Friends

[benlodge123]

Yo, this question is for everyone!

Do any of you have this friend that you first thought you would want to go out with?
I do, this really hot looking girl called Alicia. I wanted to get to know her, then maybe progress into a relationship. We have told eachother everything good and bad that happened in the past and she is one of my best friends. I don't know how to say this, but I much prefer it this way to a relationship.

So in short terms,
Have you got a person in your life that you wanted a relationship with, but then became best friends with instead? Do you like it this way?

[Phosphene]

I'm not a spontaneous seeker of relationships - I can't just meet someone a few times and decide "I want to go out with you!" I'd prefer to know the person well and establish trust before considering a relationship.

So no, I've never had a crush become a best friend.

[ska8er]

Sometimes u get to know someone that
u hope turns into a relationship but after
awhile u c it will not then it is better
to keep that person as a friend in order to
b close to that someone. I don't know if this
is what u r hinting at but I think a lot of us
go through this in more cases than one.

[benlodge123]

Sometimes u get to know someone that
u hope turns into a relationship but after
awhile u c it will not then it is better
to keep that person as a friend in order to
b close to that someone. I don't know if this
is what u r hinting at but I think a lot of us
go through this in more cases than one.

Thats exactly it! I guess the easier way of putting it would be having a crush on someone that later you become friends with

[Just JT]

I have, and what I’ve found is like you can’t have your cake and eat it to. If she’s a really good friend and you value that more than your other desires, I’d try and keep it the way it is. A really good friend isn’t so easy to come across and truly trust that person. But also....don’t let a good oprotunity pass you by. It might bring you guys together even closer. But if it doesn’t last, then your friendship may become at risk. It’s a tough choice man...good luck...

[benlodge123]

I have, and what I’ve found is like you can’t have your cake and eat it to. If she’s a really good friend and you value that more than your other desires, I’d try and keep it the way it is. A really good friend isn’t so easy to come across and truly trust that person. But also....don’t let a good oprotunity pass you by. It might bring you guys together even closer. But if it doesn’t last, then your friendship may become at risk. It’s a tough choice man...good luck...

For sure, i will stary friends with her for as long as I can! She is awesome!