Parents knowing what you've done sexually

[Harrier]

This is basically me wondering what other teens tell their parents. How open you are. And if "forced" what you are willing to tell them.

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

[mick01]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? My dad some when I was 13. And I hoped it would end soon and thankfully it did.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? no
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or ehat? my mom did and asked my dad to talk to me, who then told me to keep the door locked
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? yes, and I have been honest with them about a girl. They figured it out on their own that I was having sex with a boy.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you Since I've gotten caught, they know already.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). My dad talks about "wacking off too much" and my siblings all know we each masturbate.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? They just generally know I have sex and who its with, of course. I guess they know where sometimes too.They never know how well it goes tho.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? They already know.

[Harrier]

Even if it's assumed that your parents know that you have sex and that you masturbate I bet it woukd be difficult for most teens to say YES I do/have sex and I do masturbate when I'm in my room" It's sn embarrassing topic for many.

[Ashley2004]

I hope my parents don't know what I've been doing. We never had the talk. My mom just told me about periods and stuff and said I can ask her if I have any other questions. I've never been caught masturbating or having sex and hope it stays that way. But I would like to get on birth control so I'm sure I'll have to talk to her about it at some point.

[Tsall]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes. I was 12, and both my mom and Dad sat me down. I pretty much just listened and didn’t say anything.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? My dad gave me a condom once.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? My mom has, she walked in my room, saw me, and walked away.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? Yes. My dad did.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you): yes. I used to take long showers about a year ago, so they sat me down, asked me if I was masturbating, I said yes, and they told me to do it in the bathroom only after everyone else showered, and not to have the water running.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). Nope
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? I would. I’m very open and honest with them.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? I have and did.

[Candy in CT]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?Started at like 9 or so with Mom talking. It never was just a "Talk" more like just talking. Having a older sister helped
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Pill at 14 knew about condoms a long time. Have my own.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? A few times, does not care. Even gave me toys and told me these will not knock you up.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? Nope Mom just knew. Same with Dad.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? Never had to.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? Nope just know it's normal. To use the shower head, I would have to shower doing a hand stand.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? They both know. As Dad said. "Once the smoke is out of the bottle you can't put it back in it".
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? No need to. I know my Mom does it too as well as my sisters.

[inactiveguy678]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?

Not really they did set it up so my older siblings had the talk with me they felt I could relate better with my siblings and the fact that they were adults at that time could be the reason. As each sibling explained something different at different times I suspect they planned it. Eldest brother explained the biological aspect, second oldest brother explained the dating stuff, sister talked about how to treat a lady properly and consent etc.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

No they don't I think they are against contraceptives being Catholic and what not.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?

I think they do. Our house has some office staff on it when my parents became older and couldn't deal with working outside of the house. The staff know more or less about my sexual activities since I usually tell them to distract my parents especially if there is a booty call. However, one time one of them forgot to distract my parents and they walked in on me but I had the covers up and was pretending to sleep. Don't know if they knew or not but it was so weird being completely covered when it wasn't so cold.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

Dad did when I was 14 and was out with a lot of friends who happened to girls late a t night. But I denied it don't know if I was convincing.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you

No

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').

Yes i think they do. Siblings sleep over during weekend visits. Sometimes when a girl is in my room side comments about sexual activity or such are made. Especially if they comment about not needing to masturbate or something in that vein

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?

See number 4

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? probably not.

My mom terms masturbation as playing with your parts and if they are so old they call it that they deserve to be in the dark

[Alex_Swim]

1. Yes, Dad did a few times in stages from like 10-12, Was not that bad
2. No, But dad see;s them on the Amazon Orders
3. Yep, Dad walked in on me when I was 13, he left, later told me to not over do it, was totally normal, and now he knocks when my door is closed.
4. No
5. No, but dad knows I do,
6. Nope
7. Dad knows I have sex with my GF, He reminds me to play safe, and to repect her.
8. Sure.

