I have a quick question.

[Devinsoccer]

So, there is a girl that I sit with everyday at lunch and she is very nice to a lot of people, except when shes around me. When shes around me she acts more like herself. She opens up to me and does a lot of things with me that she doesnt normally do with her other friends. We have started to talk a lot more than we used to and are becoming better and better friends.

Whenever anyone sees us together, EVERYONE, including some teachers, thinks we are dating even though we arent. We both have the h*ll nah reaction. Another thing is she identifies herself as a guy, but she still reffers herself to the female pronouns.

Also, shes told me how she acts around guys she likes. Guess what? She is starting to act like that little by little, touch by touch.

Now, it has gotten to the point to where I'm starting to like her and its becoming more and more obvious as the days progress. I think she might be starting to tell. If she hasn't yet, its just a matter of time.

My question now is, should I ask her out or should I just not ask her at all before she moves

[Max the Disenchanter]

She should make the first move... She's the guy

[Nnoki]

There's many things to notice here, yeah she might think she's a guy, but guys can like guys too, the only thing is if you're willing to be in a "gay" (because that's what she thinks) relationship.
Now, if you don't have any issues, you should go ahead and try a move, maybe you're not getting the right message and she's just changing the way she acts.
Now, if you're 100% sure she likes you and you're willing to do it, go ahead, just be ready for a rollercoaster of emotions

[ska8er]

U like her as a girl or a guy?
U better find out before u
make a move.

[jamie_n5]

Like ska8er said you better know with what sex she is going to identify with in your relationship. You could just keep going forward and building on your relationship and see what happens. If you really do feel comfortable enough to ask her to date then go ahead then you will know how she will react. It could be a tricky situation so make sure you know what to say and how to react to her reactions. Good Luck!

[Devinsoccer]

Little update; I did ask him out and he said no. He told me he wasnt ready. He said their could be a possibility in the future. As far as his and I goodbye I got him a pack of cards because that's what we do a lot, play cards.

[lliam]

good end so far

[Just JT]

You handled that really well bro...things like that can be really confusing, especially considering everything.

So just remain friends and see where it’ll go. He’s gonna need a good bro-friend, so be that for him first.

[rohancool]

Keep going on and give it some more time. If in future you feel it's getting emotionally burdensome to you, then try to communicate it to him/her.