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Turbofan explosion
June 14th, 2018, 04:13 PM
I am sure you will all reply saying that masturbation is normal and healthy, etc.

But for some reason, I feel like I want to quit. I don't really know why.

Is this okay?

CnfusdTeen192
June 14th, 2018, 04:24 PM
To be honest I’ve been getting that feeling and thought too so your not the only one. Yea people have told me the why would you stop. I don’t know if it’s normal to think this.

jamie_n5
June 14th, 2018, 04:32 PM
Well it's not up to any of us to tell you what to do. It's entirely your choice as to masturbate or not. So you do whatever you want man.

jerrion
June 14th, 2018, 05:19 PM
I am sure you will all reply saying that masturbation is normal and healthy, etc.

But for some reason, I feel like I want to quit. I don't really know why.

Is this okay?

You can do whatever you like dude but you can't disagree that masturbating and sexual interiors is part of our lives that we cannot escape easily since we were made to make children. Good luck :D

ShineintheDark
June 14th, 2018, 06:19 PM
Your masturbation is your choice, no one can tell you whether to jerk or not. If you wanna stop, you're perfectly within your rights to do so.

Ayoze
June 14th, 2018, 07:04 PM
Maybe you have masturbated yourself too many times and/or you arent getting the pleasure that you should get from masturbation. Try some porn, some new categories, maaybe gay stuff. Masturbation is awesome, and shouldnt be a taboo subject, since its just a way of using our body to get pleasure.

ska8er
June 14th, 2018, 08:33 PM
Ur asking for support? Whats the reason?
U can do whatever u like but
at 13 ur in for the hornies a long
time.

Ozzie13
June 14th, 2018, 10:25 PM
Your asking us if it’s okay for you to stop masturbating? I give you permission lol. Seriously, it’s your life, do what feels right. I just totally don’t get why you’d do that?

HeyYo
June 15th, 2018, 03:08 AM
Hormones fluctuate during puberty. So if you're not feeling it, I wouldn't worry. You could get into it again in the future. Just do what ever you feel is good for you. It's your body, dude. Do (or don't do) what you want with it!

sam476
June 15th, 2018, 03:15 AM
I remember at your age feeling similar feelings. It's all good man, just do whatever you like. You don't necessarily need to make a split decision and go by it

Harrier
June 15th, 2018, 03:33 AM
Of course it's ok. Everybody is different. We all masturbate different ways and amounts and we study and do homework different ways and different ammounts and same with watching TV, exercising, etc Be you dude!

scott2002
June 15th, 2018, 06:07 AM
But for some reason, I feel like I want to quit. I don't really know why. Is this okay?
When I was 13, and I was REALLY enjoying this new-found pleasure, I often felt the same way.
--I was worried that by doing it so much, I might run out of all my sperm, and then when I was an adult and wanted to have kids I couldn't. (That really concerned me, and it's totally false.)
--I also felt guilty or ashamed, like this was a bad thing to do. And I felt nobody did it as often as I was doing it. (I was doing it every day already, and felt most boys were probably doing it 2-3 times a month, maybe even less.)
So, it's definitely okay to have these feelings but I bet your body will still pretty much demand that you do it, and do it often. So, just don;t feel bad or guilty when you do find yourself needing to jack off.

cinderfella
June 15th, 2018, 07:10 AM
I sometimes feel that when I am stressed or busy and even when i forget to lube. Its really up to you people feel different tings and mastubrating is not a requirement.

Ttssman
June 15th, 2018, 08:09 AM
Up to you

Hermes
June 15th, 2018, 11:45 AM
You've reminded me that a friend at school, when we were 13, told me he was going to stop masturbating because he though it was unchristian and I thought that was up to him but there was no way I'd do the same.

I think many of the religious objections are based on a misinterpretation of the bible - I've commented in more depth on that before. Also if you look at the most extreme religious prescriptions you would have a boring and difficult life because having sex, within marriage, for the purposes of creating children, which some religious teaching suggest is the only acceptable kind of sexual activity, is something most people don't do very much. How many people do you know who have an army of children?

Whether the church like it or not, the vast majority of the time any normal guy cums it is from a mixture of being horny and feeling a need to do something about that and just wanting to experience the pleasure of cumming, whether doing it alone or with someone else. That's just being normal.

So, I think you may have more luck addressing what makes you think stopping is a good idea, including discussing that here, than with actually trying to stop but, of course, it's up to you.

Zelenika
June 15th, 2018, 12:06 PM
Do whatever is right for you, and feels good

FameMonster
June 15th, 2018, 02:37 PM
You can do whatever you want. I think everyone goes through phases. I am guessing maybe you are just getting bored with masturbation and maybe doing it too often. I go through levels of horniness and just don't feel like doing it sometimes for a week or more at a time. Maybe you just need a break. Good luck.

MasonBA
June 15th, 2018, 07:34 PM
Sure it is. Whatever you decide is great for you