[RCT109]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?Started at like 9 or so with Mom talking. It never was just a "Talk" more like just talking. Having a older sister helped
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Pill at 14 knew about condoms a long time. Have my own.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? A few times, does not care. Even gave me toys and told me these will not knock you up.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? Nope Mom just knew. Same with Dad.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? Never had to.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? Nope just know it's normal. To use the shower head, I would have to shower doing a hand stand.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? They both know. As Dad said. "Once the smoke is out of the bottle you can't put it back in it".
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? No need to. I know my Mom does it too as well as my sisters.


they bought u toys thats really awesome

[Katie2003]

This is basically me wondering what other teens tell their parents. How open you are. And if "forced" what you are willing to tell them.

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? There was no "official" sit down talk, but ever since I was little my parents have been open about discussing anything. I have asked both my mom and my older sis questions dozens of times and been given accurate information and honest answers.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Girls in my family are strictly forbidden to have vaginal intercourse before age 18 but everything else is permissable. My mom has personal reasons for not allowing us to be on the BC pills but she will allow the shots at an appropriate age.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Mom has walked in my room, or in the bathroom while I was showering as we have an open door policy. There's no reason to apologize and no, I didn't stop.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? They know exactly what I do with the girls I date and with my boyfriend, including the sort of sexual play we participate in.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you Don't need to ask.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). They know we do and encourage us to safely enjoy ourselves
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? Yes, I always tell mom everything I do sexually with all my partners.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Def, why wouldn't I? It's natural and healthy and nothing to be ashamed of.

[Pultost]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Had the "talk" last year. It was a bit awkward, but all in all it went well.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Nope.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masturbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Thankfully, no.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you). No. It's none of their business anyway.

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). My brother and I tease each other about it, but not in the presence of our parents.

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? It's really none of their business, but if I was asked, it would just be stupid to lie about it.

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Same as above.

[ska8er]

Most parents have a sixth sense.
They were teens once and if some
thing is out of hand(no pun)then
if they r concerned they will ask
but its uncomfortable to answer
and most teens probably don't.

[pumpkineater34]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?no they never gave me the talk
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? no I'm a virgin anyways
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? no luckily. haha
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?no
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you. nope
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').no
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? I'm a virgin, but maybe I would. idk
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?id probably shoo it off and change the subject

[TessTheGreat]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Mum has talked about it a few times because I'm doing puberty at the moment.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Noooo
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? I'm very careful and they won't catch me.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No but they know I wouldn't
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you. No
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). No lol
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? I haven't anyway
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? I don't think they would ask tbh

[london98765]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes, we had it at 12 when i fully hit puberty. i listened and it was quite helpful

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? no

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? my mum has caught me before, and has said make sure you lock the bathroom door i dont want you doing it near me

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? yes, my mum

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you they know i do it

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). no not really but me and my sister have some banter

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? i have only told my mum that i have had sex, i wouldnt tell her who or where or when tbh

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? well they know

[Jake445]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes, well, they tried. My sister and I were eleven but we gently stoped them as we already knew about everything.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No
3. Have your parents ever caught you masturbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Not yet, and probably won't
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? Not yet, and probably won't.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you) No but they probably suspect.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). Not with our parents no, but I know my sister does it and she knows I do it.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? I'd probably leave it at a yes or no for now.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Yes

[Leena_2003]

Well my mom did talk to me about two years ago but just the usual stuff about periods and being careful and I told her we learn these things at school too. So it was a short discussion and not much of an embarrassing situation. We haven't talked about this subject since then, except my mom now and then reminds me that I can talk to her about sex any time if I need to.

Our parents were teenagers too, so I am sure they know we do things like masturbate and experiment. I think my parents probably know it's better not to interfere or make a big deal out of it.... and I am happy they respect my privacy.

[Harrier]

Thanks for all the responses. It's weird how all parents parent (but not surprising). Just weird how different styles work i guess

I do agree with a lot of people that parents were once teens and probably have a sixth sense. But i think it's funny what parents DON'T know. If they lost their virginity at age 14, they assume that we will be just like them. Not 3 years sooner or 3 years later. And not to a boy and a girl at the same time (ok I made that up, but you know what I mean)

Even gave me toys and told me these will not knock you up.

For some reason I think it's cool when moms give their daughters toys. It's weird cuz I find it creepy when dad give their sons condoms

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes, well, they tried. My sister and I were eleven but we gently stoped them as we already knew about everything.


