cheated on

[Xavier16]

so i recently left my ex for cheating on me (online dating) we had done um... intimate rp and pics together but we promised when we had sex, it would be to each other and promised to wait.
well one day i get a uh naughty pic to some guy named ryan. i deleted it and confronted her. she begged me to forgive her. i then thought "ok she was tempted and we ARE far away so i'll forgive her this time" until suddenly she asked- "can i date you and sleep with him?"
i immediately dumped her.

she's bugging me now so much i blocked her...
was i right to dump her..?
i just dont know anymore...

[BlackParadePixie]

online dating almost never works. it's hard enough sometimes trusting someone that you see every day or every other day, suddenly having to have the same trust for someone who can just say whatever they want to make you shut up...? Yeah, you were right to dump her.

[SethfromMI]

As my wonderfully amazing friend Fiona said, you were right to dump him. She is also very right in saying online dating very rarely works. It can sometimes work when the people know each other before hand and one has to move away, but a lot of people want intimate contact which the internet simply cannot provide. It is hard enough when you did know the person, it is even harder to have the same sense of commitment sometimes when you never met in person. I am not justifying her in anyway, I am not excusing her. Sorry for what she did to you man, I would recommend the next relationship not be online.

[ImCoolBeans]

Be wary of online dating... I'm not saying that it couldn't work, but in my experience it's just not great. If that's what works for you then go for it, but it leaves a lot of room for infidelity, and anyone can be whoever they want online/say whatever they want and pass it off as the truth.

[ska8er]

U were right to dump her. Seems like
she and her other boyfriend r playing
games. Maybe she is trying to b honest
with u but it is backfiring. At this point I
wouldn't trust her if u took her back. The
one thing with online relationships is that
they do not last and honestly do u believe
anyone is going to b true and loyal and that
goes on both sides. There is nothing like a
real person to date and not someone on a
screen. It might b fun but I wouldn't get
serious about it.

[jamie_n5]

Yes of course you did the right thing by dumping her. Long distance online dating really isn't the best and wise thing to do anyway. You really truly don't know the person on the other end of the line. You can get close to people I believe online but it's still not like physically being there. Skyping is about as close as you can get to being there I guess but it still isn't being there in person.

[Ethan19]

I agree with Seth and Fiona on breaking up with her, not so much on the other side.

[Henry333]

I agree with Seth and Fiona on breaking up with her, not so much on the other side.

I agree

[badboy608]

girls are emotionally driven creatures, don't ever expect any of them to keep a promise

[NewLeafsFan]

Yes, I think you were right to dump her. If cheating was all she had done, I would say that second chances could meand the relationship. However, your problems are much bigger than that. You are looking for different things as she wants something casual while she leans to you for support as a friend and you want a regular girlfriend. You should not be willing to compromise in this situation.

Keep her number blocked, don't check her social media, and move on. Good luck.

[Melton]

I was cheated before in a somewhat similar way, so I dumped her and left her forever, mostly because of many threats made against me such as “I’ll tell your parents you did this” (I never did do whatever she was going to tell them), so I fired back with the same, which I never normally do, but decided to make an exception for the one time, and we’ve never spoken since. So in other words, try finding someone else.