Teacher Crisis!

[sprinkleofeverything]

So the other day I kissed my crush (girl on girl) just out of the blue. We were both a bit tipsy. She liked it, and opened up to me that she was questioning bisexuality and this had confirmed it to her.

She wants to tell her Dad so I can come over and the like, although he’s given out warning hints that he could be a little homophobic. She wants me to be there to support her.

Only trouble is... he’s my English Teacher! I have him next year as well and he’ll be the teacher I have for finals! I don’t know what to do... what do I tell my girlfriend?

[Harrier]

Your girlfriend? Planning on meeting the parents after one kiss just the other day??? I guess girls work faster than guys! I wouldn't plan on meeting the parents until a month into dating lol. Except for picking her up at her house and stuff, but not like "meeting" them and having dinner and a serious talk and stuff. My only real suggestion (besides telling you to consider to take things a bit slower, but it's your life and your decision) is to not worry that it's your teacher. Do you really think he's such an unethical douchebag to give you a lesser grade just bc he is hobophobic? He can do whatever he wants to hs daughter within the law, but teachers are supposed to be "special people" and if he tries to fuck you over (which I doubt he would) you can go to the principal and school boarrd!!!

[Uniquemind]

Your girlfriend? Planning on meeting the parents after one kiss just the other day??? I guess girls work faster than guys! I wouldn't plan on meeting the parents until a month into dating lol. Except for picking her up at her house and stuff, but not like "meeting" them and having dinner and a serious talk and stuff. My only real suggestion (besides telling you to consider to take things a bit slower, but it's your life and your decision) is to not worry that it's your teacher. Do you really think he's such an unethical douchebag to give you a lesser grade just bc he is hobophobic? He can do whatever he wants to hs daughter within the law, but teachers are supposed to be "special people" and if he tries to fuck you over (which I doubt he would) you can go to the principal and school boarrd!!!

Yeah but that’s a lot of stress.

You could masquerade as friends for 1 year and then officially start the year prior. But if he’s homophobic there’s a lot of moves he could play, like moving the family...so just like hunger games, moves and countermoves...watch the board.

[EmilyD4]

Your girlfriend? Planning on meeting the parents after one kiss just the other day??? I guess girls work faster than guys! I wouldn't plan on meeting the parents until a month into dating lol. Except for picking her up at her house and stuff, but not like "meeting" them and having dinner and a serious talk and stuff. My only real suggestion (besides telling you to consider to take things a bit slower, but it's your life and your decision) is to not worry that it's your teacher. Do you really think he's such an unethical douchebag to give you a lesser grade just bc he is hobophobic? He can do whatever he wants to hs daughter within the law, but teachers are supposed to be "special people" and if he tries to fuck you over (which I doubt he would) you can go to the principal and school boarrd!!!

Yeah one kiss is not enough. You gotta slow waaay down

[yeehaw]

Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Max the Disenchanter]

That sounds like too much drama way too soon. Also, the magical thing about being bisexual is that you really don't have to come out.

[Gvanni]

Well I don't know how it works in England, but in America your teacher cannot legally discriminate against you in any way, including you dating their daughter. You have every right to do what you wanna do, if your English teacher feels some type of way about this and shows it by treating your worse in class or affecting your grades you should report him and seek justice.

[Nicky47]

The fact he's your English teacher should have no bearing on how he responds to the news, its still his daughter and he will support her decision hopefully

[NewLeafsFan]

If he wasn't your teacher, would you still be willing to let him know? If yes, go for it. If no, don't!

If he gets "unprofessional" with you while marking your work, report it. Very simple.

[Chefzg]

I would say that one kiss might not be enough. I would slow down a little bit.