Differences in Orgasms

[Kiki03]

I was wondering about why it is now that some orgasms I have are really strong and some aren't. When I first started masturbating abt 3 years ago they all seemed really strong and intense. Lately it's been that some are kinda strong and some not as much. But yesterday I went to the lake and when I got back I decided to masturbate before I took my shower. I was really tired so it took me almost twice as long as normal to make myself orgasm but when I did it was REALLY strong. Idk if it's because I was tired or did it longer because I've done it longer before and it was just a medium orgasm. It doesn't seem to be how long between orgasms either because I masturbated twice on Saturday the day before. It doesn't seem to have any reason so I'm really confused.

[Pultost]

I don't think there's any particular patterns when it comes down to it. I often experience the stronger ones if I'm hornier than usual, or if there's been a few days since last time, if I do some edging, etc., but even then it's not guaranteed that the orgasm will be stronger.

[angelina]

I was wondering about why it is now that some orgasms I have are really strong and some aren't. When I first started masturbating abt 3 years ago they all seemed really strong and intense. Lately it's been that some are kinda strong and some not as much. But yesterday I went to the lake and when I got back I decided to masturbate before I took my shower. I was really tired so it took me almost twice as long as normal to make myself orgasm but when I did it was REALLY strong. Idk if it's because I was tired or did it longer because I've done it longer before and it was just a medium orgasm. It doesn't seem to be how long between orgasms either because I masturbated twice on Saturday the day before. It doesn't seem to have any reason so I'm really confused.
it s very simple...if you once decide to masturbate on a particular day..naturally you will have a strong intention to go for it..as such your orgasm will be a stronger one as your hormones were tuned to the occasion

[TessTheGreat]

I don't find any pattern. I don't do it very often anyway but if they are strong or weak is random. The strong ones feel nicer but they are all good. But the strong ones are inconvenient because I get wet which is why I don't do it often.

[Kiki03]

it s very simple...if you once decide to masturbate on a particular day..naturally you will have a strong intention to go for it..as such your orgasm will be a stronger one as your hormones were tuned to the occasion

I'm not sure I understand

[Pultost]

it s very simple...if you once decide to masturbate on a particular day..naturally you will have a strong intention to go for it..as such your orgasm will be a stronger one as your hormones were tuned to the occasion

It can backfire, though. You can hold back a couple of days and when the big day comes, it might turn out you're not in the mood anymore. xD

[Fiona2]

I think the longer it takes me the more intense the orgasm but not always.

[gurquenjen]

I find that if I've been thinking about masturbating all day (or even just for a little while), I tend to have stronger orgasms. I know that's true for sex with someone else, so it makes sense that it would be the same for sex with just me.

[Katie2003]

One of the things I quickly learned after my big sis taught me to masturbate was that all orgasms are not equal. Some are very intense like an explosion, others not so much but still feel good when they happen, and during the process of getting off. What's awesome is when I'm able to do multiples within one session, but not all of those are equally strong, the first is usually the best. And the very best ones are usually when two people are doing each other at the same time. :)

[Char03]

Mine vary too. I guess it can be down to all kinds of things. How horny I am, how much time I have spent building up to it and how relaxed I am. Generally they’re better when I am very horny but there’s no real pattern to it, sometimes they can be disappointing and other times unexpectedly amazing!:D

[Nikki_1]

Mine always vary, I guess it depends on how horny and relaxed I am. I don't really set a time to do it but it's usually when I go to bed or sometimes just before I get up in the morning. I don't know about anyone else but I get like REALLY horny a couple of days before my period and I may do it more depending on the situation but he first one is usually has the WOWWWWWWWW!!!! factor!! ;) :D

[annababy02]

For me it depends on how horny I am and sometimes how long its been since I've had one

[Kiki03]

Mine vary too. I guess it can be down to all kinds of things. How horny I am, how much time I have spent building up to it and how relaxed I am. Generally they’re better when I am very horny but there’s no real pattern to it, sometimes they can be disappointing and other times unexpectedly amazing!:D

I guess you're right it's just unexpectedly amazing. I've masturbated 5 times since then (its about to be 6 haha) just to see if I can make myself orgasm that hard again but it hasn't been close. They were still good like 8 out of 20 but that one was like a 30!

