Masturbating to porn

[GeorgiPeev03]

This is a question for both boys and girls. How often do you do it and do you think masturbating to porn can really be harmful for later sexual esperiences of the one who does it?

[Katie2003]

Not very often, because I find most porn to be degrading to the women and girls depicted in it. I do look sometimes at respectfully presented sexual interaction between two girls, but have no interest at all in boy-girl type sexual scenes. I'm more likely to masturbate a while after having looked at some video featuring two girls than actually doing it while watching. Plus, I have to keep my parents trust that I am not doing anything online that is questionable, I only got permission to use the computer without being monitored last month when I turned 15. I do admit to cheating before and looking at stuff over at my friends house, or with my big sis a few times. But sometimes they look at things I really don't want to see.

I would be afraid that if a person frequently uses watching that sort of stuff in order to enable their own masturbation, they might become conditioned or addicted to it, and someday they could be unable to have sex or masturbate without adding in the outside stimulation. That's the explanation my mom gave about looking at porn, and I have to agree with her. Still, it's interesting and fun once in a while to look, but I would never do it on a regular basis.

[Candy in CT]

I do and have for a long time. Mom told me why should she stop me from watching what I'm doing in real life. Dad said "You can't put smoke back in the bottle once it is out."

[GeorgiPeev03]

I find most porn to be degrading to the women and girls depicted in it. I do look sometimes at respectfully presented sexual interaction between two girls.

I would be afraid that if a person frequently uses watching that sort of stuff in order to enable their own masturbation, they might become conditioned or addicted to it, and someday they could be unable to have sex or masturbate without adding in the outside stimulation. That's the explanation my mom gave about looking at porn, and I have to agree with her. Still, it's interesting and fun once in a while to look, but I would never do it on a regular basis.

Ok, thank you for your answer. I also don't really watch straight porn exactly for that reason - I watch normal lesbian porn.

As for addiction and conditioning, that's what I've heard and read about it and I'm not really sure whether to consider it a myth, or a fact. I can't really define about myself - I usually do it once per 2-3 days. I can masturbate without watching it but I think I've come to a moment when I just prefer it with.

I do and have for a long time. Mom told me why should she stop me from watching what I'm doing in real life. Dad said "You can't put smoke back in the bottle once it is out."

Wow, that's strange - parents to know and to be ok with that. I'm secret so far but I don't know if they suppose I do and just leave this embarrassing for both sides theme, or they really don't know. About "watching what I'm doing in real life", I've read a lot criticism on porn saying it does exactly the opposite - that it "gives a false idea of what sex should be like and should look like in real and it shouldn't be the main source for education" and I don't know if I'd agree with it, or not.

[mick01]

Most porn seems fake to me so I prefer masturbating to real people that I know, tho that sounds creepy.

[Katie2003]

Most porn seems fake to me so I prefer masturbating to real people that I know, tho that sounds creepy.

Maybe it isn't so creepy as you think it sounds, because other people often do the same thing.

I would never tell someone I knew that I had used them as a fantasy in my mind while masturbating. However, I have actually done that quite a few times and not with people that I have ever had sex with in real life or would ever be likely to. Mostly girls I know casually from school, but not my close friends. Once in a while an older female.

Is it harmless to fantasize about people we know? I think a lot of people do it. Is it harmful to use those fantasies to masturbate to? If no one is being hurt, probably not. Just keep it secret.

Wow, that's strange - parents to know and to be ok with that. I'm secret so far but I don't know if they suppose I do and just leave this embarrassing for both sides theme, or they really don't know. About "watching what I'm doing in real life", I've read a lot criticism on porn saying it does exactly the opposite - that it "gives a false idea of what sex should be like and should look like in real and it shouldn't be the main source for education" and I don't know if I'd agree with it, or not.

A few times, girls I date and have sex with have done videos of us together either masturbating or having sex. I haven't had intercourse with a boy yet, but I am already sure that the first time I do, I want to record it and look at it later on.

The ones my girlfriends made of us together don't look anything like what we have seen online though, so I have to agree that porn doesn't represent what sex is like in reality, at least not for me. Of course, we weren't trying to make porn, we only wanted to watch the video of us making out and having sex to see what we actually looked like together. Since then, I have looked at those several times and used them to masturbate to.

[mick01]

I agree with you and thanks for your thoughts. It just sounded creepy that I masturbate thinking about guys or girls I know and for the most part they don't know it. I have told a straight friend that he was in my fantasy but I knew he would be ok with that.
But ya, I agree that it is harmless and should be kept to myself.

