Very short, shorts?

[Animal3393]

I could be opening a big can or worms with a controversial subject, but here goes.

Over the last few days I’ve seen a lot of girls wearing shorts that are so small you can clearly see the bottom of their ass cheeks where they meet the top of her legs. Also seem plenty of them shouting at people for looking at their ass.

What I’m wondering is why girls wear these and then have a screaming match at people in the street for looking at their ass.

I totally think girls should be allowed to wear whatever they want and as little or as much as they want but surely they realise that wearing certain clothes will attract attention, if you wear something that shows off your ass, should you really complain when people look?

[Candy in CT]

This might sound messed up but it is a girl thing. We know what is showing and a fast look is ok . but tracking us like you have a flashlight on us is not cool. Well it is how things are in Florida, It is like wearing short rompers we know what shows and when.

[Ethan19]

Same reason guys wear sagged trousers. It also has the same look

[BlackParadePixie]

sometimes the shorts ride up our ass and we can't help it.

[Brigje]

Girls are girls and boys are boys, it is all part of growing up.

[Sofiya02]

I sure have dressed like that and no you shouldn’t complain if people look. You choose to show it anyway.

[Sailor Mars]

It’s not looking that is really the problem (although, if you’re a 40 year old guy staring at a 15year old girl, you’re fucking gross). It’s old, grown ass men making inappropriate comments and thinking that’s okay is the problem

[Caycedilla]

I agree that it’s natural for people to look at each other, some of that is wanted and some is not. It’s gets confusing because those lines are drawn individually. But yeah, as long as it doesn’t get into creepy territory (staring for too long or someone way older staring at teens) the it’s really not that much of an issue.

[Jordan99]

When I'm wearing something revealing I know it and I have to own the fact that boys, men, women, etc. will look. It is not cool to stare or make lewd comments but to wear a revealing outfit and then get upset when a guy notices and gives you an appreciative glance is unreasonable. For instance, I wear thong bikinis at the beach and even at the pool at my parent's house when guys are around. How is that reasonable or even fair to expect guys NOT to look?

[Cangirl]

It's the same wearing leggings or yoga pants. We know pretty much what his showing because we do look at other people girls included lol. So a glance is fine and sometimes makes us feel good but the open staring and following around is when it gets to much. It's one thing to have a look but another to stare for a long time.

[imanopenbook]

I try not to look to much but it is something that is out there to be seen. My sisters and their friends wear them and that's what theyve said that a glance is fine and if they want you to look more then they'll let you know. Not sure what that means though.

[Phosphene]

The problem with what you described is a lack of consciousness of the reaction they will get. If girls are going to dress revealingly, they should realize they will get unwanted attention, so there's no point screaming and complaining about it. We can't control other people, only ourselves. Instead of getting mad at the people looking, they could change the way they dress if it bothers them so much.

[Katie2003]

I'm kinda chubby with a 32" waist and 44" hips, but my mom and big sis tell me that my butt is curvy and the sort that boys would like to look at. My big sis wears that kind of shorts, and gets lots of looks and attention but she's 40 pounds lighter than me. I'm totally up in the air about how it will look, but this summer I am going to get a pair or two of really short shorts and see what happens.

I do think they look nice, they can be totally sexy, and if a girl has nice legs and a good shape to her butt, well maybe there's nothing wrong with using that to her advantage by showing it off. I'm trying to decide whether to buy the really short shorts, or some that have just a tiny bit more coverage of my butt cheeks at the bottom. I have no issues at all with letting that much skin show, but don't want to look trashy and don't want people commenting that a fat girl shouldn't dress that way. I'm not ashamed of my body, just lacking self confidence that I could actually look good in clothes.

[Pultost]

Can't blame guys for looking, and enjoy what they see, but staring, drooling and comments are never ok.

[erica2014]

Well I love wearing short shorts. I like the attention I receive. Though some guys approach with rude comments. that is terribly insulting.
I know what is showing and how much is seen. I agree no girls should complain just because some one is staring at ass or anything.