[Char03]

I guess you're right it's just unexpectedly amazing. I've masturbated 5 times since then (its about to be 6 haha) just to see if I can make myself orgasm that hard again but it hasn't been close. They were still good like 8 out of 20 but that one was like a 30!

Hope you're 6th time lucky! :D

[Kiki03]

Hope you're 6th time lucky! :D

Haha Thanks! I'll let you know. ;)

[Jill01]

Orgasms are never the same. It depends on your mood, your physical condition and maybe mental/psychological condition.

[sofie04]

It mostly depends on my mood and how long it has been since last one. Also, I noticed that when I exercise it is sometimes stronger.

[JessicaShy]

It can vary according to a number of factors - how long since the last one, how long I have, how I'm feeling health wise etc etc

There's no such thing as a bad one in my book - they start at 'great' to 'totally amazing'

[ClaireHofmann]

It can vary according to a number of factors - how long since the last one, how long I have, how I'm feeling health wise etc etc

There's no such thing as a bad one in my book - they start at 'great' to 'totally amazing'
I totally agree. Never understood why some people talk about "bad orgasms", they all feel so nice.

[pumpkineater34]

just yesterday, I had a VERY intense orgasm. they really very on how turned on you are, your period timing, hormones, etc

[Jill01]

just yesterday, I had a VERY intense orgasm. they really very on how turned on you are, your period timing, hormones, etc

Yes, of course!!!!!! It has to do with a lot of things.

[annababy02]

just yesterday, I had a VERY intense orgasm. they really very on how turned on you are, your period timing, hormones, etc

Yes it does vary a lot. Is it just me or is it unbelievably awesome when you're surprised with an extremely intense orgasm out of nowhere?

[pumpkineater34]

Yes it does vary a lot. Is it just me or is it unbelievably awesome when you're surprised with an extremely intense orgasm out of nowhere?

yea! it was pretty surprising

[Katie2003]

Yes it does vary a lot. Is it just me or is it unbelievably awesome when you're surprised with an extremely intense orgasm out of nowhere?

Def not just you. It's always a very pleasant surprise and totally awesome!!!!!! Especially when you have been going along for a while and reaching a certain peak level, then all of a sudden out of nowhere one is far more intense than ever before. :yeah:

[geanyna]

Def not just you. It's always a very pleasant surprise and totally awesome!!!!!! Especially when you have been going along for a while and reaching a certain peak level, then all of a sudden out of nowhere one is far more intense than ever before. :yeah:

Surprise orgasms are the best and most intense. Now and then i go on playing a minite after i came... and sometimes i suddenly cum again, just from nowhere, just happens... and its soooo goooood.

[annababy02]

Def not just you. It's always a very pleasant surprise and totally awesome!!!!!! Especially when you have been going along for a while and reaching a certain peak level, then all of a sudden out of nowhere one is far more intense than ever before. :yeah:

Yes! Its the best feeling in the world!

[KristenM]

Mine are all different too, some are stronger than others. You never really know what its going to be like until it happens. All part of the fun haha

[angelina]

It can backfire, though. You can hold back a couple of days and when the big day comes, it might turn out you're not in the mood anymore. xD
you plan in the morning that you have it in the bed time..then it will be a real big day...why do you postpone for a day or two ? finish it on the same day...

[Pultost]

you plan in the morning that you have it in the bed time..then it will be a real big day...why do you postpone for a day or two ? finish it on the same day...

Normally I do, one in the morning and one before sleeping. However, I've experienced that the orgasm got a bit more "umph" after a couple of days with no "action". ;)

[len05]

mine vary in strength to with not real pattern.
When I take longer to come, they seem to be stronger, but not always.

Never had a second one come along as you described, this sounds like I should try it!

[Mswimmer]

The longer I edge the stronger is orgasm but if i skip few days the orgasm is much better

[nerdyniky]

mine vary in strength to with not real pattern.
When I take longer to come, they seem to be stronger, but not always.

Never had a second one come along as you described, this sounds like I should try it!