I find it hard to believe you knew EVERYTHING at age 11. I knew a lot but didn't know everything. Shit I still don't probably

This is basically me wondering what other teens tell their parents. How open you are. And if "forced" what you are willing to tell them.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? They know exactly what I do with the girls I date and with my boyfriend, including the sort of sexual play we participate in.

Wow! They know the sort of play you participate in? Like you tell them EVERYTHING? Positions and stuff? How long it lasted and stuff?

[Jake445]

I find it hard to believe you knew EVERYTHING at age 11. I knew a lot but didn't know everything. Shit I still don't probably!

Yeah, of course we didn't know everything but our parents tried to tell us about puberty and that masturbating was just fine and to use protection when having sex etc. So nothing we didn't know at that age, they didn't get too detailed so we gently assured them we'd be just fine.

[Ragle]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you?

They tried but acknowledged in shame, that I already knew more about the topic as they'd ever experienced in their lifes.



2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

I'm a dude who decides on his own such a stuff.




3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating?

Nope.



4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

They wouldn't even think of asking me such a thing.



5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating?

They wouldn't dare.


6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate?

Nope.



7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them?

Don't you have anything else to do but bothering me?



8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

Better take care of the peace around the globe, so that it's worthwhile to bring grandchildren into the world.

or

Mom, Dad, gratulation to grandparenthood.

[jamie_n5]

Default Parents knowing what you've done sexually
This is basically me wondering what other teens tell their parents. How open you are. And if "forced" what you are willing to tell them.

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? My mom had the sex talk with me when I was 9. I already knew most all of it but I was polite about it.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No but they know I have them.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masturbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Never been caught.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? I am sure they know my bf and I have sex.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you? No but I am sure they figure I do.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). No I don't masturbate in the bathroom hardly ever and never in the shower.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? Again I am positive they know my bf and I have sex.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Sure why not.

[Jordan99]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? My mother explained the facts of life to me when I was pre-pubescent. I listened intently.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? My mom took me to get on the pill when I was 15 even though I wasn't having penetrative sex yet.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Never been caught.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? We've discussed it.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? No.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? No, we are al respectful towards each other.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? They know but no, they don't ask for specifics. That would be totally rude and disrespectful.

[Katie2003]

Thanks for all the responses. It's weird how all parents parent (but not surprising). Just weird how different styles work i guess

I do agree with a lot of people that parents were once teens and probably have a sixth sense. But i think it's funny what parents DON'T know. If they lost their virginity at age 14, they assume that we will be just like them. Not 3 years sooner or 3 years later. And not to a boy and a girl at the same time (ok I made that up, but you know what I mean)

For some reason I think it's cool when moms give their daughters toys. It's weird cuz I find it creepy when dad give their sons condoms

Wow! They know the sort of play you participate in? Like you tell them EVERYTHING? Positions and stuff? How long it lasted and stuff?

I have had lengthy discussions with my mom and older sis about various things I have done with the girls I date, and with my boyfriend. If dad asked, I wouldn't hesitate to tell him and answer any questions. I think it's my mom's right to know, and I'm totally OK with being open enough to share details with her. Mom even let my older sis buy me toys a couple of years ago. She knows what I have, and exactly what I do with them.

[Brandon618]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes he did when I was about 11. Told me the basics and of my own development and things that would happen.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No condoms, but dad did give me lube
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Dad caught me when I first started and talked to me about it. He said the good stuff that it was normal and things like that. Then he gave me lube so I wouldn't "rub myself raw" as he said.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). Well dad knew when he caught me for sure
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? Don't think I'd tell them. Will see if it happens I guess.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Again, they are well aware of it.

[Zachary G]

My mom and I have a very open relationship, so we are able to talk to each other about anything and everything. She knows that I masturbate and she knows that I have sex.

