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Henry333
June 23rd, 2018, 06:04 PM
After all this time and all this waiting my gf was broken up with me because she doesn't think she can give me 100 % in a relationship due to her anxiety. I can't be mad with her, but I just don't know how to feel

Phosphene
June 23rd, 2018, 07:05 PM
I'm really sorry :( I know from your posts that you were always cooperative and patient with her about her anxiety. Maybe once she is able to cope with it, you can have a more successful relationship. I hope she's getting help - the fact that she broke up with you over her anxiety shows that she's letting it have an unhealthy amount of control over her. Don’t take the break-up personally... yes it is hurtful, but it’s a matter of poor timing as she hasn’t yet learned how to effectively cope. Again, I'm sorry to hear this, especially seeing how committed you were to being there for her.

ska8er
June 23rd, 2018, 09:11 PM
Sure ur going to feel hurt but she was
honest with u and told u y she decided
to break up. Continue to b friends with
her and tell her u will help her cope if
she needs support and after awhile
maybe she will get back with u but
for now give her space.

lliam
June 23rd, 2018, 09:26 PM
Mourn for a while and then move on, but stay connected.

inactiveguy678
June 24th, 2018, 04:06 AM
If this is the one I replied to. I'm very sorry for what happened. I'm really glad she realised this though and did not lead you much longer like what you thought about the last time. Just use this time a grieving period and hopefully things will be much better.

Jordan99
June 24th, 2018, 07:44 AM
You're young. Many, many other girls will come and go out of your life. Don't fret.

HeyYo
June 25th, 2018, 12:09 AM
If possible, try to stay friends with her. You seem to really care about her and are willing to support her. So just keep being supportive as a friend and maybe she'll realize that you can give 100%? I'm rooting for you dude.