masturbating privately

[urcruz]

if you share a room with someone, like a sibling or a roommate, is it ok to masturbate while they're in the room like without them knowing?

[Some Kid]

Personally I don’t have any siblings and I’m too young for a roommate. If they’re fine with it then I guess it would be fine, but I would ask them about it first.

[thematthew]

Id make sure its ok with them first, but I dont see anything wrong with it

[Nnoki]

I don't think it is okay without them knowing

[urcruz]

I don't think it is okay without them knowing

what about when theyre asleep?

[wheredidyousleeplast]

I share a room with my brother, we just do it openly. I don't think there's any point hiding it.

[toby69]

I share a room with my brother, we just do it openly. I don't think there's any point hiding it.

That is great that you two masturbate together. Wish I had a brother, but I do have a cousin and we jack off together.

[JohnnyMac]

I share a bedroom with my 12 year old brother, and when he was 11, i would masturbate when he was asleep. Now, we pretend we are going to bed, and we masturbate together. I think its ok if they dont know.

[Nnoki]

what about when theyre asleep?

I rather ask if they're okay with it, because if they find out it might be uncomfortable for them to keep sharing the room

[Franciscofixe]

When me and my friends go camping we don't ask if. We can jerk off we start jerking off and that's it.

[ska8er]

Y not do it while their asleep or
if u Have To ask them if they r
comfortable with doing it. They
might even join in but id never
attempt it without them knowing
first.

[LITHIUM101]

I personally wouldn't masturbate with someone else in the room without them knowing it's kinda awkward i think

[ShineintheDark]

It's pretty risky to try and jerk when the other person doesn't know unless you have pre-agreed it'd be ok so it's really more whether you think that risk is worth it. If it's likely you'll be trying to jerk when they're there a lot, you may as well try and make an agreement about it.

[london98765]

you should probably let them know or just do it somewhere else. i do it happily with one of my bros in our room

[House anatomy]

I think it depends on their gender. At least for me personally I'd be more cofortable doing it if I have a brother in the room rather than a sister. That being said I'd just do it somewherre else or while they're not there. If you dobit while they are in the room your chances of getting caught are way higher.

[Brandon618]

I had been masturbating in my room since I started, not always but a lot of the time. I share with my brothers. It's not easy to do it under the covers, but i managed but a while ago my next youngest brother caught me. We talked about it and now we do it without hiding many times at the same time.

[Lucarooni]

I had been masturbating in my room since I started, not always but a lot of the time. I share with my brothers. It's not easy to do it under the covers, but i managed but a while ago my next youngest brother caught me. We talked about it and now we do it without hiding many times at the same time.

How old is he?

[MasonBA]

My brother told me he had been watching me when I thought he was sleeping, way too embarrassing. But now we do it whenever we want, doesn't matter if the other one is in the room which is a lot better

[Brandon618]

12 will be 13 in Sept.

[Lucarooni]

12 will be 13 in Sept.

So less than a year age difference

[Turbofan explosion]

I probably wouldn't. If I do, I would make sure that I lock the door if he/she is in the house.

I prefer doing it in the bathroom as no one cares if you lock the door in the bathroom (there's an obvious reason why the bathroom door needs a lock: privacy).

[Brandon618]

15 months

[thematthew]

i honestly think it would be awkward masturbating with a sibling or smting

[Thicc]

I would do it after I ask the other person

[Second Chance]

I think everything depends on the gender of your roommate/sibling and the age gap. If your roommate is the opposite gender, then I would say no to masturbating in the same room even if the person is sleeping. If the person is the same gender, then it is not a big deal to masturbate in the same room even if the person is sleeping as long as you are not loud masturbating.

If your roommate/sibling is much younger than you or has not reached puberty, then masturbating in the same room is a really bad idea. It is best to masturbate elsewhere because children and sexuality do not mix, and you do not want to expose them to something that would lead to confusion and problems.

If your sibling is close to your age and is in puberty like you, then it is not a big deal to masturbate in the same room. Just make sure your sibling/roommate is all right with it because if he is not, then it is best to masturbate in another place. It is just a matter of courtesy at that point.

[Jake445]

I share a room with my twin sister and for a while now both of us just masturbate openly. It's a lot more fun then doing it in the shower or trying to hide it, so I totally recommend it if you also share a room with someone you're close in age too and with whom you can talk about such things.

[mick01]

My bro and I have shared a room for 14 years lol. We don't have any secrets and feel comfortable jerking off when we need to.

[some]

just go into the bathroom

[Dis_boiii]

I'd say it's fine. Could be risky but I'd recommend making sure they are asleep

[mrwhitedragon]

I used to share with my bro and we used to always jack off. Now if I have cousins over, we spoon and then play with each other.

[Hans_Olo]

I'd say no to the 'without them knowing part' especially if they are in the room with you. If you really want to do it in your room maybe just tell him first, or ask him whether or not it is okay to do it while you're there

[RyanT]

How do you do it without them knowing? Where does the cum go. In your bed?

[Happy squirrel]

I wouldnt

[Jrunner]

Is that really doing it “privately” anyway?

[mixel19]

I share a room with two brothers and two sisters and it's totally ok for one of us to try and masturbate secretly. We're pretty open though so it's not uncommon for someone to just masturbate openly

[Nicky47]

Ive done it, its super hard to do because you don't want to make any noise with the blanket or anything but I mean if the mood strikes I'm never gunna say no ha!

[Leon2]

Ha i got my own room. Sharing a room must suck

[Turbofan explosion]

Not that it is a bad thing, but what if you get caught? It would probably be very embarrassing.

[Leon2]

Not that it is a bad thing, but what if you get caught? It would probably be very embarrassing.

Well yea that's why you HAVE to lock the door. I haven't been caught so I dunno but I imagine it being CRAZY embarrassing

[Turbofan explosion]

Well yea that's why you HAVE to lock the door. I haven't been caught so I dunno but I imagine it being CRAZY embarrassing

Right, the most common reason people get caught is by NOT LOCKING THE DOOR which to me is very stupid if you want privacy.

[Leon2]

Right, the most common reason people get caught is by NOT LOCKING THE DOOR which to me is very stupid if you want privacy.

Exactly. Wanna talk on the profile thing? Dont wanna clog up the chat

[Harrier]

Do what you want, what makes sense to you. I only had my lil bro as a roommate for one year when I was 12 and he was 8. I did it a handful of times when I believed he was sleeping and I tried to be quiet. He never said anything. Mostly I did it in the bathroom that year.

[hairy balls]

Id make sure its ok with them first, but I dont see anything wrong with it and I have done it when I though they were asleep , its super hard to do because you don't want to make any noise with the blanket or anything but I mean if the mood strikes u gota go for it

[TWDjacob]

if you're the same gender i don't really see a need to tell them if you do it privately like when they can't see you or are asleep.

[NamelessHuman]

I don’t share a room, but generally you would just have to figure it out on your own.

[JakeDunham]

I share a room with my brother and we don’t care if the other jerks while we’re there but if that wasn’t the case I’d either do it in the bathroom, when he was gone during the day or waited until he was asleep because I know he used to do that with me but I actually heard him a lot so

[samuel15]

if you share a room with someone, like a sibling or a roommate, is it ok to masturbate while they're in the room like without them knowing?

I'm ok with it and I do not going to point it out when I catch my friends doing it but it's really strange.

[Panki1212]

I lived with my brother in a room for a few years.. I even sucked myself when he was asleep. So I say just say bring it on ;)

[teen110]

yup u can

[justa16yearoldaussie]

it depends on the relationship u have with the person, maybe ask them about it or do it when they're not there, or somewhere else because they may feel uncomfortable, or want to join in.

[CharlesB]

when I used to share a room with my bro we'd just do it infront of each other
now were older n dont share a room so its even better

[swiftie]

Unfortunately my brother is much older and had moved out by the time I discovered masturabation. I would have loved younger sibilant closer to my age to wank off with