[gurquenjen]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? I had the talk with my mother when I was 10, it covered most things including masturbation, albeit rather cursorily and more in a 'don't masturbate in public, if you want to do that in private, it's fine and healthy kind of way then in a 'this is what masturbation is' way.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? My mother put me on the pill when I was 13, but gave me condoms as well.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masturbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?
Both parents have walked in on me at different times. They usually just apologize and go about their day.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? Yes. In this case they were wondering who had made use of their bed while they were out of town for the weekend. I lied and said it was me to cover for my kid sister. They just asked that I wash the sheets next time...I think she might have gotten in a bit more trouble because at the time they were not aware that she was sexually active yet.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you)
Yes, my mother will often ask 'All clear?' before coming into my room or that of any of my siblings.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').
There is a joke about my little sister and how she has a tendency to steal any new batteries to power her vibrator.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
If asked, I'd tell them that I do. I'd prefer to skip the details, though, because that's my business.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?
Yes, of course I do.

[azurzg]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?
Yes, it was awkward. I guess I was 13.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?
Nope.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?
Nope.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?
Nope. But they must know that I have.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you
Nope. But they must know that I do.

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').
Nope.

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
That would be weird, but yes I would tell them.

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?
That would be weird, but yes I would tell them.

[ClaireHofmann]

My parents have known that I'm sexually active since when I told them that I had sex with a boy for the first time (had already done it with other girls before that). They immediately got me on the pill. They trust me enough to know that I'm responsible when it comes to taking care of myself, I'm always very open to them.

[Zelenika]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes he did when I was about 11. Told me the basics and of my own development and things that would happen.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No condoms, but dad did give me lube
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Dad caught me when I first started and talked to me about it. He said the good stuff that it was normal and things like that. Then he gave me lube so I wouldn't "rub myself raw" as he said.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). Well dad knew when he caught me for sure
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? Don't think I'd tell them. Will see if it happens I guess.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Again, they are well aware of it.

That's nice that your dad was supportive. My older bro talked to me, which was nice, but not my dad (he died when I was younger). And my brother didn't give me lube - i just found his. LOL

[Char03]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? My Mum when I was 11-ish but it was mainly about periods and that was it.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No we're Catholic they would never do that.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? God no!
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? Nope
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you. No thank God.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). No, no no!!
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? No I wouldn't.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Nope.

[MasonBA]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age. Dad, we started talking about it when i was 8 or 9. Not intercourse but growing up, how my body will change at first. Then more detail as I got older
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Nope
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Dad caught me, he giggled and said to keep my door shut when I do it.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? No, my pretty sure mom knows I do it.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) No
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? Don't know
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Yes, there's nothing shameful about masturbating

[PrincessCassie]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Yes
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? No
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? No
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). No thats weird
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? Hell no
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Hell no

[annababy02]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? They gave me the talk when I was 14
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Put on the pill at 14 and I have my own condoms
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? No
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?No
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you) No, but I'm sure they know I do
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). No
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?No way that's my business
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Yeah probably because its a natural thing to do

[KristenM]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes. My mom and it was so awkward
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Yes
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? No
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? No
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). Thank god no
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? No!
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? No!

[MagicGinnySurprise]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? My mom gave me the talk twice... once when I was about 9 (my whole family is early bloomers), that one was mostly period related, and then again last summer, way too late lol. The first one wasn't enough and the second one was way TMI. She decided to massively overshare about her own sex life. Most of the really helpful info came from my sister's.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? My sister helped me get on BC, mom just asked if I was.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? No, they're pretty respectful of my privacy.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? Mom did last year.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? No
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). Not my parents, but my sister and brother in law and I tease each other about our sex lives a lot.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? My mom knows that I have, and some of the details, but there's a lot I wouldn't tell them.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Probably, but I doubt they care about that.

[geanyna]

My parents have known that I'm sexually active since when I told them that I had sex with a boy for the first time (had already done it with other girls before that). They immediately got me on the pill. They trust me enough to know that I'm responsible when it comes to taking care of myself, I'm always very open to them.

Just the same for me!

[kyle2003]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes. I was 11. Both of them talked to me but dad spoke the most. I've also had talks with my brothers.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No. But my oldest brother has condoms and has told me I can use them whenever I decide to start having sex.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? My dad did. I was outside at the pool when he caught me. He just reminded me that something like that should be done in private.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you) No.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').My brothers and I joke amongst ourselves, but my parents don't
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? I would tell them, because they have never lied to me when I ask a direct question.
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Yes. See #7 above. But there is no need to as my dad has caught me, but I think they already assumed it was taking place.

[Harrier]

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? [COLOR="red"]My dad did. I was outside at the pool when he caught me. He just reminded me that something like that should be done in private.

You jerked off outside at the pool? How old were you??

[Aussiekid2018]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes, I was 11 and I already knew most of it so I hoped it had finished soon.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? I havent been caught yet
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No, and probably never will
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you No
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). My older brother says things when no one else is around like "Hiws rubbing the stick going"
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? No
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Most likely not

[imanopenbook]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes they have at different times. My mom is more the talker to us but dad has said a few things. It's embarrassing a little.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No they havent given me condoms

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Yes I've been caught talked a little about it being ok to do but be more careful where I do it

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? no

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you sometimes have said that have a fast shower or that we have to leave at a certain time so to do what I need to do but be ready at whatever time.

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). More with my sisters and brother but my parents joke about the water bill sometimes or make a comment about things.

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
I'm not sure. I guess being bi is different too because do they mean with a boy or girl?
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? They know I do it.

[Falcons_11]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? Yes. Mom talked to me about sex when I was 11, almost 12. It wasn't helpful cause I already knew most of what she was telling me. I was glad when it was over.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? Never gave me any condoms.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masturbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? I was caught several times by mom. First time she gave me the talk. Second time she told me to close my door when I do it. Other times she just ignored me and left.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? No.

6. Is it a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? Never, although me and my sibs all masturbate.

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? Maybe, but it would depend on the circumstance and reason why the are asking me.

8. If you parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? They wouldn't ask me cause they already knows I masturbate.

[Tsall]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? I was 13 and my mom gave it to me. It was helpful, and I learned a lot from it but I wanted it to end.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? My mom gave me a condom when she gave me the talk

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? My mom did once. She just walked out of the room and we never talked about it again

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? No

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you? Yes, my dad asked why my door was locked. I said no reason. He asked if I was masturbating and I told him yes

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? No i have not told them and will not tell them.

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? Yes. They already know I do. And they know I do it with my little brother

[PinkFloyd]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?

I had two. The first one was when I was maybe like five or six. The extent that went was just the difference between male and female. I honestly didn't know what a vagina looked like until I was like... 8 or 9. I'm not bashing my parents or anything, but it could've been more helpful. The second sex talk came at a much more mature age at like 16. By this point, my parents had a hunch I was sexually active, so they both told me a few horror stories about teenage pregnancy then told me to always use two forms of birth control like use a condom even if she's on birth control. That's some good advice.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

They never did, but I'm sure if at any point I asked, they would give me some money to go buy some.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?

Nah, never

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

They didn't really need to. When I was dating my high school girlfriend, our schedule was the same every say. Get home at 3:20 pm, go in my house and up to my room, be alone in there for several hours, and then we'd go somewhere and hang out. My parents just assumed we weren't upstairs practicing wrestling forms.


5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you

No, I assume that it's understood that shit like that is pretty personal and doesn't really need to be talked about. I suppose that's a nice sugar-coated way of saying "It's a taboo subject."


6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').

Nope

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?

Yeah, I could dive into that subject, sure.


8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

I'd say "Yeah, why are you asking."

[Taylormade]

My parents never had the sex talk with me. They assumed it was taught in school or that I'd pick it up on my own, which I did.
They never put me on the pill and probably figure I'd insist on a condom if it came to that.
My parents never caught me masturbating, but both my siblings are aware of it. I'm sure my parents would assume I do it at my age anyway.
They don't ask me if I've had sex. It's too awkward for them as well as me. They don't ask if I masturbate either. It's none of their business anyway.
If they asked me if I was having sex I would not tell them. It's my own business and if I want to talk about it I'll volunteer the info myself.
If my parents asked me if I masturbate I'd ask why they wanted to know, since it's a harmless activity I do in private. If they had a good reason I'd tell them because it's no big deal. Otherwise, I wouldn't.

[denzel]

This is basically me wondering what other teens tell their parents. How open you are. And if "forced" what you are willing to tell them.

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

1. no
2. no
3. no
4. no
5. no
6. no
7. my parents prob wouldnt ask but if they did id say no
8. never

[LITTLEANGEL19]

@ Harrier, Anyone that posts a survey should copy and paste and answer their own questions. Thanks

As it's just mum and me here we always have been and still are are very open about sexual stuff including masturbating and also when I had a girlfriends she knew we were sexual active.