[GeorgiPeev03]

I haven't actually thought about this... But as I know myself, later I would have a lot of problems talking to those people because just there wuld be a behavior change that would pop up and I would not be able to keep myself calm and normally around them... :(

[Candy in CT]

Mom put it this way. "That shit ain't real" Love you Mom
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[Katie2003]

I haven't actually thought about this... But as I know myself, later I would have a lot of problems talking to those people because just there wuld be a behavior change that would pop up and I would not be able to keep myself calm and normally around them... :(

I haven't had that problem, but I can totally understand why it could be an issue for some people under the right conditions. The only one that might ever be a problem for me (and so far it hasn't) is an older woman that I completely respect and admire. She knows that I date other girls my own age, but doesn't have a clue that I like her a lot and fantasize about being with her. I see no reason to ever tell her that.

[GeorgiPeev03]

I haven't had that problem, but I can totally understand why it could be an issue for some people under the right conditions. The only one that might ever be a problem for me (and so far it hasn't) is an older woman that I completely respect and admire. She knows that I date other girls my own age, but doesn't have a clue that I like her a lot and fantasize about being with her. I see no reason to ever tell her that.

You girls can better hide it and it can be eventually guessed by the others only through direct behavior analyse, while for boys, an accidental unnecessarily popping memory would cause unproper as time erection...

[Candy in CT]

You girls can better hide it and it can be eventually guessed by the others only through direct behavior analyse, while for boys, an accidental unnecessarily popping memory would cause unproper as time erection...

Why should we hide anything? You have any idea how sexual girls can be. For way to long we have been told this is not "Lady Like". I hate it when we(girls) are told how to act. I will be my self and will act the way I want to. That means watching what I want to.

[GeorgiPeev03]

Why should we hide anything? You have any idea how sexual girls can be. For way to long we have been told this is not "Lady Like". I hate it when we(girls) are told how to act. I will be my self and will act the way I want to. That means watching what I want to.

Oh, sorry - I didn't mean that with my words... Everybody is free to do whatever she/he wants to. Totally agree. I've seen enough people to know that girls can definitely be as (if not even more) open-minded and freely acting and the way they wish on this theme as/than boys.
I just meant that for girls is easier to hide their sexual fantasies they have from the real people that are involved in those fantasies (if and when they want to hide them).

[ska8er]

I think masturbating to porn acts
as an aid for teaching what ways
u can please ur partner as well as
urself. It can b straight or gay sex.

[Harrier]

Everybody is different and needs to make their own decisions.

Some say that porn is completely unrealistic. But others say its educational.

Some say porn is addictive and will make you a perv ifyou watch too much. Others will say masturbating to porn twice a day is no different than simply masturbating twice a day.

Some say porn is degrading to women. Others say girls like porn as much as boys.

I say the truth is often in the middle. There is a ton bout porn that is unrealistic. Sizes for one. But you can learn a lot about anatomy and positions. I have recorded my gf and me having sex and it never looks as good but one reason is we don't have good equipment or lighting or a director who can tell is what looks good and to start over and edit it to look best.

I don't think it matters what you look at or think about while you masturbate. As long as you dont masturbate excessively and you can have a good sex life with your SO as well as yourself.

[Jake445]

I don't watch a lot of porn but I have masturbated to some of course.
I think watching and masturbating to it is fine as long as you're aware that what you're watching is all fake and simply entertainment that doesn't reflect real relationships.

[Harrier]

I don't watch a lot of porn but I have masturbated to some of course.
I think watching and masturbating to it is fine as long as you're aware that what you're watching is all fake and simply entertainment that doesn't reflect real relationships.

I ttly get your point. But it's not ALL fake. I like amateur porn and watching couples fuck while being streamed. That's not fake. Even some real regular porn looks real imo.

[Jordan99]

Not very often, because I find most porn to be degrading to the women and girls depicted in it. I do look sometimes at respectfully presented sexual interaction between two girls, but have no interest at all in boy-girl type sexual scenes. I'm more likely to masturbate a while after having looked at some video featuring two girls than actually doing it while watching. Plus, I have to keep my parents trust that I am not doing anything online that is questionable, I only got permission to use the computer without being monitored last month when I turned 15. I do admit to cheating before and looking at stuff over at my friends house, or with my big sis a few times. But sometimes they look at things I really don't want to see.

