Fears of being seen soft

[Gvanni]

I remember back in 7th grade some guy got pantsed and everyone saw him when he was soft and all the girls said he was small. The story went through the whole school. All the girls laughed at him whenever they saw him, he was always ridiculed by girls more than guys. Basically, since then I’ve been terrified of girls seeing me when soft because no guy is big when soft and girls are kind of slow when it comes to realizing that. Anyone else have a similar fear?

[Kody]

Most girls at that age dont yet understand the concept of how things work down there for us guys yet. They only know their stuff and have some bad misconceptions of how the penis actually works. I dated a girl who was older than the girls you spoke of and had a similar thought that guys were hard all the time so i had to explain how that worked to her. If i was you i wouldn't be concerned about it and definatly not terrified.

[Shamal]

Nah never felt that.

[filipche]

Im not concerned at all my dick has a good size soft

[london98765]

nope never felt that before

[Omega18]

Nah, i have an overall good size

[InternetTeen]

Just wear a belt. That'll make it so you can't get pantsed.

[Harrier]

I don't have that fear. I'm big soft as well as hard. Unless it's cold and I have shrinkage. Real young girls don't understand shrinkage. After 1-2 boyfriends they learn all about it however. After that, if a girl sees you soft and small you can always blame it on cold whether it really is or you're just small lol. She may or not believe you though lol. But back to your situation, that's crazy that the while school is superficial. Some girls will always care about looks and size and stuff superficially. They are birches. Some girls could care less about size and care more about personality and humor and kindness etc. Go for those girls.

[inactiveguy678]

Yes and thats why I tend to wear a belt and baggy pants at school. We don’t have girls as its all boys but still

[HeyCameron]

I mean, sure, if everyone saw mine they would reason that it was small, because it is. I guess I'm not too worried about anyone seeing it because I don't think it's likely to happen. People stopped pantsing after middle school and I can't think of any other way people would see it.

[NamelessHuman]

No, becuase I know girth is more important, and when soft I’m similarity thickness to when I’m hard.

[Ttssman]

I mean, sure, if everyone saw mine they would reason that it was small, because it is. I guess I'm not too worried about anyone seeing it because I don't think it's likely to happen. People stopped pantsing after middle school and I can't think of any other way people would see it.
Urinal maybe? That's happened to me..unfortunately

[HeyCameron]

Urinal maybe? That's happened to me..unfortunately

I don't use urinals, I'm pee-shy lol

[MasonBA]

Mine is small, and a lot of boys at school have seen me in the shower. And most are about the same size. Still I'd be embarrassed if I was pantsed in front of girls

[Jrunner]

Laughing at a SEVENTH grader bc he’s small? gmab

[ska8er]

A lot of guys r growers and if any
girls make remarks they just don't
know any better and with guys most
of it is just a teasing and those that
tease the most aren't packing much
either. If u get pantsed try and laugh
it off and go on. Sure its embarrassing
but the more u make of it the more its
going to continue.

[Nnoki]

I mean, i would be more scared of being pantsed when hard, because you're hard for a reason, and people know that

[kro814]

Nobody gets pantsed but we all see each other naked in lcoker room and showers. There are no surprises.

[Stan0120]

I'm really small but don't have any hangups with being seen soft. I'll walk around naked in locker rooms, go skinny dipping, etc. My friends have all seen me naked and my mom and sister, too. No one has commented on the size except for a few times.

[ShineintheDark]

Softness can be a real issue for some people, especially at urinals since soft sizes can vary greatly on a variety of factors. How hot it is, if the person has been exercising, natural genetics etc. Hard sizes tend to be a little more consistent as the muscles and skin are stretched to their maximum capacity.

[pauly]

I'd have thought being seen hard is more risky than being seen soft. So try not to let the subject get you down and just be yourself. If you're hard there really ought to be a good reason for it, like sexual arousal, NOT fear of being seen soft.

[TWDjacob]

I've never really had that fear because underwear is on too so

[Mercy99]

I have a very average sized dick when hard, so people seeing it soft really stress me out too

[thematthew]

Not self concious about being soft, everyone basically looks the same soft

[Some Kid]

I think at our age most girls don’t understand that kind of thing yet. It would make me really worried if I was ever seen soft by girls, my best advice would be to not worry about it though. People will believe what they want to believe and hear what they want to hear, regardless of the facts.

[Undieguy2]

I’m fairly average when soft or hard, so I guess I’m not afraid of girls thinking average is small. There’s nothing I can do to change my size anyway.

[Turbofan explosion]

Some girls who have never had sex may not know that the penis is supposed to be smaller when soft. Don't worry, even if a girl says it is small. Everyone is like that (unless they happen to have a gigantic penis).

[NormalTeenDudde]

A little bit yeah. I like to try to give it it a lil “ fluffing” first lol

[bastile23]

That remindes me of the time i was pantsed in the 10th grade, but lucky for me they only pulled my pants and i was in my tighty whities so nobody saw my actual penis(im 3 inches soft)
I was made fun of for wearing briefs tho lol

[Brandon618]

Like what you said about girls. They have NO clue about penis size and when soft it is even worse. Do I fear it? Never thought of it tbh, but yea I guess I might. The guys don't tease him because they know the differences, obviously. Pantsing does not happen out in the open too much, just in the locker room sometimes pulling a guys shorts down. We laugh at the pantsing, not a guys penis for sure.

[Franciscofixe]

I never felt that