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Xavier
March 10th, 2014, 08:57 PM
Many of you might be wondering the same thing, am I straight, bi, or just bi-curious? I often find myself confused. I'll just spill all the beans and give you my perspective. Please give advice and let me know how you feel or if you have experienced the same thing. Here's my story: I thought I was completely straight my whole life until I became a teenager. I'm definitely into girls but I also enjoy things like bisexual porn and sometimes the occasional gay porn (minus anal sex). Another thing is that I have wanted to see my friend naked. I remember when I was drunk that I kept hinting at wanting to see him nude and it was kind of embarrassing when I woke up in the morning after that night remembering a little bit about what I said. Luckily, my best friend isn't too weirded out by it but is not interested in what I want. One time, he caught me take a quick glance at his dick while he was changing, but i'm not too embarrassed about it cause he didn't really say much. I hate how I want to see him naked cause I feel like a weirdo. I would see a boy naked if I had the chance. I would probably experiment with a guy as long as it wasn't anal. I sometimes catch my self looking at guys at school (with clothes on) but not in a perverse way, I just really notice when a guy is attractive. I guess maybe i'm just a little bi-curious and happened to be attracted to the male body. (I'm not in to gay romance or anything) So my question is, do any of you guys out there find yourself being straight or bi-curious and having these thoughts? Have you tried to look at someone's dick? Do you have a similar story? Thanks for listening.

Karkat
March 10th, 2014, 09:31 PM
I'd say you sound bi-curious, if not bisexual. Seems like you're heteroromantic though. (Sometimes people forget that sexuality ≠ romantic attraction! It gets confusing.)

Mini
March 10th, 2014, 10:25 PM
It could be the hormones raging in you, it is normal in most late stages of puberty to have an admiration of other guys, or just sexual attraction. On the other hand, you are technically full fledged bisexual because sexuality should never be confused with romantic interests.

Forsakenbymyself
March 11th, 2014, 12:34 PM
Oh god, i'd definitely look at a boy naked, and i'm a bisexual heteroromantic boy.

ScottishCanary
March 11th, 2014, 01:12 PM
It's fairly normal for us teens to want to experiment a little with our sexuality so don't worry about it. I think wanting to see your friend naked perhaps makes you bi curious but that's all fair enough. As long as you are not making your friend uncomfortable then it's all good and no one is hurt.

ninja789
March 11th, 2014, 01:18 PM
yeah a couple of times when I was younger