How did you know you were bi, gay or straight?

[Dude1]

So I started with jacking off with friends at like 13 and later experimented with guys. I have only been intimate with 1 girl (not sex though). I am attracted to guys sexually but attracted to girls both sexually and emotionally. Oh and I also only watch gay porn. Anyway....I'm confused with where I fit :what: Anyone have some advice or experienced similar? Feel free to inbox me :)

[InternetTeen]

I've always been straight. Never thought about liking boys.

[drhalsey1]

I've just never noticed that I liked girls. Feel free to message me too

[jamie_n5]

I would say that by your description that you are bisexual.

By the time I was 12 I knew that I was gay for sure.

[Turbofan explosion]

I just felt like it

[Aussiekid2018]

Well if you have feelings for girls but not boys means you are straight, if you have feelings for boys but not girls your gay and if you have the, for both your bi

[Shamal]

I kinda always just knew I liked girls, I guess because that's the norm but as I have gotten older, I've realized I like guys too, and then experimented and enjoyed it so carried on.

[MichaelSmith3579]

With me I basically just knew I was attracted to boys, but I was also definitely attracted to girls. Therefore I just accepted that I was bi.

[FameMonster]

To the OP, I would say you are bisexual. I think to be gay, you have to be emotionally and physically attracted to guys. Being gay is more than just about sex as it usually is in most heterosexual relationships.

For me, entering into puberty I had a curiosity towards guys sexually but never really considered myself bi or gay. Never even experimented with a guy until I was 16 or 17. Now, I am more emotionally and physically attracted to guys .

[LexKhalil]

I only watched gay porn, and I noticed I looked at boys differently after starting puberty. I still like girls, and I wouldn't mind having a girlfriend, but I'm
not sexually attracted to them.

[Riley2015]

I know that i like girls but i am not sure if i'm bi or bi-curious around boys

[Cycler21]

Cameron Boyce on "Jessie" lol:rolleyes:

[Cycler21]

Also from your description, you could be heteroromantic and bisexual.

[Harrier]

You know by who turns you on. And you can go further and test it by kissing or having sex if you're still not sure.

[Alumni]

I knew I was straight when I was 10 and my grandfather had asked me if I'd liked 'rough hands' or 'soft ones' to which I didn't answer him (pretty sure he was homophobic).

After that, I was lost. And well, time went by and I realized that I really liked girls. My reasoning was more of an anomaly, never really had that true male figure in my life as my father and grandparents kinda disappeared.

[Dude1]

Thanks guys! Gives me a little bit of direction

[Jonnieboy909]

When I started liking seeing boys naked in school locker room and shower, I kinda knew I was bi then

[Dude1]

Cameron Boyce on "Jessie" lol:rolleyes:

Lol what about Cameron Boyce?

[mick01]

I always assumed I was gay because I thought about the boys in school sexually. Then I had amazing sex with a girl and just decided I was bi cause I started liking girls.

[Cycler21]

Lol what about Cameron Boyce?

He's kinda my type, athletic, freckles, etc.

[wheredidyousleeplast]

I realised that I liked boys just as much as i liked girls

[KingExplosionMurder]

Middle school, locker rooms, the rest was history

[Dev.]

I kinda always know I liked guys but I just developed a subtle attraction to girls which has sent me back a few years in terms of excepting myself.

[Dude1]

He's kinda my type, athletic, freckles, etc.

Lol cool

[Dude1]

Middle school, locker rooms, the rest was history

What do you mean?

[Dude1]

I kinda always know I liked guys but I just developed a subtle attraction to girls which has sent me back a few years in terms of excepting myself.

So what did you finally do?

[Dev.]

So what did you finally do?

First I tried suppressing the feelings cause I thought that would be easier but of course that didn't help. Now I just try to not care and live without labels.

[Dude1]

First I tried suppressing the feelings cause I thought that would be easier but of course that didn't help. Now I just try to not care and live without labels.

I like that. I should try that and just not worry about the labels :)

[TWDjacob]

I just like doing stuff with guys a bit more than girls

[KingExplosionMurder]

What do you mean?

Oh the guys wearing almost nothing was hot to me

[Dude1]

Oh the guys wearing almost nothing was hot to me

Haha alright.

[Jericho14]

Is heteromantic bisexual considered as bisexual?

[Franciscofixe]

I know that i like girls but i am not sure if i'm bi or bi-curious around boys
Me too

[london98765]

i started liking girls and always dreamt of having sex with them but in school when i started seeing my friends penises it turned me on. then i started watching gay porn and decided i was bi

[jerrion]

So I started with jacking off with friends at like 13 and later experimented with guys. I have only been intimate with 1 girl (not sex though). I am attracted to guys sexually but attracted to girls both sexually and emotionally. Oh and I also only watch gay porn. Anyway....I'm confused with where I fit :what: Anyone have some advice or experienced similar? Feel free to inbox me :)

i feel exactly the same about guys and girls. i think you should just go with whoever you like at that period of your life and see how it goes .

[bfldworker]

Umm, bi. I have known since I was 13. I am attracted to both male and females. With males they can't be hairy like me. Although I haven't done anything sexually with either gender

[NamelessHuman]

As many others have said, it sounds like your bi-sexual, I’m bi-curious, as I’m still not certain.

[Dude1]

As many others have said, it sounds like your bi-sexual, I’m bi-curious, as I’m still not certain.

How did you finally decide

[tomhero]

I always assumed I was gay because I thought about the boys in school sexually. Then I had amazing sex with a girl and just decided I was bi cause I started liking girls.

Same here!

[toby69]

I don't know when I realized I was bi (more gay than straight). Having started at age 8 with best buddy also 8 should have been a clue. I think you will agree that for males there are more opportunities for experiment with boys than with girls. We have sleepovers with boys, not girls. I'm interested in your comments.