I would be afraid that if a person frequently uses watching that sort of stuff in order to enable their own masturbation, they might become conditioned or addicted to it, and someday they could be unable to have sex or masturbate without adding in the outside stimulation. That's the explanation my mom gave about looking at porn, and I have to agree with her. Still, it's interesting and fun once in a while to look, but I would never do it on a regular basis.

Well put! I think porn "could" lead to one developing unrealistic expectations in their sex life but I also admit that I have looked at it and have gotten aroused by it which has led to me and my BF having great sex.

[Mollypop]

One of the great things about sex is that there's so much variety in what people like and what's good for them. You get to find your own way with it and it can be different from everyone else and that's totally OK as long as everyone involved consents.

[conradpjones]

I do not watch porn at all because porn is fake. I heard it can make you want things that you can't have. It can distort your view. Anyways, porn is illegal if you are not 18 and quite frankly, I do not need any virus's on my phone. But yes to answer the question porn in my opinion in the long run can be very harmful especially if you have a relationship because you may want something that you don't have

[gurquenjen]

I go through periods where I absolutely detest porn and will delete any and all of it from my internet records, going so far as to purge often quite well cultivated tumblr accounts just full of the stuff...and then I also go through periods where I watch it pretty much every day while masturbating, and then sometimes just idly because it is kind of entertaining to watch people screw, even if it is artificial and made solely for the gain of a nebulous, creepy, mustachioed third party named Wayne or Oleg or whatever.

I'm really torn on the subject of porn, because on the one hand, a lot of that shit is just degrading to everyone involved...but, for a good percentage of the stuff, everyone involved gets paid, maybe not enough to retire on, but enough to keep the lights on...and that's sometimes all you need, and you'll happily let a girl in nothing but banana-yellow thigh-high boots and a gorilla mask pour a gallon of faux semen (mostly corn syrup) over you while you sing the national anthem of the Soviet Union, naked yourself except for a Red Sox cap just for a $482.21 after taxes and other deductions, in your bank account...not that I'm speaking from personal experience, I'm not, I swear. It can make you want things you can't have, people you can't have, whole ways of life that you'll just never reach no matter how hard you visualize yourself there on the beach next to Tawnee or Jordan or whomever and it can completely screw with your body image if you spend all day comparing yourself to folks what get paid to wear nothing at all...
But it can also be a very useful outlet for a lot of feelings that otherwise would just sit unexpressed and maybe if you see someone acting out a fantasy of their own it will give you the courage to try and reach your own lusty dreams.

I just try to maintain a healthy work/life/sexlife/porn balance. Sometimes I succeed, and when I do, life tends to go pretty awesomely.

[ImJulia]

I do

[Pultost]

I've seen some porn, but it doesn't really do it for me.

[Cangirl]

Maybe it isn't so creepy as you think it sounds, because other people often do the same thing.

I would never tell someone I knew that I had used them as a fantasy in my mind while masturbating. However, I have actually done that quite a few times and not with people that I have ever had sex with in real life or would ever be likely to. Mostly girls I know casually from school, but not my close friends. Once in a while an older female.

Is it harmless to fantasize about people we know? I think a lot of people do it. Is it harmful to use those fantasies to masturbate to? If no one is being hurt, probably not. Just keep it secret.



A few times, girls I date and have sex with have done videos of us together either masturbating or having sex. I haven't had intercourse with a boy yet, but I am already sure that the first time I do, I want to record it and look at it later on.

The ones my girlfriends made of us together don't look anything like what we have seen online though, so I have to agree that porn doesn't represent what sex is like in reality, at least not for me. Of course, we weren't trying to make porn, we only wanted to watch the video of us making out and having sex to see what we actually looked like together. Since then, I have looked at those several times and used them to masturbate to.

I do this as well sometimes. Thinking of other people I mean. It's pretty harmless I think and it looks like a lot of people do it. Its more exciting to me to wonder about other people.

I do watch porn though but not to much. Porn seems fake to me for like professional stuff and a lot of those positions are not fun or comfortable! I like real things so realistic porn with real people a lot more than pro porn.

I do think that maybe some of it can change how we think about things. Seeing something done in porn and then wanting to try it in real life.

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

This is a question for both boys and girls. How often do you do it and do you think masturbating to porn can really be harmful for later sexual esperiences of the one who does it?