Yeah, I highly recommend to go on playing after your first Orgasm. Sometimes I tried it, and mine became just stronger and stronger one after another... until I once reached the fourth one, and I was totally a shaking quivering mess, my heart was racing, but the last O was sooo intense I couldnt move for long minutes after it. My body was full of pleasure, and I was in another level of being... :yes:

[BlackParadePixie]

It can backfire, though. You can hold back a couple of days and when the big day comes, it might turn out you're not in the mood anymore. xD
also, things can distract you while you're in the middle of the deed and cause you to lose interest or intensity.

[Leena_2003]

Orgasms are never the same. It depends on your mood, your physical condition and maybe mental/psychological condition.

I agree with this. It's a combination of many things. I almost always do it when I go to sleep, and I hardly ever miss a day, but the strength of the orgasms vary. Even when I'm a little tired or not that much into it, I still do it. It's my "me time" and for me an orgasm that's not as strong as it can be is still better than no orgasm.

[angelina]

Normally I do, one in the morning and one before sleeping. However, I've experienced that the orgasm got a bit more "umph" after a couple of days with no "action". ;)
no harm if you make it a routine one and sure the orgasm is escalated when you have some related lustful thoughts before the action

[Beccabear]

I guess mine are like everyone else describes, they vary. Right before my period and really horny they’re a lot more intense or if I’ve already had one and keep going, the second is a lot better and bigger.

[Pultost]

also, things can distract you while you're in the middle of the deed and cause you to lose interest or intensity.

True, some times a "picture" of something or someone who doesn't do it for you at all may pop into your head out of the blue, for example, and the mood is gone. xD

no harm if you make it a routine one and sure the orgasm is escalated when you have some related lustful thoughts before the action

That's right, those thoughts have to be there. :)

[len05]

I guess mine are like everyone else describes, they vary. Right before my period and really horny they’re a lot more intense or if I’ve already had one and keep going, the second is a lot better and bigger.

this sounds so amazing. is it true then that the ones coming after the first one really get stronger for most girls?
I need to try and see if I can have more than one!

[Lucy G]

this sounds so amazing. is it true then that the ones coming after the first one really get stronger for most girls?
I need to try and see if I can have more than one!

If you're lucky enough to be able to orgasm its always worth trying to hold off before you 'get there' because the one you get should be really strong. I've never manged more than one but some girls can do multiples.

[Lucy G]

I agree with this. It's a combination of many things. I almost always do it when I go to sleep, and I hardly ever miss a day, but the strength of the orgasms vary. Even when I'm a little tired or not that much into it, I still do it. It's my "me time" and for me an orgasm that's not as strong as it can be is still better than no orgasm.

This exactly ^^

[ClaireHofmann]

Yeah, I highly recommend to go on playing after your first Orgasm. Sometimes I tried it, and mine became just stronger and stronger one after another... until I once reached the fourth one, and I was totally a shaking quivering mess, my heart was racing, but the last O was sooo intense I couldnt move for long minutes after it. My body was full of pleasure, and I was in another level of being... :yes:
That sounds soooo good. So happy your body got to feel so much pleasure. Those are the best orgasms a girl can have.

[nerdyniky]

That sounds soooo good. So happy your body got to feel so much pleasure. Those are the best orgasms a girl can have.

Yeah, its absolutely true. Those were the best orgasms I had ever experienced in my life. And since then I WANT to get them again... :yummy:

[ClaireHofmann]

Yeah, its absolutely true. Those were the best orgasms I had ever experienced in my life. And since then I WANT to get them again... :yummy:
Hope you can get more of those soon. Do you orgasm like that during sex too?

[nerdyniky]

Hope you can get more of those soon. Do you orgasm like that during sex too?

You bet. :D I really hope you will be right, I just need them again. :yes: Sadly I didnt have sex with anybody, only with myself, so I wasnt able to try myself during sex. Not yet...
What about you? Can you have multiple orgasms during intercourse? If yes, how? :)

[ClaireHofmann]

You bet. :D I really hope you will be right, I just need them again. :yes: Sadly I didnt have sex with anybody, only with myself, so I wasnt able to try myself during sex. Not yet...
What about you? Can you have multiple orgasms during intercourse? If yes, how? :)
Yes, I always orgasm multiple times during intercourse, I've always been like this. Usually in less than 4 minutes of intercourse I'm already having my first orgasm. I orgasm so easily.

