think there's a right and a wrong with age difference, but you've got to be confident and comfortable with the person you with and only do things at your own pace and you have to be comfortable with what you are doing.

[RobbieNJ]

I would have to say they needed to be around the same sexual maturity and stage of puberty as me and not below that. I would not experiment with guys that did not have pubes or could not cum.

Yeah, i think it could be awkward experimenting with a boy with no pubes. We were all there at some point and me not too long ago but now that I have them and I can cum (sort of --- just making the clear watery stuff) it may be weird.

[Bakingboy03]

I would only about a year personally just seems more reasonable to me

[Falcons_11]

I think like every case is difference depending on age, the person and circumstance. Maturity has a lot to do with age differences. Personally I think that 3 years differences either way if acceptable.

[Coping]

Since I know if your in middle school your friends could be 3 years difference in age, and in high school 4 years.
What age difference would you say is Ok to have sexually experiment with another boy?
Would you have different ages for J/O, oral or anal?
If you have had a age difference of more than a year between you and a friend, how much of a age difference did you have?
Did you have J/O, oral or anal.

I've played with boys since I was 12/13yo. I'm 18 now and a lot depends on who I could be with, how well we know each other and how mature they are. I am, of course. totally mature and sensible now. *cough*. :yeah:

I could go 2, 3, or even 4 years of age difference, depending on circumstances.

[Tsall]

For me, as a 14 year old, the youngest I’ll go is 12 and the oldest is 17-18.