Rarely if ever. That said I do watch it occasionally when I'm turned on but not as a means to climax, just something fun basically. I think it's possible that you can become conditioned (like less sexually functional without it) and/or addicted but just as dangerous as those are the false norms and expectations it engenders, especially about how someone's body should look.

[HardCandyGirl]

Is it harmless to fantasize about people we know? I think a lot of people do it. Is it harmful to use those fantasies to masturbate to? If no one is being hurt, probably not. Just keep it secret.



A few times, girls I date and have sex with have done videos of us together either masturbating or having sex. I haven't had intercourse with a boy yet, but I am already sure that the first time I do, I want to record it and look at it later on.

The ones my girlfriends made of us together don't look anything like what we have seen online though, so I have to agree that porn doesn't represent what sex is like in reality, at least not for me. Of course, we weren't trying to make porn, we only wanted to watch the video of us making out and having sex to see what we actually looked like together. Since then, I have looked at those several times and used them to masturbate to.

Yeah, we all fantasize about people we know.

I watch porn, but the porn I prefer is the porn you made, something real. Most of the times porn is fake and make us believe that all people have to be perfect, with giant boobs and giant dicks, but just a few people are like that, so we get frustrated.

[blackashday]

watching porn is an addiction, it does nothing to your body (i guess so). if you masturbate on while watching porn then it harms you. you wont have the same feeling and excitement of masturbation as you have before, until you change #hangtag of the porn
how many of you people can masturbate on same porn clip for a week?

[Sofiya02]

I do sometimes and I don’t think it’s harmful in anyway, plus everyone is different. Can’t speak for everybody

[MasonBA]

have only seen a few minutes of porn but i'd probably jerk off to it

[ChloeF]

Why else would l watch it?
Other than for stimulation, it doesn't have too many other redeeming qualities.

[BleedingKansas]

This is a question for both boys and girls. How often do you do it and do you think masturbating to porn can really be harmful for later sexual esperiences of the one who does it?

I haven't done it in almost a year, but I'm thinking about going back to it, as I haven't really noticed any benefits.

I'm scared that I'll end up doing it too often, thus wasting a lot of time I could spend doing something productive. That's about the only harm I think it has, people who've done research may tell you something different.

[Gvanni]

I watch only because its the quickest way for me to bust a nut. It can become addictive if you look too deeply into it, however. Like other people on this thread, I kinda imagine and substitute other people into the porn whilst doing my thing.

[HardCandyGirl]

Yeah, we all fantasize about people we know.

I watch porn, but the porn I prefer is the porn you made, something real. Most of the times porn is fake and make us believe that all people have to be perfect, with giant boobs and giant dicks, but just a few people are like that, so we get frustrated.

I was watching porn today and somehow :P I found an old, old, old movie, '79, that was so different... and I realized that in those ancient times people in porn were... natural, real, and still beautiful, but I didn't see these giant and fake boobs and giant dicks. I didn't like that much hair :afro: and fashion, but I liked those natural and real bodies.

[Kody]

I dont usually use porn as a masturbation aid. That being said yes i have watched it before but knowing it was all acting and fake. Kinda like watching a regular movie. They are getting paid to act a certain way for others.

[pumpkineater34]

2-3 times a week... I mean it's fun to me.... I guess it could be bad, but I do try to watch the as real as possible stuff... at least I think ... haha ( I'm a virgin idk lol I'm clueless)

[raniagr]

I was watching porn today and somehow :P I found an old, old, old movie, '79, that was so different... and I realized that in those ancient times people in porn were... natural, real, and still beautiful, but I didn't see these giant and fake boobs and giant dicks. I didn't like that much hair :afro: and fashion, but I liked those natural and real bodies.
I totally agree with you

[JustHaveFun]

I thoroughly enjoy it, it has opened my mind to a lot of things I would like to try that I probably would have never thought of before.

[Bamf_Girl]

My favorite is the squirting and lesbian stuff. It gets me hot every time. I watch it 6-7 times a week

[ClaireHofmann]

I don't watch it all the time but I do think it can be very interesting sometimes. I discovered so many new things to try during sex by watching porn.

[ClaireHofmann]

I thoroughly enjoy it, it has opened my mind to a lot of things I would like to try that I probably would have never thought of before.
I 100% agree with you.

[ashleigh7]

I agree it's VERY interesting to watch sometimes...but I'm kinda a hopeless romantic....romance movies and books get me really going :) God I feel so old saying that right now :) lol!

