Sending Nudes

[ChewyyLucas]

Hello everyone (:

Recently some of my friends have said that they have been sending nudes to their partners which I’m feeling quite conflicted about (esp since we’re underage), so I was wondering what you guys might feel about this issue of sending nudes/sexual messages to others. Under what circumstances would you do it (if you do) or why not? Wanted to create this thread under here cuz these things tend to occur more during puberty i guess? Haha

[Pultost]

I'd never take that risk, not even with my bf. Not now, and not for as long as I live. Too risky, you never know where those pics might show up.

[Dmaxd123]

i have and will again

more likely to send them to a friend that moved away or send to someone online so everyone in my school/town doesn't see them

[scott2002]

There are tons and tons of nude selfies of young guys and girls on the web. And I bet almost none of them were intended to go on the web, but got posted by those close "friends" who were sent those naked pics, expecting them to be kept private.
Personally, I'd never do it. Ever. Way too risky. (And if you decide to actually do it, then at least never include your face. Your friend knows what you look like, neck-up, already.

[Jake445]

I never have and don't plan too. With partners at our age being most certainly temporary I wouldn't trust anyone with pictures like that.

[JumboFeet]

I think it's perfectly fine and I will do it from time to time. You just have to make sure that if you are sending with people you don't know, to not put your face in the picture, so if it does get out its not identifiable as you.

[Candy in CT]

I will not send or ask for nudes shots of anyone one here or out of here till I'm 18. You do not really know who your sending then to. I have seen pictures of girls from the 90's that look like they were for a BF or like that. They are out there forever. Just wait. Even sending to people you know in real life can bit you in the ass bad. Not worth it.

[ShineintheDark]

On a legal basis, I'd say never do it because it's illegal and not worth the huge risk. You can always wait until you're both of age and in a trusting relationship.
On a personal basis, I'll admit I've done it and will probably do it again because that's just the way my dynamics can work. However, I'd suggest to never do it unless you truly trust the other person (and never show face so it can never be proven to be you).

[Caycedilla]

I’ve never seen the point of sending or asking for nudes. It seems like it takes the focus off of actually learning, knowing and appreciating someone as a person. Also, like others have said, it’s illegal for those underage to get involved in that. I can’t see a situation where I would ever ask for or send nude pics

[Moriya]

Nudes are gross and I will never send one nor want to receive one. Also underage nudes are technically child porn and both the people taking them and receiving them can get into legal trouble

[Katie2003]

Absolutely not. Never. I'm not sending those to anyone, and think it's really creepy to be asked for them. Anyone that I know well enough who wants to see me naked can do it in person.

[Jordan99]

Cayce is absolutely right. It isn't worth the trouble it could cause.

[Falcons_11]

Absolutely not. Never. I'm not sending those to anyone, and think it's really creepy to be asked for them. Anyone that I know well enough who wants to see me naked can do it in person.

I so totally agree with Katie. Sending and receiving nude pics is perv and creepy.

[WeebOOF]

I see it like this;

Do it at your own risk
You don't benefit anything from it, if the relationship is real, then you will both see each other IRL.

Repercussions are:
Cyberbullied
Trouble (Depending on age)
Pic(s) spread around


I would personally never do it, and if someone sent me one and if I ain't with them id block them, and if I am with them id say hey, that's not really cool, don't send stuff like that again.

My view is it should not happen really, I see nudes as a way of having a fake relationship, just my opinion tho.

[Barbara.]

No never in a billion years!!! ( send or receive)

[Jonnieboy909]

I send them and receive them

[LITTLEANGEL19]

never ever at any age, that applies to girls and boys.

[Anneki]

I will not send or ask for nudes shots of anyone one here or out of here till I'm 18. You do not really know who your sending then to. I have seen pictures of girls from the 90's that look like they were for a BF or like that. They are out there forever. Just wait. Even sending to people you know in real life can bit you in the ass bad. Not worth it.

I totally agree with you and others... just asking myself why.
You take some pictures and you are no longer in control where these pictures end up either you send them or your phone or PC is stolen or.....

[Gvanni]

I’ve sent and receive, I don’t see anything wrong with it and I never show my face. I have no shame about my body. The whole school could have my dick pic and as long as it isn’t with my face I wouldn’t care, id probably be flattered.

[Ethan19]

I do it, doesn't bother me. I've been doing it since I was 15.

[Vegas2933]

While I don't see anything wrong with it, the legal side of it scares me into abstaining from doing it.

[Some Kid]

I’m conflicted with it. On the legal side, I don’t want to do it because you can get into a lot of trouble. Plus I wouldn’t want for it to get out and people know about my size, what it looks like, etc. On the other hand, I’m horny and getting some back from a girl would be nice.

[SethfromMI]

I would recommend not doing it. I have sent pics of me in my underwear before, but so many people have already seen me in my underwear I never saw the big deal (plus, everything which should be covered is). If they ever did get out I would be able to argue everything which should be covered is and it is not that vastly different from wearing a tight swim suit.

Basically never send anything you would be worried about if they accidentally (or in many cases purposely) got posted some where. I know sometimes couples send them when things are good, but when they are bad sometimes one will post the pics in retribution. Lots of things can happen. You got to be smart about it. Which is why I would never send full nudes, not online, not over the phone, not if I completely trusted the person.

Also, if you do get into the underage issue, that could open a whole new world of problems. I know there are pics out there of people obviously and many never get in trouble, but it is possible and then you are talking about some very serious legal problems which sometimes can go with you the rest of your life.

[Ashley2004]

I wouldn't do it, it's not worth the risks.

[JuliaVT]

Nope and if I ever did it, it would be just my body so I couldn’t be identified. Even then, would be with someone 18 or older of course.

Totally agree!

[Harrier]

It's cool everyone has their own feelings on the topic. Curious tho, for the people who say they have and would never send or ask for them - what happens if someone sends them to you without asking you first? Do you keep them or delete them???

[SethfromMI]

It's cool everyone has their own feelings on the topic. Curious tho, for the people who say they have and would never send or ask for them - what happens if someone sends them to you without asking you first? Do you keep them or delete them???

Since I don't send full nudes, I don't ask for them. I have gotten full nudes from people and I delete them afterwards. Not out of anger or anything, but to try to help protect them even if I don't think anything could ever happen to them.

[gurquenjen]

I tend to avoid sending nudes unless I'm in a very, very serious relationship with the person. Someone I hook-up with isn't going to get a surprise snap of my tits just because they happened to screw me once. I almost never send them to people I meet online, because they could be anyone, and tend to be wary of people who ask for them out of the blue.

[Brandon618]

NFW would I do that.

[MasonBA]

Nope, nope, nope

[thematthew]

I would, But i would be careful and probably not include my face

[jasondrums]

Nope. Asking for trouble and like somebody already said anyone I would send them to is more than welcome to see it in person.

[ShineintheDark]

It's cool everyone has their own feelings on the topic. Curious tho, for the people who say they have and would never send or ask for them - what happens if someone sends them to you without asking you first? Do you keep them or delete them???
I guess it'd depend on the context: if it was an accident then I'd be more forgiving and just ask them to ensure it doesn't happen again. If someone purposefully sends them without me asking and despite the fact that I don;t want them, I'd likely block them. In both contexts I'd delete the pics cos in the first situation, I wouldn't wanna keep pics that aren't meant for me and in the second I didn't want nudes in the first place.

[Turbofan explosion]

No I will never send nudes. Even when I am 18, I still will not. Who knows if the recipient is going to forward the picture to everyone?

Once, some random guy on Snapchat said he was 14 and asked if I wanted to trade nude pictures, and then he sent me nude images. I blocked him, and also reported him and his account got banned. I am not sure what happened to him other than getting banned though.

[kro814]

It is a really truly terrible idea. It could get you in so much trouble.

[jamie_n5]

I have traded pictures with people I feel I know somewhat well enough to do so. I find nothing wrong with it.

[InternetTeen]

I don't do it. Some guy in my school sent nudes to his ex girlfriend and she showed EVERYONE in my year. Some girl posted nudes on snapchat by accident (it was meant to be a PM). Another kid sent nudes to some girl and then his girlfriend showed everyone. Don't send nudes unless you trust the other person completely.

[pumpkineater34]

I've carefully sent some. I don't show my face tho. and I really need to know the person well.

[ImJulia]

I’ve done it. I keep my face out.

[Jericho14]

I do it but seldomly nowadays ever since i got catfished last year.. I never include my face though

[Tim the Enchanter]

Send noodles

[hayley2003]

No never in a billion years!!! ( send or receive)

lol... never ever ever in 100 bzillion years. mom and dad would turn off my internet for life.

and who needs internet rules to know its kinda a dumb thing to do? just do a search on "nude selfie" and you'll find thousands and thousands of pictures i am sure were never meant to be shown on the internet, but somehow their naked pictures are now seen by a bzillion people all over the world. who wants to be famous for that! :)

... OK, there are some people who like being famous for their naked selfies. :P

[Harrier]

Since I don't send full nudes, I don't ask for them. I have gotten full nudes from people and I delete them afterwards. Not out of anger or anything, but to try to help protect them even if I don't think anything could ever happen to them.

I guess it'd depend on the context: if it was an accident then I'd be more forgiving and just ask them to ensure it doesn't happen again. If someone purposefully sends them without me asking and despite the fact that I don;t want them, I'd likely block them. In both contexts I'd delete the pics cos in the first situation, I wouldn't wanna keep pics that aren't meant for me and in the second I didn't want nudes in the first place.

I have been sent nudes by girls who I didn't ask for them (and even two guys). I did delete the guys but I kept the girls. Idk if that makes me a bad person or not. But they sent them to me so I figured it wouldn't hurt to keep them. And in a few instances I have sent some back to them in return (especially if I liked the pics).

[maxandrews39]

There are tons and tons of nude selfies of young guys and girls on the web. And I bet almost none of them were intended to go on the web, but got posted by those close "friends" who were sent those naked pics, expecting them to be kept private.
Personally, I'd never do it. Ever. Way too risky. (And if you decide to actually do it, then at least never include your face. Your friend knows what you look like, neck-up, already.

I agree. I just do not feel comfortable doing that.

[scott2002]

Back I think it was when I was 13 and I had recently gotten a nice new phone, my mom showed me a news story that was about boys that were ARRESTED as sex offenders because they had sent and received naked pics of their friends (underage of course) on their phones. My mom warned me to NEVER take or send any nude pics of myself, and if I ever receive any to delete them immediately.

[Max the Disenchanter]

thhat's why god created snapchat

[Vicboy2707]

I do it all the time I trade with heaps of people online and apps it’s fun

[MrMurphy]

Yeah, I used to do it a lot. I've slowed down a lot now, but I still do it every now and again. Mostly just with people I'm more comfortable with now

[Zachary G]

I think boys are more apt to do it more than girls. That being said, I have done it before, but never showed my face. Its not something I make a habit of doing and have pretty much stopped doing it.

[raniagr]

i have and i will again but NO face

[Spooky_Eli]

thhat's why god created snapchat

^^this^^

[Ayoze]

I have sent to friends and to strangers (like online "friends") but I use snapchat and my face doesnt appear, so it's more safe than some ppl think.

[Anna Kadlecova]

Yes, since I was 14 yo

[Impressionist1910]

thhat's why god created snapchat

Lmao. Best post

thhat's why god created snapchat

^^this^^

Lol best quote.
Swedeam knows it too 😆

[coolsarah]

I use Snapchat if I send any pictures and I make sure my face isn't in them.

[london98765]

i have never, and never will, send nudes.

[Harrier]

I use Snapchat if I send any pictures and I make sure my face isn't in them.

Snapchat helps. Sorta. Can still be saved. That's good that you don't include your face. Even then you must be careful who you send it too. If it's someone who will share it with the whole school it doesn't matter if your face is shown or not if you have unique marks like ink or freckles or birthmarks.

[Karli]

nope wont do that

[Charlie992]

I've done it, however I never include my face in them unless I send pics in my underwear since basically everyone I know has seen me in my underwear at some point.

[TheMagicPotato]

I have. But, I don't show my face on them and I only send them to very specific persons.

[ClaireHofmann]

Yes, I've done it a few times, especially when I was with my ex-boyfriend. But I've never showed my face in those same pictures.

[tinkerkell]

I hate to admit it but I went through a phase where I sent plenty of explicit nudes, and I had more than my fair share of boys sending me dick pics. Fortunately I came to my senses and put a stop to all that nonsense by sending anyone I had sent nudes to links to news articles about people getting busted with sexts from underage girls. A few boys still wanted to send me dick pics anyway but I lied and told them my little sister goes through my phone a lot and since she's innocent she'd tell our parents if she found any cocks on my phone
I got lucky, none fell into the wrong hands, but the thrill of it isn't worth the risk of getting caught. They don't play around when it comes to explicit images of minors

[JessicaShy]

A very risky thing to do

[HeyYo]

I have before, yeah. I feel like as long as I kinda know the person and I'm getting something in return, it's cool.

[annababy02]

It is very risky. There was a girl at my school who send nudes to her boyfriend, when she broke up with him he sent them to his friends

[HardCandyGirl]

I've shared them and I like that, but yeah, it's risky with the wrong people. You have to think how is this person going to be when we break up, because you really know your partner in that moment. It's possible only with an honest and mature person, who's the same even in bad times, fighting or breaking up, because at the begining we all seem great, and if we are in love...

We say something in Spanish, like "Visiting, we all seem good" or "A new broom sweeps well". Maybe is not a good translation, but I hope you get the idea.

[JustHaveFun]

If you send pictures to others, that is your business. But I really don't think it is wise to openly admit it on here, it might bring the wrong type of attraction to your inbox.

[SethfromMI]

I have been sent nudes by girls who I didn't ask for them (and even two guys). I did delete the guys but I kept the girls. Idk if that makes me a bad person or not. But they sent them to me so I figured it wouldn't hurt to keep them. And in a few instances I have sent some back to them in return (especially if I liked the pics).

Naw I don't think that makes you a bad person. If they sent them to you they wanted you to have them. You didn't force them or even ask for them. It is ok to keep them in that situation.

[Gumbo00]

All good unless it’s non consentual

[scott2002]

Recently some of my friends have said that they have been sending nudes to their partners which I’m feeling quite conflicted about (esp since we’re underage), so I was wondering what you guys might feel about this issue of sending nudes/sexual messages to others. Under what circumstances would you do it (if you do) or why not? Wanted to create this thread under here cuz these things tend to occur more during puberty i guess? Haha
This is serious! I just read a story about a 15 y.o. boy WHO KILLED HIMSELF after being caught sexting! I'm not lying. Here is his obituary: https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/coshoctontribune/obituary.aspx?n=camden-ross&pid=180591526&fhid=13310
It doesn't mention how he died, but the newspaper article said a sheriff came to his house investigating that he had been sending and trading nude pictures to friends. (He was just 15!) WITHIN 4 HOURS LATER HE WAS DEAD!!!! HE KILLED HIMSELF!!!
(He was a freshman at Tri-Valley High School in Muskingum County in Ohio. This is public record. I'm copying it out of the newspaper.)

[HelloYellow]

I would do it if I was in a very serious relationship that I believed was going to last

[rangerohio1]

always send them to my gf

[Bubba24]

I’ll happily do it online, with people a similar age to me, especially males. I don’t use anything linked to IRL, so people I trade with no nothing but my first name, and the country I’m in. Also, refuse to show my face, and generally avoid showing my body to.

Primarily do it as a casual thing to see how I compare with others my age, and what they think of mine to be honest.
I hope you use something where the picture can not be saved

[Dalcourt]

Since this gets inappropriate I'm closing it.
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