Modesty

[ksdnfkfr]

(oh god he's going to talk about autism again)
Okay because of you know what, I have a lack of self awareness.
Meaning I don't think about what my appearance looks to others, and am not self conscious much.
Anyways due to this, I have a habit sometimes of wandering from by bedroom into the rest of the house with nothing on.
Now that I am showing obvious signs of puberty, do you think I should try putting better controls of that, or just not concern myself?
I mean if you / your family were visiting our house, would it seem rude or gross to you if I happened to trundle by with nothing on and possibly even have an erection? (I'm small, pale, skinny and awkward so not exactly sexy to look at).

[NeuroTiger]

(oh god he's going to talk about autism again)
Okay because of you know what, I have a lack of self awareness.
Meaning I don't think about what my appearance looks to others, and am not self conscious much.
Anyways due to this, I have a habit sometimes of wandering from by bedroom into the rest of the house with nothing on.
Now that I am showing obvious signs of puberty, do you think I should try putting better controls of that, or just not concern myself?
I mean if you / your family were visiting our house, would it seem rude or gross to you if I happened to trundle by with nothing on and possibly even have an erection? (I'm small, pale, skinny and awkward so not exactly sexy to look at).

As a sign of respect for others, obviously it is better to put something on especially while there are relatives at your place.
Being autistic allows you certain privileges, though.
Being a guest at your place and knowing about your autism, I'll certainly tolerate those kind of behaviors for sure. ;)

[ksdnfkfr]

Being autistic allows you certain privileges, though.

True, but don't want to overplay the 'autism card'.
"He's autistic so no matter what he does, deal with it".
Know of one teen on another forum who is a naturist, and I guess his parents attitude is,
"that's his prerogative as a naturist, so if it bothers you don't come over".
With me is not a preference at all, just something that happens unplanned occasionally.

[NeuroTiger]

True, but don't want to overplay the 'autism card'.
"He's autistic so no matter what he does, deal with it".
Know of one teen on another forum who is a naturist, and I guess his parents attitude is,
"that's his prerogative as a naturist, so if it bothers you don't come over".
With me is not a preference at all, just something that happens unplanned occasionally.

Since it's unplanned, we are bound to use the autism card, imo.

[Gamma Male]

If your parents are already used to it, I doubt they care very much. It would probably be kinda uncomfortable for non-relatives and people who don't you very well though.
(Not that I would mind...:P)

[ksdnfkfr]

If your parents are already used to it, I doubt they care very much. It would probably be kinda uncomfortable for non-relatives and people who don't you very well though.
(Not that I would mind...:P)

Well that's when is an issue, if company of some sort is over. And no one expects it, just surprise!

[Gamma Male]

Well that's when is an issue, if company of some sort is over. And no one expects it, just surprise!

Yeah. I bet the expressions on peoples faces when you walk casually into a room without any clothes on is priceless though. :D O_O

[ninja789]

Honestly I would rather not have you trundling about in the nip in front of me. Especially if you have started to show puberty I think you should try and keep yourself covered up when company is over
unless you know they are comfortable with you being naked :)

[ksdnfkfr]

Yeah. I bet the expressions on peoples faces when you walk casually into a room without any clothes on is priceless though. :D O_O

I hardly notice expressions at all, they don't register to me.
All I care about is making my way to the kitchen or garage or w/e.
Which prolly makes it worse me basically acting like they are invisible, but yeah xD

[Dwemer]

I wouldnt worry about it tomuch. But if u are aware then just put something on, its nothing bad if u forget.

[ScottishCanary]

I guess it really depends on your family and how they view it. I would try to put something on before wandering around the house but if your family don't really mind then I guess it's OK if you forget. If you have visitors round or are expecting them, I would make an extra special effort to put clothes on. I guess it just depends on your family and vistors views on nudity which vary considerably. In my family nudity is an absolute no-no and if my sister, brother or I were to walk round with anything less than our underwear on we'd get told off by our parents. Then again some families are different.

[backjruton]

(oh god he's going to talk about autism again)
Okay because of you know what, I have a lack of self awareness.
Meaning I don't think about what my appearance looks to others, and am not self conscious much.
Anyways due to this, I have a habit sometimes of wandering from by bedroom into the rest of the house with nothing on.
Now that I am showing obvious signs of puberty, do you think I should try putting better controls of that, or just not concern myself?
I mean if you / your family were visiting our house, would it seem rude or gross to you if I happened to trundle by with nothing on and possibly even have an erection? (I'm small, pale, skinny and awkward so not exactly sexy to look at).

Ask people. If they don't think it's a problem, don't change it if you don't think it will get a bad reaction. I do a lot of stupid shit I can't help and never get a negative reaction, everyone just laughs at me, but obviously when it comes to being naked around people this... could be different? :confused: Personally I love it when people laugh at me if I'm the cause of it, but only if I know them well enough. I personally wouldn't be bothered in the slightest, especially after recent conversations and what I've told people in college... :D

I struggle with reading expressions and signs sometimes too. In ways it's for the better but when it comes to reading signs of friendship and possibly, just possibly, more than that :D because I don't know if grabbing someone's cheek while smiling actually means anything except for friendship.

[mychalo]

If possible I think it would be respectful for you to have a robe or even underwear on when visitors are at your house, especially adult visitors. Your friends might be more understanding. Since you are growing and getting sudden erections you probably need to cover up a little more.

At my house with a bunch of boys and 1 bathroom there always seems to be someone naked in some part of the house, and we do get hard, can't be helped at times. When it's just us boys no problem, but we don't do it with guests in the house.

[Swagging god]

I wouldn't care if I was your family....but they may take a different view. Age and gender could play a role in how they react. Guys know that's how we are sometimes...and it's co bro...I do it when I am around friends.

[MechaSniper]

At least wear shorts.

[radsniper]

if it's not very often then your fine if it happens a lot then i would take safety precautions like if the main spot is the living room or family room then put an extra towel or a pair under the couch just in case

[ksdnfkfr]

It's funny a guy my age posted something similar in another forum and got a lot of criticism for it. He didn't have autism or anything, just decided to start parading around nude. But anyways, have come up with a good system for avoiding that in the future so it shouldn't be a problem any longer.

[Canadian Dream]

I agree with Tomtiger to a certain degree, as to showing signs of respect to your family, but even though autism gives you privileges, it is still a risky move. I'd say it would be better if you did not do that when relatives are over, but I'm sure you can get away with it if you're careful.