[nerdyniky]

Yes, I always orgasm multiple times during intercourse, I've always been like this. Usually in less than 4 minutes of intercourse I'm already having my first orgasm. I orgasm so easily.

Woow, this sounds really hot: multiple orgasm every times. Im so jealous of you. :yeah: This less than 4 minutes thing is for me a new life goal from now... :D How many orgasms do you have as usual during a session?

[ClaireHofmann]

Woow, this sounds really hot: multiple orgasm every times. Im so jealous of you. :yeah: This less than 4 minutes thing is for me a new life goal from now... :D How many orgasms do you have as usual during a session?
It really depends. During masturbation, if I'm really horny I can keep going until I have like 7 orgasms, but I usually have 2-3 per session and that's it.

During intercourse it really depends of how good the guy is with his penis. The most I've ever had was 9 orgasms in one night, he was really good. But I usually have 2-4 orgasms during intercourse. I almost always orgasm before the guy.

[nerdyniky]

this sounds so amazing. is it true then that the ones coming after the first one really get stronger for most girls?
I need to try and see if I can have more than one!

Heey, I also highly recommend to try it. Im sure you will think about it afterwards just as the best risky idea of your life. ;) Maybe you'll need to stay calm for a half minute or so, because of the hipersensitivity of your clit, but after that you can start the ride of the waves... :yummy: Good luck, girl! :lol:

[ClaireHofmann]

Good lord I’m jealous of you, girl. 9? 😳😱
Yes, that night was totally crazy. He was just so good, hitting my gspot very consistently and he was just so amazing with my clit.

[nerdyniky]

It really depends. During masturbation, if I'm really horny I can keep going until I have like 7 orgasms, but I usually have 2-3 per session and that's it.

During intercourse it really depends of how good the guy is with his penis. The most I've ever had was 9 orgasms in one night, he was really good. But I usually have 2-4 orgasms during intercourse. I almost always orgasm before the guy.

Woow, Claire, I'm speechless. 7 and 9 times. You lucky thing... :wub: You could say, you are a serial cummer... :D So I think I need to practice WAY more times than until now, if I want to achieve this level of yours... :P
How are differences between those orgasms for you? Stronger and stronger, or waving... ?

[ClaireHofmann]

Woow, Claire, I'm speechless. 7 and 9 times. You lucky thing... :wub: You could say, you are a serial cummer... :D So I think I need to practice WAY more times than until now, if I want to achieve this level of yours... :P
How are differences between those orgasms for you? Stronger and stronger, or waving... ?
During masturbation, the first one is usually the strongest one for me but they all feel really nice.

During sex is very different, they don't really follow any pattern but they're usually better than the ones I get from masturbating.

[Jill01]

During masturbation, the first one is usually the strongest one for me but they all feel really nice.

During sex is very different, they don't really follow any pattern but they're usually better than the ones I get from masturbating.

Maybe you can have that experience too? You'll never know!!!!

;):):D

[Jill01]

It really depends. During masturbation, if I'm really horny I can keep going until I have like 7 orgasms, but I usually have 2-3 per session and that's it.

During intercourse it really depends of how good the guy is with his penis. The most I've ever had was 9 orgasms in one night, he was really good. But I usually have 2-4 orgasms during intercourse. I almost always orgasm before the guy.

Maybe you can have that experience too? You'll never know!!!!

Sorry, I made a mistake by quoting you.

[len05]

Heey, I also highly recommend to try it. Im sure you will think about it afterwards just as the best risky idea of your life. ;) Maybe you'll need to stay calm for a half minute or so, because of the hipersensitivity of your clit, but after that you can start the ride of the waves... :yummy: Good luck, girl! :lol:

i tried last week several times at night.
after taking a break i once managed a second time. it was nice, but the first one was way stronger.
I think I need to practice to have two or more :-)

[Katie2003]

I've never had vaginal intercourse from a boy, but during masturbation can always get multiples if I stay on it long enough. They happen much more quickly and are much more intense with the help of a vibrator. :)

6-7-8 in the course of an hour or so is very possible. Same thing when having oral done on me by either my boyfriend or another girl.