[TheMagicPotato]

I'm very specific with the type of porn I watch. So, I don't watch a lot of it.

[Gvanni]

I’m confused as to why so many of you view it as degrading... what kind of porn are you watching that it is so degrading. And if you are why are you watching that degrading stuff?

[tinkerkell]

I watch porn almost every day
I think the only real danger it poses is when you start to forget that what you're seeing usually isn't what real sex is like

[ShineintheDark]

Just as with everything, porn is great in moderation and only really poses a threat if you watch too much or become too reliant on regular usage

[Char03]

I watch it now and again if I'm in the mood.

[JessicaShy]

If I do I prefer the 'homemade' type to that made by porn stars

[JoeyKangaroo]

I often masturbate to porn. I think of it like an action movie, people jump off buildings it I never expect to do it. So porn is not something I associate with desires in my sex life

[Beccabear]

Just sometimes, not all the time, I really have to be in the mood for it

[Maxi_milian]

i do it often with porn

[shore98]

If I do I prefer the 'homemade' type to that made by porn stars

this, exactly

[cinderfella]

I used to do it. But mostly coz gay porn is so idealised with big dicks and nearly impossible to attain bodies its a little bit off putting for me. I noticed when I become obsessed with it. Its sometimes harder and harder to get horny and feel pleasure when it comes to real sex. Mostly like how bad you body feels after binging on fast food.

[ClaireHofmann]

Just sometimes, not all the time, I really have to be in the mood for it
I'm just like you. I don't watch porn very often either.

[MajaVanessa]

I don't think that porn is harmful. I don't watch too much of it but sometimes I really enjoy some good clip while playing.

[TrueCharlie14]

I do not watch porn at all because porn is fake. I heard it can make you want things that you can't have. It can distort your view. Anyways, porn is illegal if you are not 18 and quite frankly, I do not need any virus's on my phone. But yes to answer the question porn in my opinion in the long run can be very harmful especially if you have a relationship because you may want something that you don't have

Who said anything about viruses?!

[Pultost]

I don't think that porn is harmful. I don't watch too much of it but sometimes I really enjoy some good clip while playing.

I don't think so either. In my case, it just got old very quickly. xD

[Zachary G]

I dont masturbate to porn that much, I usually do it to people that i know or have been with. Porn can be both bad and good in the way that though it isnt real, it can teach a person about how to please their partner and other sexual things.

[Anonymousteenager01]

I masturbate to porn probably twice a week. I don't see anything wrong with it and don't think it has affected me.

[Hans_Olo]

Who said anything about viruses?!

Precisely. Just use a trusted site and you should be fine, as long as you aren't downloading it

[Stevan LT]

I am pretty sure all the porn movies are fake

[HFrint]

My first self pleasure experiences were fueled by imagination. When we were eight my friend and I were looking at porn online and thought it was gross to see it with a guy and girl so we looked up boy sex. It fueled our first experiences with each other . It was out of curiosity that I watched straight porn and it led to me having my first straight sex experience.

Porn can steer people in different directions.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

porn can be sexually damaging in relationships for those who think it is a realistic indicator of ideal performance in bed, but other than that i jerk off to porn whenever i jerk off haha

[Gay Paul]

My first self pleasure experiences were fueled by imagination. When we were eight my friend and I were looking at porn online and thought it was gross to see it with a guy and girl so we looked up boy sex. It fueled our first experiences with each other . It was out of curiosity that I watched straight porn and it led to me having my first straight sex experience.

Porn can steer people in different directions.

Porn stern people in the shit, but you're ware lucky/

You should be careful that porn can ruin your brain, especially at your age! I'm just a little out of the second camp,

if you know what I mean ;-)
But it's good that at least it directed you towards the "Light side of force" i'm fallen jedi :D

My point is that pornography is first artificial, true sex does not look like it. You better admire the bodies of your girlfriends than watch this shit!

[Gay Paul]

My first self pleasure experiences were fueled by imagination. When we were eight my friend and I were looking at porn online and thought it was gross to see it with a guy and girl so we looked up boy sex. It fueled our first experiences with each other . It was out of curiosity that I watched straight porn and it led to me having my first straight sex experience.

Porn can steer people in different directions.

Better find someone at your age for companion (date :D)
Of course, dating without no naughty things :D is certainly better than an artificial image

[Diable rouge]

As long as you don't believe it's reality and you don't abuse of it. I don't always watch it.

[Atlantis]

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