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Riley2015
May 12th, 2018, 10:11 AM
6 months ago i gave up masturbation, now i don't do it and i mean not at all, not ever. its been hard and it requires will power and self control but i am glad i did it and i am going to stick to it.

Any other boys gave it up or want to give it up? i know its hard to do it but its really good the longer you go without, i don't need or want to masturbate. I know i am in a minority of boys who doesn't masturbate but i can't be the only one in the world right?

robin246
May 12th, 2018, 10:42 AM
6 months ago i gave up masturbation, now i don't do it and i mean not at all, not ever. its been hard and it requires will power and self control but i am glad i did it and i am going to stick to it.

Any other boys gave it up or want to give it up? i know its hard to do it but its really good the longer you go without, i don't need or want to masturbate. I know i am in a minority of boys who doesn't masturbate but i can't be the only one in the world right?

why don't u? and why u want to give up? there is nothing wrong with masturbation it's normal every day thing and is even good for stress why stop man??

Riley2015
May 12th, 2018, 10:59 AM
why don't u? and why u want to give up? there is nothing wrong with masturbation it's normal every day thing and is even good for stress why stop man??

i was addicted to it and it got out of control a bit

HeyCameron
May 12th, 2018, 11:08 AM
I hardly do it but that’s because I don’t have much of a sex drive (last time was weeks ago). Being addicted to it is not good though so I’m glad you were able to stop.

swimjoey1
May 12th, 2018, 11:10 AM
i Don’t think I can ever stop JO, i get boner all the time and have to do it before I go to bed every night.

SethfromMI
May 12th, 2018, 11:27 AM
well if it was becoming a problem for you then good for you for giving it up. It really does take a lot of power and control to do that so really good for you.

Riley2015
May 12th, 2018, 11:39 AM
well if it was becoming a problem for you then good for you for giving it up. It really does take a lot of power and control to do that so really good for you.

Thanks, it can be hard sometimes. But it was a real addiction, it was extremely unfortunate that i had to get so addicted.

Franciscofixe
May 12th, 2018, 11:42 AM
Thanks, it can be hard sometimes. But it was a real addiction, it was extremely unfortunate that i had to get so addicted.

If you are addicted to it, that was the best to do.
But if your not addicted I think is a bit useless, also masturbation have several pros, such as decreasing the prostate cancer.

ska8er
May 12th, 2018, 11:44 AM
As long as u can control urself it is
harmless to masturbate other than
in some cases I read that a build up
of sperm can cause infections and
also probs with the prostate. Some
doctors perform massaging the
prostate to relieve congestion of
the gland. If one feels like they r
masturbating too much it is best
to find other ways to release
tension as in contact sports or
other types of forgetting bout
sexual ideas to get off.

For good is an awful long time.

robin246
May 12th, 2018, 12:29 PM
i was addicted to it and it got out of control a bit

can u explain this a bit better man?

Riley2015
May 12th, 2018, 12:39 PM
can u explain this a bit better man?

yes well when i was wanking 5-6 times per day and at weekends i was hardly coming out of my room at all because i was at it all day.

jamie_n5
May 12th, 2018, 04:24 PM
Well I don't understand why you don't want to masturbate. It is a natural and normal thing to do. Besides it's very pleasurable. Good luck with not ever doing it again.

You should be able to control yourself if you had the willpower to stop. You should be able to limit yourself to twice a day. Morning and night.

SethfromMI
May 12th, 2018, 10:24 PM
Thanks, it can be hard sometimes. But it was a real addiction, it was extremely unfortunate that i had to get so addicted.

Oh it can absolutely be a real addiction, glad to hear you got things under control.

bonbon
May 13th, 2018, 07:24 AM
No, I don't want to give it up, as it is a perfectly normal thing to do.

Shamal
May 13th, 2018, 08:00 AM
No I don't think I'd be able to stop wanking, and I have no real need to either as it feels good.

ShineintheDark
May 13th, 2018, 08:42 AM
I don't plan on stopping completely cos it feels great and does me no harm but cutting down wouldn't be terrible. Your choice to stop is fully up to you and I hope it brings you the happiness you wanted

Riley2015
May 13th, 2018, 08:48 AM
Well I don't understand why you don't want to masturbate. It is a natural and normal thing to do. Besides it's very pleasurable. Good luck with not ever doing it again.

You should be able to control yourself if you had the willpower to stop. You should be able to limit yourself to twice a day. Morning and night.

yeah, i dunno. Maybe eventually i will try doing it 1-2 times a day and see if i can control it.

FameMonster
May 13th, 2018, 09:43 AM
I can see where that is definitely a problem, but have you tried just cutting back? Allow yourself just to do it once a day and then cut back to a few times a week. Keep yourself occupied with other things and people, and set a limit to the number of times you allow yourself to wank each day or week.

Personally, I think masturbation is healthy and there is nothing wrong with it. Best of luck!

yes well when i was wanking 5-6 times per day and at weekends i was hardly coming out of my room at all because i was at it all day.

Harrier
May 13th, 2018, 09:45 AM
You aren't the ONLY person in the world. But I would guess you are one of .5 - 1%. And probably most of those people don't do it bc they have medical problems. Some are religious too.

Riley2015
May 13th, 2018, 09:50 AM
I can see where that is definitely a problem, but have you tried just cutting back? Allow yourself just to do it once a day and then cut back to a few times a week. Keep yourself occupied with other things and people, and set a limit to the number of times you allow yourself to wank each day or week.

Personally, I think masturbation is healthy and there is nothing wrong with it. Best of luck!

Yes, this is really good and sensible advice :)

scott2002
May 13th, 2018, 10:00 AM
yes well when i was wanking 5-6 times per day and at weekends i was hardly coming out of my room at all because i was at it all day.
Wow, that really does sound like masturbating had taken over your life. It truly became an addiction for you. And it seems from what I've heard and read, that total abstinence is about the ONLY way to break or control a true addiction. Be it alcohol or drugs, or sexual things like this.

Riley2015
May 13th, 2018, 10:08 AM
Wow, that really does sound like masturbating had taken over your life. It truly became an addiction for you. And it seems from what I've heard and read, that total abstinence is about the ONLY way to break or control a true addiction. Be it alcohol or drugs, or sexual things like this.

yes but i guess it also make life kinda boring too :(

Not that i touch drugs or alcohol (my parents would skin me alive) but i can understand why some people enjoy those things too

InternetTeen
May 13th, 2018, 03:32 PM
Why did you stop? It's not bad or anything, it's actually healthy. I know people can get addicted but you just need to control your urges and limit yourself.

Impressionist1910
May 14th, 2018, 12:53 AM
No I don't think I'd be able to stop wanking, and I have no real need to either as it feels good.

Sane here and agreed 😂

Ben7
May 14th, 2018, 01:17 AM
Congrats on that admirable feat. I've tried to "stop forever and never do it again" many times, but I always end up doing it again within a month or so. The longest I was ever able to go was about 40 days. I'd eventually like to stop completely if possible, but I know I'm long ways off from being able to stop completely, so I just limit myself as much as possible as an alternate, more reasonable goal for myself (i.e. only once every several days or once per week or less often if possible).

I've noticed that when I stop doing it for a long time though, I get beyond a certain point where it kind of becomes easier, where my body seems to have accepted I won't do it and so I don't have the urge to do it like before when doing it more regularly and your body kind of expects it. But then you see something that turns you on and it's even more difficult to stop yourself from doing it. That, or a wet dream.

Anyways good luck man, hope it works out for you. I believe it can be done, but you have really got to have a strong will to make it happen.

Chefzg
May 14th, 2018, 08:20 PM
why don't u? and why u want to give up? there is nothing wrong with masturbation it's normal every day thing and is even good for stress why stop man??

I was wondering the same thing

Ethan19
May 14th, 2018, 08:50 PM
If you're that bad with it, I wouldn't bother tempting fate and 'only trying to do it X times a day'. Plus, eventually you'll just be getting with people/someone and it won't be a problem.

I don't do it either as a heads up, but not because I was addicted.

conradpjones
May 14th, 2018, 09:11 PM
congraturlations! keep it up. it may be hard to but stay strong! you can do it.

nicktheman2003
May 14th, 2018, 09:47 PM
Yeah congratulations. You have will power.
I enjoy masturbation but I'm not addicted like that. Good luck.

teenboyNathan
May 14th, 2018, 09:59 PM
Congrats on quitting for good if it was becoming addicting for you. I know it had to take a lot of will-power to stop

robin246
May 14th, 2018, 11:40 PM
I was wondering the same thing

ik right :D
my friends mum told him it's natural for boys to masturbate, healthy even and recommend by doctors to help with stress especially from school lmao!! ha haaaaaa! :)

alexr
May 18th, 2018, 10:51 AM
So you haven't masturbated for 6 months? how can you do that? I can barely go a day without masturbating

TWDjacob
May 18th, 2018, 05:25 PM
Well I don't really see a reason to chance and not do it so

West Coast Sheriff
May 18th, 2018, 08:42 PM
6 months ago i gave up masturbation, now i don't do it and i mean not at all, not ever. its been hard and it requires will power and self control but i am glad i did it and i am going to stick to it.

Any other boys gave it up or want to give it up? i know its hard to do it but its really good the longer you go without, i don't need or want to masturbate. I know i am in a minority of boys who doesn't masturbate but i can't be the only one in the world right?

That's awesome, not easy, and you should be proud of yourself.

I'm not perfect so I'm not going to say I never masturbate.
But I think masturbation is unhealthy especially when done in excess.
Like all bad habits, I think they are hard to do with moderation.
As far as the serotonin in your brain and your brain's reward system goes, in the long run, you'll be glad to not be a heavy masturbater.
I think when you give up or attempt to give up masturbating, it can really have an affect for the better on you.

Not always with masturbation, but often, pornography is involved. Pornography really is not good for you.

In my humble opinion, removing these from a man's life will enrich him for the better.

But I get when you are a teenager your hormones are going crazy and this isn't the worst thing to be doing. I just want to be clear I'm not here to shame anyone, just pointing out some facts about the topic.


- Sheriff out

Turbofan explosion
May 19th, 2018, 06:16 PM
I actually kinda want to stop for some reason lol

liberal raj
May 19th, 2018, 11:36 PM
why masturbation should be bad?If you are porn addict or if you are obsessed with jerking off then it's another case.Bot why would i give up.Do you know one should have at least 2 orgasms a week.that's good for your mental and physical health.

FameMonster
May 20th, 2018, 12:20 AM
I actually kinda want to stop for some reason lol


You probably don't want to give it up completely. Especially at your age when your hormones are raging...lol. I can understand cutting back or stopping for a while. It's actually fun to stop for a week or two and then it makes it a lot more pleasurable. Stopping for a period of time is a good test for yourself too. Good luck!

Rahul.123
May 21st, 2018, 12:47 PM
Yes i tried last month to not do masturbation as everyday i do masturbation. But i got wetdreams 5 to 6 times in week as i have stop masturbation.
So whats the point in sacrificing masturbation happiness and wetting your underpant.
Now again i have started masturbation and now i don't get wetdream.
So guys enjoy teenage life and masturbation.
Hope it get helpfull.

Dude1
May 21st, 2018, 02:10 PM
6 months ago i gave up masturbation, now i don't do it and i mean not at all, not ever. its been hard and it requires will power and self control but i am glad i did it and i am going to stick to it.

Any other boys gave it up or want to give it up? i know its hard to do it but its really good the longer you go without, i don't need or want to masturbate. I know i am in a minority of boys who doesn't masturbate but i can't be the only one in the world right?

How did you do it?

edvs
May 21st, 2018, 03:27 PM
I didn't masturbated for a month and it wasn't so hard. If you are trying to do something else it's not that hard