cheating gf >?

[Vicar]

Well yea the title says it all ! but i need some info for what to look for in her behavior, i think i love the girl and don't want to let go. but if she is cheating on me its a different story, I don't wanna chase after some one that could do something like this to me. Pls any info is welcome

[DiamondsGirl]

Hang on a second... so do you have any concrete evidence that she is cheating on you?

[Vicar]

Well no. but she left Her phone chat open and i was a chat with a guy and hey were flirting.

[ScottishCanary]

I certainly wouldn't do anything unless you know she is cheating and it's very tough to gain good evidence unless you go through her phone/texts when she's not looking. Just keep an eye on the situation and if anything else raises your suspicions talk to her about it. For example if you see more flirty messages between her and other guys just let her know that you feel uncomfortable with her talking to other guys in that way. Hope that helps!

[ninja789]

I agree with Ana
wait a while and see what happens
It may not be as you think either - I flirt with some of my friends as joke :)

[Meganium]

That's not solid enough to assume she's cheating. Wait this out and keep an eye open for anything else before you do something rash.

[Harley Quinn]

Just because she's talking to another guy doesn't mean she's actually cheating on you, don't jump to conclusions because you're just going to hurt yourself doing so. I'd relax a bit and stop worrying, honestly. Also, you shouldn't really be looking at her phone, I'm sure you wouldn't want her to look at yours either.

[Dwemer]

Just talk to her. Tell her your worried your feeling uncomfortabe and ask her is there is another boy that u would rather know now then later.

[Vicar]

Well yes i did talk to her and told her that I am worried about her recent behavior. Mmmm that didn't go so well she started attacking me as if I am the who is flirting and that she is free to talk to here male friend / the guy i mentioned i didn't know of as her friend /. Well I am not gonna be threated as a fool. So i went searching for a phone soft of some type to see the chats and calls. well i found 1 and installed it on her phone just wanting to see if im right. And i was right she is not only flirting but also apparently dating some other dude.... well im mad now.

[Harley Quinn]

You spied on her? I'm sorry but that's ridiculous, if you don't want to be with her and you're constantly jealous and wanting to know her every move, you need to break up. Spying is not only manipulative, it's disgusting.

[Vicar]

Yea this makes me bad right >? Some girls logic that is. IF she want s to be with somebody else She should tell me that its over and we both MOVE On. not to mess around and then omg i didnt want it to happen that was.... Yea i spied on Her and yes i know its LOW but no LOWER than taking somebody elses d....ck when you have a damn love relationship.....
and when i said i mad I'm gona publicly dump her in a damn nasty way so she knows better next time. And just so you know CHEATING is the LOWEST thing any 1 can do to somebody else.

[Dwemer]

What Siobhan says is true. If your jealousy goes sofar as to spy on your girlfriend your relationship is already as good as gone. She is wrong for cheating but your also wrong if u spied.

[Saint]

Yea this makes me bad right >? Some girls logic that is. IF she want s to be with somebody else She should tell me that its over and we both MOVE On. not to mess around and then omg i didnt want it to happen that was.... Yea i spied on Her and yes i know its LOW but no LOWER than taking somebody elses d....ck when you have a damn love relationship.....
and when i said i mad I'm gona publicly dump her in a damn nasty way so she knows better next time. And just so you know CHEATING is the LOWEST thing any 1 can do to somebody else.

See,the thing about spying is that it's against someone else's rights. cheating is never good. But then again,two wrongs don't make a right. It's just something you should know,instead of justifying your act.

In the future though,I'd suggest building up that trust in your girl,because honestly it seems like you were snooping on her phone for no apparent reason at mind,other then feeling insecure in the first place. That right there is a bad sign for a relationship. Keep in mind that trust is the key to a healthy one.

And personally I'd just be the bigger man here and walk away instead of "publicly dumping",but hey,it's your choice. :P

[Elysium]

Yea this makes me bad right >? Some girls logic that is. IF she want s to be with somebody else She should tell me that its over and we both MOVE On. not to mess around and then omg i didnt want it to happen that was.... Yea i spied on Her and yes i know its LOW but no LOWER than taking somebody elses d....ck when you have a damn love relationship.....
and when i said i mad I'm gona publicly dump her in a damn nasty way so she knows better next time. And just so you know CHEATING is the LOWEST thing any 1 can do to somebody else.
Yes, she's definitely in the wrong, but by spying on her, so are you. Two wrongs don't equal a right.

[KaraaaHope]

Jealousy doesn't stop cheating, it only delays it. Meaning you only delay the inevitable. If you think she's considering it, either let her go and move on, or wait it out to see what she actually does. She may surprise you, you never know! But don't worry or start taking bad steps to discover what she's doing. Cheating never feels good to the person who finds out their s/o is doing it to them, but it's certainly better to let it happen EARLIER rather than be jealous and try to stop her...just to have her do it LATER anyway. Trying to stop someone usually makes them want to do it more. Good luck..

[Croconaw]

You need to break up with her. Obviously, this relationship isn't working out.