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The_Alpha
March 12th, 2014, 12:10 AM
Hey guys, I was wondering, those of you who have had a Friend with benefits, how did you become like that? Who's idea was it?, How did you suggest it to them, that sort of thing.

Anyway thanks!

Karkat
March 12th, 2014, 12:39 AM
We were dating, then he broke up with me after cheating on me because he felt guilty. (Found out from my best friend- the one he cheated on me with.) Later on, we kind of started talking and it lead to things for a while.

ksdnfkfr
March 12th, 2014, 12:48 AM
We were friends for a long time since age 9 before it happened.
He initiated it with kiss right before we turned 13, but we had both been hinting at it before then. Not sure if he is still best friend also fool around with or boyfriend. He is mainly my friend, any sex stuff is just a sideline or whatever. But was not something where we had just met a couple of weeks ago and one of us said "hey, want to be be fuckbudies?".

chiisaiaoiryu
March 12th, 2014, 04:02 AM
My and my buddy, also a guy, have been friends for a while. We decided to try out sex towards the end of our elementary school days; got awkward around each other for the entire summer. Finally got over it when middle school started and have been fucking around ever since. Didn't know it was called FWB until a bit later, though.

ninja789
March 12th, 2014, 05:11 AM
Got drunk at a party and did stuff with them. Ended up carrying on....

moonlitsky
March 31st, 2014, 03:59 PM
We were both friends for awhile. Then one time we were alone and he asked if we could have sex, and I said yes.

Harley Quinn
March 31st, 2014, 05:13 PM
P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Walter
March 31st, 2014, 07:19 PM
Long time friends since we were like 3. Best friends with her brother. It just happened.

cherylcherylX2
March 31st, 2014, 10:04 PM
It just sort of happened, I, like most people (probably) started at a party :P

PinkFloyd
March 31st, 2014, 10:34 PM
This particular subject has a long back story, so I'll jump on it.

I met my girlfriend Mariah at like age 2 or 3 in day care. Mariah had a friend at the time named Alexis. The three of us literally grew up together. We played kickball and all that kid stuff. About the friend, Alexis... She all throughout grade school and into high school, had a massive crush on me. The crush was completely physical. She was into my err body, not me which is what I think made us such good friends. She didn't want to be my girlfriend, she just wanted to ---^$&[email protected] ..... By 7th grade, me and Mariah decided to become BF/GF.

Alexis understood what was going on and respected our relationship and stayed back and was simply a friend that would be flirty, but nothing crazy. Keep in mind; this was SEVENTH GRADE. What was she gonna do? Anyways, so lets jump forward a few years.

By last winter me and Mariah had been having sex. a lot. That being said, me and Mariah made a huge announcement to make to our parents so we got them together and said what we had been doing. My parents were genuinely okay with it and said that we did the adult thing and that in its self proved that we were okay to be doing it. Mariah's parents didn't want to make things uncomfortable so they played along, secretly panicking and hating what we said. They were mortified.

Well before long, Her parents said that we couldn't do stuff nay more. We being teenagers disregarded that completely. Eventually, we were caught and we both got grounded. We still found ways around that and spent time together. Yeah, "time" is a good code word for doing the nasty... After a few weeks of this grounding, Mariah's dad was offered a job in Malaga, Spain that would pay a lot more money. She was forced out of my life completely.

me and Mariah had and still have a strong for of communication via Skype. That was great and all, but we lacked physical contact and seeing each other through a screen was torture. Last September or so, she brought up that she would be okay with me having a friend with benefits that would not interfere with our emotional connection. The only way for that to happen is it be a close friend that both of us know and trust a lot

Right here is where Alexis comes into play. She had always had a crush, obsession, whatever with/on me and I basically told her that Mariah wants me to be satisfied physically (sorry for that, VT) and that we can do things. Because Alexis has always been into me for my body, it works out perfectly. She jumped right in. We can be doing stuff one moment and then play Xbox against 12 year olds online that call us faggots the other. It's a truly unique relationship that is amazing.

The_Alpha
April 2nd, 2014, 05:25 AM
Touching story.
Thanks for sharing.

tundravortex
April 2nd, 2014, 05:50 AM
mine was at a sleepover with my friend & she had a brother who liked me so one time when i spend the night her brother ruffed(date rape drug) me,but instead of me getting knocked out i got really high,so to make it quick i ended up breaking his heart and doing his sister instead...later me him and his sister were all now fwbs

johnpatric
April 8th, 2014, 10:01 AM
Long story in short when I was in college I never had any female friend then there is this girl who wants to be friend with me and then we became a best friend we share lost of things and one day she asked me for a sex and I wasn't what going in that time, we just did it.. But now she is engaged....