I'm Overthinking Too Much Because of Him

[KellyLooney]

lol im deleting this thread

[inactiveguy678]

I think it has to do with reading habits as well. I no longer have 20/20 vision because i'm on my computer and phone a lot so the doctor said that is a factor. So I think that may be the case with your boyfriend I don't know....

[KellyLooney]

HEY! ^^ Thank's for replying!

I don't think his eyes have to with with any bad habits... Mostly genetics I think.

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I can't PM rn for some reasons.

[Katie2003]

Kelly, it's natural for us to worry and show concern for people who are close to us. Sometimes we can get carried away, overthink things, and make them worse in our minds than they actually are. Having grown up with a behavioral psychologist for a mom, she's guided us to step back and take a look at the bigger picture of things. That's my advice here, look at yourself and at your boyfriend, and come to terms with things that you can't personally do anything to change. Worrying isn't helping either of you, accepting things that neither of you can change and making the relationship work the best it can should be the direction for both of you to go in. Being supportive and showing unconditional love and acceptance is what your boyfriend needs from you. Things that make him feel bad, or upset you, aren't good and can be really toxic to the dynamic between you.

[KellyLooney]

HEY! ^^ Thank's for replying!
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Yea I'm to think about his eyes less and just accept it. But if you're saying that things that upset me arent good for the relationship... den, isn't that his eyes making me upset... I WANT THIS TO WORK!:blue::blue: :blue:

[Katie2003]

Wanting it to work is probably the most important thing! If you have that level of commitment to the relationship, then work toward doing things together that take both your minds off the things that worry you. Go places, do things, have fun!

I had a relationship that was challenging, we probably shouldn't have been together in the first place but somehow we were, because of a few shared interests. We both wanted it to work, and managed to make that happen. We put aside the things that bothered us and focused on having the most fun possible. We are still friends, but eventually realized that we would be better suited to dating others. In your case, put all your efforts into being positive!! If both of you want this to work and don't have any huge differences, then you should be able to figure it out.

[KellyLooney]

Thanks I really needed that encourgement! <3