[nerdyniky]

i tried last week several times at night.
after taking a break i once managed a second time. it was nice, but the first one was way stronger.
I think I need to practice to have two or more :-)

Hi Lena,
I'm soo happy you gave it a try. :D Your first attempt was also succesful, it wasn't so powerful though. For me the second one can be softer as well (maybe the third one too), but if I persist, the fourth one always will be earth-shattering...
Dont give up :) Practice makes perfect... ;)

[nerdyniky]

I've never had vaginal intercourse from a boy, but during masturbation can always get multiples if I stay on it long enough. They happen much more quickly and are much more intense with the help of a vibrator. :)

6-7-8 in the course of an hour or so is very possible. Same thing when having oral done on me by either my boyfriend or another girl.

Woow Katie, this sounds really amazing. Always multiples and 7-8 times per hour... :yummy: You are a very lucky thing, especially because of your vibrator. Until now I was just dreaming about one, but from now on I do WANT to get a vibrator. :wub:

For me this multiplies were extraordinary surprises, but... honestly said... on my birthday I made a secret vow for myself... to make this summer the most orgasmic one in my life... :P and now I know how Ill manage this... :yes: Haha you inspired me... :yes:

[MagicGinnySurprise]

Woow Katie, this sounds really amazing. Always multiples and 7-8 times per hour... :yummy: You are a very lucky thing, especially because of your vibrator. Until now I was just dreaming about one, but from now on I do WANT to get a vibrator. :wub:

For me this multiplies were extraordinary surprises, but... honestly said... on my birthday I made a secret vow for myself... to make this summer the most orgasmic one in my life... :P and now I know how Ill manage this... :yes: Haha you inspired me... :yes:

I've gotten that a few times, even without a vibrator. For me the key is after the first orgasm when my clit feels overstimulated, to keep going. I can get to a point where it's just like waves, one right after the other.

[nerdyniky]

I've gotten that a few times, even without a vibrator. For me the key is after the first orgasm when my clit feels overstimulated, to keep going. I can get to a point where it's just like waves, one right after the other.

Woow Ginny, this sounds very intense... To keep going during the hipersensitive phase sounds like a torture for me... :eek: But it worth the trouble, I think. :P So I surely give it a try as soon as I just can... :yummy:

[Brigje]

Most of the time, I can have multiple orgasms when I masturbate or receive oral.
The best orgasms for me are those after I have been edging (or edged) for a while.

[gurquenjen]

Woow Katie, this sounds really amazing. Always multiples and 7-8 times per hour... :yummy: You are a very lucky thing, especially because of your vibrator. Until now I was just dreaming about one, but from now on I do WANT to get a vibrator. :wub:

For me this multiplies were extraordinary surprises, but... honestly said... on my birthday I made a secret vow for myself... to make this summer the most orgasmic one in my life... :P and now I know how Ill manage this... :yes: Haha you inspired me... :yes:

Getting a vibrator was really worth it. I think my most orgasmic summer was when I was 18. I can't share much more on here without getting into story-telling detail that tends to be frowned upon on this site...but, I highly recommend magic wand vibrators.

[gurquenjen]

Yeah, I highly recommend to go on playing after your first Orgasm. Sometimes I tried it, and mine became just stronger and stronger one after another... until I once reached the fourth one, and I was totally a shaking quivering mess, my heart was racing, but the last O was sooo intense I couldnt move for long minutes after it. My body was full of pleasure, and I was in another level of being... :yes:

See, this is why I kind of feel bad for guys. We get to enjoy this, as often as we can stand it (and sometimes that one time more that hurts a bit more than you'd like)...but guys, wonderful as they are at some things, can orgasm, at most, maybe four times a night.

[MagicGinnySurprise]

Woow Ginny, this sounds very intense... To keep going during the hipersensitive phase sounds like a torture for me... :eek: But it worth the trouble, I think. :P So I surely give it a try as soon as I just can... :yummy:

Make sure you do it in bed... I actually blacked out once it was so intense.

[gurquenjen]

Make sure you do it in bed... I actually blacked out once it was so intense.

Do you ever need to put a towel down? I often do, but part of this is because I usually masturbate after getting out of the shower and going back to my room and just thinking 'well, I'm already naked (and usually horny because I'll have started masturbating in the shower and only stopped to dry (most of) myself off a little), I might as well keep going.' This is, however, not advisable if you have to go to work or school within the next, say, hour...

