Perfect Orgasm

[scottishlooby]

So earlier today I managed to get a pretty much 10.0 on the orgasm scale and afterwards I was thinking...what makes for the perfect orgasm? I was thinking what things I usually need and it got me thinking it might make a good post on here to compare.

For me the following seem to make a big difference...

1. Privacy - Not distracted by the fear of someone walking in or overhearing. Also I'm free to move around wherever, not be stuck under the covers
2. Time - Not to be like "right I've got 10 minutes then I need to get up/go out/study/do chores/whatever else/etc"
3. Edging - Kinda tied into time but also sometimes I get impatient and cant wait. The best ones for me are when I can just go on and on til it happens almost as a reflex
4. Mental state - I get anxiety and even though I do find an orgasm is good for chilling me out, if my brain is still thinking about 5 things at once I cant really get fully into it
5. Sort of related but sometimes I'll be like fantasising or whatever and my brain will just come up with something weird and I'll be like WTF??
6. Complete luck and randomness - sometimes I'll do everything right but it just feels ok, other times it takes me by surprise and blows me away.

What do you guys think? Whats the secret for you? Or is there anything that when it happens, ruins it for you?

[scottishlooby]

One other thing for me is the time after wards to just kinda lie and chill out. I hate when you have had an amazing orgasm but then you have to jump up right away because you are late or someones shouting on you etc

[Pultost]

Your list pretty much sums it up for me. Time and privacy are clearly the most important ones, having a task or whatever hanging over your head can really kill the motivation. Of course, things can still happen that distracts you, but those things you mention definitely better the chances of having the perfect orgasm. Of course, there are times when I do all that, take my time, edging etc., and the orgasm is just a mild "breeze" through the body, and I'll be like: "That's it?" :P

[Dalcourt]

This is pretty much just promoting storytelling :locked: