don't know when I like a girl

[Franciscofixe]

This might be strange, but I don't know when I like a girls or not... I knew I liked I girls last year because my friend told me, otherwise I wouldn't have discovered that.
When I am with girls I feel like what I feel with all my friend. I feel good. So I don't know how to distinguish if I like her or not.
Any tips? I am already 15. Is this bad?

[Nnoki]

Look, first of all this might go in another forum, maybe a mod could move it
Second, I have the same issue, that's how I discovered I might be Bi, because I started to feel pretty good around some guys, I still can't tell when I like a girl or not, and I find it hard to tell if I like a boy too, just puberty and hormones

You might consider if you even like girls, maybe you like boys too but haven't accepted it

[scott2002]

When I am with girls I feel like what I feel with all my friend. I feel good. So I don't know how to distinguish if I like her or not.
Any tips? I am already 15. Is this bad?
I see you list you're from Portugal, and you're writing in English, so I'm thinking this might be a second language for you? I'm asking because I think we need a better idea as to what you actually mean when you say "like" a girl.

"Like" a girl as just a friend, just like you have guys as friends?
"Like" a girl, as in physically attracted to her and would like to be her boyfriend?
"Like" a girl, in that you have sexual thoughts about her, or girls in general?

I'm wondering if, by "like", you are trying to say that you don't yet have a sexual attraction toward girls?

[ShineintheDark]

If you mean 'like' in the romantic sense, then I'd say if you can't tell then you probably aren't attracted to them. or at least not enough for it to be worth acting on since there's no point pursuing someone if you feel no more strongly for them than any other person you interact with regularly.

[Matt 04]

I would try to talk to them more. See if u share common interests. See if they want to go to a movie or get something to eat. Develop the friendship first and then go from there. The same could be said for guys u like and then see what develops and who gets your dick harder.

[TWDjacob]

Well if you don't feel that strong connection then you probably don't like them in a relationship sense. Spend more time and get to know then and you'll be able to tell it

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Franciscofixe]

I see you list you're from Portugal, and you're writing in English, so I'm thinking this might be a second language for you? I'm asking because I think we need a better idea as to what you actually mean when you say "like" a girl.

"Like" a girl as just a friend, just like you have guys as friends?
"Like" a girl, as in physically attracted to her and would like to be her boyfriend?
"Like" a girl, in that you have sexual thoughts about her, or girls in general?

I'm wondering if, by "like", you are trying to say that you don't yet have a sexual attraction toward girls?

Your second "like"

[ska8er]

U need a friend to tell u if u
like a girl or not-u don't know?
U don't feel a sexual attraction to
a girl? I don't understand.

[inactiveguy678]

Not really it must be you just have different priorities in life when your personality is maturing than everybody else. There was this one guy who was a scholar in our school who didn’t think of girls because he had to fight hard for his place in our school. Do we think he is gay or abnormal? Well some dude do but they don’t matter in the greater scheme of things. But is he happy? Yes mostly because he took the opportunity of being in a good school by the horns and made the most of out of it.

[Franciscofixe]

U need a friend to tell u if u
like a girl or not-u don't know?
U don't feel a sexual attraction to
a girl? I don't understand.

I feel sexually attracted to girls,