[Katie2003]

As it's just mum and me here we always have been and still are are very open about sexual stuff including masturbating and also when I had a girlfriend sne knew we were sexual active.

I've always felt exactly the same way, since my mom is open about things and very easy to talk to, there's nothing I wouldn't want to share with her about my own sexuality and what I've done with my partners. She encourages safe, respectful interaction sexual interaction with others as a learning process.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

I've always felt exactly the same way, since my mom is open about things and very easy to talk to, there's nothing I wouldn't want to share with her about my own sexuality and what I've done with my partners. She encourages safe, respectful interaction sexual interaction with others as a learning process.

Hiya Katylinn great to hear you and your mum can talk about stuff like that, it's just a pity we all parents did not think the same way.
X

[Caro2004]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?
No, not really but I've older siblings and we get a lot of sex Ed at school.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?
My Mum put me on the pill once she realised I'd started to become sexually active.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?
Yes. Nothing happened. They apologised and walked out.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?
Yes

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you
Ni

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').
Ni

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
I have been asked and I was open and honest about it with them.

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?
Yes

[Hans_Olo]

My parents / siblings never talk about this sort of stuff

[scott2002]

My awkward situation was sort of the opposite. My parents are divorced and I live with my mom. The first time she brought a boyfriend home, from my bedroom I heard them having sex. So, I asked MY mom, "Are you having sex with this guy?" She answered me that it was none of my business. So I said to her, "If someday I bring home a girl and have sex with her, I can answer you the same way?" Mom's answer was just, "Don;t get smart with me!"

[ArfyMcPeesh]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?

my parents never talked to me about sex. We learned the basics in 4th grade in school and they left it up to health class I guess. My cousin filled me in on the rest.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

If my parents found condoms in my room they’d probably flip, they’re not buying them for me.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?

Never been caught by my parents, thank god.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

Nope, I’m a virgin and they probably realize I have no sex life.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you

Nope

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').

Again, Nope

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?

If they ask, I’d be honest, but I doubt they will

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

Hell no

[Shiny Moon]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?

My mom used to talk to me about all the stuff from time to time, so I didn't get one big talk, just only a few little talks. I was around 10-11, and yes it was helpful, she gave me a lot of advices too :P

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

Nah I get them myself.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?

Yes, many times, nothing happened they just left the room.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

No, because I was the one who told them after my first time, so I saved them the trouble of asking.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you

No, but my mom told me to try to moan less, so it was pretty obvious lol

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').

Not really.

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?

My mom and I are SUPER close and we share EVERYTHING about sex, we can talk for hours about it, and we spare no detail. My dad's face turns like a tomato when my mom tells too much lol

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

Same as number 5.

[arnorway]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?
yes, had a series of talks with dad, i think 5 over the last few years, the first at 9 i think, maybe early 10. not just about where things go but also about love and respect etc. it was awkward every single time but i still liked him taking the time and clearly talking about things that isn't fun for him either

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?
i got condoms and dad told me where they are more if i want or need them

3. Have your parents ever caught you masturbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?
no

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?
no, i highly doubt they would. they don't pry like that

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating?
no but it slipped out that i did during one of the talks with dad when he started to talk about it

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate?
no. don't understand why there would be honestly

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?
my parents would not ask but i think i would tell them if they did. but not totally sure, would also depend on the circumstance i think

[Oscar-V3.0]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? no. My parents are definitely not open about about it. Everything I know I learned from friends or here. #VTRocks
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?no
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? no but nearly a few times
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? no. They think I'm still at the little kiss stage
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you no
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). no
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? no. They never asked and even if they did I wouldn't tell
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? since I shall not lie, i would say why are u asking??

[dhanya]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?
My parents discuss abt this when am around 12, starting of my pubes

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

yes some time pill

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?

Yes, many times, told me to control the sound.

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

Yes

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you

Yes bcoz of my moan sound

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').

Not really.