[nerdyniky]

Getting a vibrator was really worth it. I think my most orgasmic summer was when I was 18. I can't share much more on here without getting into story-telling detail that tends to be frowned upon on this site...but, I highly recommend magic wand vibrators.

OMG, I did IT. Today I got a chance to be alone and try the multiple waving with a vibrating toothbrush. Last weekend I bought it. :D I made a resolve to not stop vibrating my clit, not even if it will hurt. So I persist after the first one, and it was just as a constant lightning what I started feel. Now my new record is 6 O during a session... :lol: thank you for the advice :wub:
Sorry about my crap English.

[MagicGinnySurprise]

OMG, I did IT. Today I got a chance to be alone and try the multiple waving with a vibrating toothbrush. Last weekend I bought it. :D I made a resolve to not stop vibrating my clit, not even if it will hurt. So I persist after the first one, and it was just as a constant lightning what I started feel. Now my new record is 6 O during a session... :lol: thank you for the advice :wub:
Sorry about my crap English.

You go! It's awesome, isn't it?:yeah:

[nerdyniky]

You go! It's awesome, isn't it?:yeah:

Yeah, it is... I hardly can breathe during the 4-5-6... I think my nerve sistem was just burned out from the intensity :lol:

[MagicGinnySurprise]

Yeah, it is... I hardly can breathe during the 4-5-6... I think my nerve sistem was just burned out from the intensity :lol:

I actually blacked out once, like couldn't see, couldn't breathe. Did you get to the point where it's just constant?

[nerdyniky]

I actually blacked out once, like couldn't see, couldn't breathe. Did you get to the point where it's just constant?

It was the a same for me. Honestly I started to be scared, what if I will kill myself... :D Yeah, I think. Between 4-5-6 I didnt really felt the interspace...

[MagicGinnySurprise]

It was the a same for me. Honestly I started to be scared, what if I will kill myself... :D Yeah, I think. Between 4-5-6 I didnt really felt the interspace...

I don't think you can kill yourself with orgasms. But you'd die happy.;)

[nerdyniky]

I don't think you can kill yourself with orgasms. But you'd die happy.;)

Yeahhh its sure I 'd be happy then... :P

[Brigje]

OMG, I did IT. Today I got a chance to be alone and try the multiple waving with a vibrating toothbrush. Last weekend I bought it. :D I made a resolve to not stop vibrating my clit, not even if it will hurt. So I persist after the first one, and it was just as a constant lightning what I started feel. Now my new record is 6 O during a session... :lol: thank you for the advice :wub:
Sorry about my crap English.

Those were a lot of happy waves going over you :D

[nerdyniky]

Those were a lot of happy waves going over you :D

OMG, yeah... :D Those were... :wub: and gonna soon... :yummy: and forever... :P

[Common.Name]

Wow~! Well this sounds far too exciting. Go girls!!

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Hi most of my orgasms are quite strong, for various reasons like doing iy with some BBF, but mostly because I do edging for anything around 30 minutes.

[Emm6969]

I feel like I'm getting better with experience lol, now I know how to better stimulate myself for a much longer time, so my orgasms are also better than they used to be :P

[Lucy G]

Mine always vary, I guess it depends on how horny and relaxed I am. I don't really set a time to do it but it's usually when I go to bed or sometimes just before I get up in the morning. I don't know about anyone else but I get like REALLY horny a couple of days before my period and I may do it more depending on the situation but he first one is usually has the WOWWWWWWWW!!!! factor!! ;) :D

Yes this can also happen to me

[Katie2003]

I don't think you can kill yourself with orgasms. But you'd die happy.;)

If I did, it would undoubtedly take the undertaker a week to wipe the smile off my face :D

[Katrinchen]

.......
For me this multiplies were extraordinary surprises, but... honestly said... on my birthday I made a secret vow for myself... to make this summer the most orgasmic one in my life... :P and now I know how Ill manage this... :yes: Haha you inspired me... :yes:

hehe Niky :wub:
i wish for you you can "manage this summer" :yes::wub:

[yeehaw]

This has become too inappropriate. :locked: