Moving on

[joshmz]

I've dated this for a little more than 2 years. In the past, she broke up with me and we got back together. A few weeks ago, she broke up with me again. I'm still struggling with moving on and I don't know how to do it. She says she wants to get back together and I said no. Then we started being friends and that turned into being friends with benefits and she still wanted to get back together. I started to give in to the idea until I found out she was going out with another guy already. I just wanna move on but I don't know how. It was a 2 year relationship and I feel like I can't just let it go. I just don't know how to deal with all this.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Use coping methods, really just things to avoid it while you recuperate. You have to be purely friends, when you went to friends with benefits that was bound to trigger things and was a bad idea. Understand why it stopped and how you can do better next time. I think finding the reasons for things and etc will give you a piece of mind that might help.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Very hard one - but she had wanted back with you ad you said no I guess now you have to deal with that.

[ninja789]

maybe distance yourself from her for a bit
time can be really helpful in these situations