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? Yes, then they giv pills


8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? NO

[kaitlyn4]

My parents have never talked to me about sex stuff ever

and on 8 if they asked I think I would lie and say no haha that would be soo embarrassing!! I couldnt say yes to either of them like that hahaha

[TiffanySandler]

The talk yes, sure they don’t know

[Shaythen]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? No real talk, things were just implied
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? No, but have discussed the pill with my mom for periods
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Caught by my mom, she apologized and started knocking from then on
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? My mom knows I have (I told her) I’m sure my dad knows
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you? No, never been asked
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). My stepsister and I joke about it
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? I’ve told my mom but not all the details, just who
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? They know, lol

[Anna05]

Even though I haven't done anything sexual, my parents already to me that they don't care what I do as long as it's done safely and they even said they would give me everything to do it safely when I'm older.

[thatboi]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?

No they haven't and I'm pretty thankful for this because I wouldn't feel comfortable during such a talk.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

No

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?

Never

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

Never

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you

Nope

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').

No

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?

I wouldn't

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

No

[ashleigh7]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?

Yes, my mom did. I was 12when that started. Then when she saw I was sexually active a much more in-depth talk :/ awkward..But good :)

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?

Yes. Pill at first..But had an allergic reaction to it..now I have an iud.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?

Kinda...I guess...I don't think she saw me doing it...But saw me right after:/

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?

Yes.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you

Not really.

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').

No

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?

Yes, and yes.

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?

Yes..I guess. :)

[Stanley]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? They have had 'the talk'... it was pretty useful
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? they know im not having sex
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? they have and my dad spoke to me
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? yes
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you? yes they have... only in a caring way if you can imagine it
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina'). no lol
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? yes I would
8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them? they already know

[Natacha]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon?
We've not had a big talk starting like "Now Natacha. You are about to be an adult soon. And so there are some things we feel you need to know. You see the thing about the storks are not true.." and so on. It has been many small talks about different things. I've had questions and they've had some small hints about this and that along the way. Parents job in this area, has become much easier now, when they haave help from the internet. And brilliant places like VT.

2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not?
They started by providing condoms until we agreed on pills instead.

3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what?
Yes they have. I was in my room thinking I was alone at home, so I hadn't closed my door. (We have a strict closed door policy: "If the door is closed, you knock and wait for an answer") What happened was, that I heard footsteps down the stairs. I hadn't hears anyone coming up the stairs. When I came down my dad just said. "Sorry. Great day?"

4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex?
Yes. But not in a serious tone. More like a friend would.

5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? (Like wondered why you shower so long or heard stuff coming from your room and actually asked you)
No but I guess they figured since my questions become more specific.

6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? (Like dad says to you "goodnight, enjoy polishing your sword" or your sibling says after you came out of the bathroom "damn you spend a lot of time using that shower head on your vagina').
No nothing like that. But they have had some fun things to say about some of the guys I've been dating.

7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well?
Yes I'd tell them. But I will decide how much to share. There's no pressure on me, and they never seemed afraid because they thought I was hanging with the wrong crowd. They know my brother would make sure about the safety in the crowds I join.

8. If your parents asked you if you masturbate would you tell them?
I think we've been over that :-)

This thread was not so much about WHAT we've done (as it says) but more about THAT we've done...

[Zandra]

1. Have your parents had the sex talk with you? If so who was it, at what age, was it helpful, did you listen well or shut down and hoped it would end soon? My mother explained the facts of life to me when I was pre-pubescent. I listened intently.
2. Do your parents have you on the pill/give you condoms or not? My mom took me to get on the pill when I was 15 even though I wasn't having penetrative sex yet.
3. Have your parents ever caught you masterbating? If so what happened? Did they talk about it or apologize? Or what? Never been caught.
4. Have your parents ever point blank asked you have you had sex? We've discussed it.
5. Have your parents ever point blank asked you are you masturbating? No.
6. Is there a running joke in your house that you (or maybe your siblings) masturbate? No, we are al respectful towards each other.
7. If your parents asked you if you have had sex would you tell them? If you have told them do they know the basics like when and where and with who and if it went well? They know but no, they don't ask for specifics. That would be totally rude and disrespectful.

How old were you when she gave you “the talk”?

[Julia05]

I think my dad Know nothing
He that was never a theme of US

[Sailor Mars]

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