Is this weird?

[Dat_cool_dude]

My parents say that kissing (0n the lips) is a big no no and that I should wit till the day that I'm married but I feel like I'm the only person in my school who hasn't kissed someone before. I do want to be pure till my marriage and keep my virginity but there is a girl I like and want to kiss but my parents say I shouldn't. Is this weird. P.S My religion is Non-Denominational Christian so it isn't a big deal in my church.

[Elysium]

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Also, I think that's a little strange, even for someone really religious. I don't see why kissing would be a big deal, but I haven't had much if any exposure to serious religious belief.

[ScottishCanary]

Having had limited exposure to the strict Christian rules on dating and relationships I would always advise people to follow their heart. I personally don't think kissing, especially for teenagers is a big thing. If you want to remain a virgin until you are married that's fine and your choice but certainly kissing is a far cry from full on vaginal sex. I would advise chatting to your parents about your feelings but I already assume it won't get you anywhere. I just wish you good luck and check back here if you need any more advice.

[Karkat]

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Also, I think that's a little strange, even for someone really religious. I don't see why kissing would be a big deal, but I haven't had much if any exposure to serious religious belief.

Yeah, I noticed that too. Sounds a little like what I have to deal with.

Pssh, I mean, I guess in some stricter religions/congregations kissing would be something you'd want to avoid, but I've never heard of anything like this other than from my parents- who spew malarkey the church doesn't even teach.

I mean, even as far as I know it's not super looked down upon among LDS, Catholic, or Jehovah's Witnesses.

Having had limited exposure to the strict Christian rules on dating and relationships I would always advise people to follow their heart. I personally don't think kissing, especially for teenagers is a big thing. If you want to remain a virgin until you are married that's fine and your choice but certainly kissing is a far cry from full on vaginal sex. I would advise chatting to your parents about your feelings but I already assume it won't get you anywhere. I just wish you good luck and check back here if you need any more advice.

Ah, but see the strict rules on dating USUALLY come from LDS or JW households. Not necessarily, but that's what I've commonly seen.

Even then, this sounds a bit extreme.

But yes, I agree- kissing is FAR from losing your virginity. If you're worried about that, just don't go much or any further than kissing, but I don't see why kissing is really that big of a problem.

It's not even sexual so much as affectionate. Some cultures kiss each other to say hello, and they'd be offended by uh, this.

Ultimately, it's up to what you feel is right for you, but it seems like your parents are making a big deal over nothing in my opinion.

[Synyster Shadows]

That's really unusual. Never heard of anything like it. Follow your heart and try to talk to your parents about it

[Ethe14]

That's pretty weird, I actually don't think kissing is against any religions. Maybe they just don't want you starting to kiss people and then you move on and start doing other stuff.

[Dat_cool_dude]

My religion is not that strict though. That's the thing.

[Living For Love]

It depends on your religion, but I would say it's fine. Just follow your conscience, like "Am I feeling guilty when doing this?" I think it's perfectly okay, though. I mean, you can't lose your virginity by kissing someone, can you?

[ninja789]

There are several people in my year at school who have never kissed anyone so don't worry. I am sure you are not alone :)

Personally I wouldn't let my parents stop me from doing that but I have no idea what yours are like. If you want to then, in my opinion, you should go for it

[Croconaw]

That doesn't make any sense. You should kiss whenever you want because it's your choice.

[isaiah]

you can trust me i same religion as u

[Meganium]

This...is nonsense. Is any form of kissing even mentioned in any religious text? It surely isn't remotely sexual, unless you make it.

You do what you wish, I guess. If you feel like kissing someone denies your wishes for celibacy, then by all means avoid it. But in my opinion, it doesn't.

[HFrint]

KISS! Do it and have fun.

[Falcons_11]

You should be able to kiss a girl and make her feel attractive without having sex with her. But it's difficult especially when hormones kick in. Good Luck.

[Vic_Fire]

i know that in the past most people thought like that.

[Adamant]

Last Activity: May 16th, 2014 12:30 AM
Since the op hasn't been on here for 5 years I guess it isn't treally worth giving any more advice.

[Atlantis]

bumped :locked: