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rock2020
May 6th, 2018, 08:50 PM
My brother who is thirteen caught me jerking off. He asked me what I was doing. I said I was masturbating. He asked me what it was. I told him it felt good. He wants to know more. What should I do? Should I teach him?
ska8er
May 6th, 2018, 09:07 PM
Only u know ur brother. U already
told him what u were doing and what
he saw so he got a good idea. Tell him
if he has any other questions-just ask
but I wouldn't show him. Soon he will
get the idea of what to do.
INACTIVEchaosphere
May 6th, 2018, 11:35 PM
My brother who is thirteen caught me jerking off. He asked me what I was doing. I said I was masturbating. He asked me what it was. I told him it felt good. He wants to know more. What should I do? Should I teach him?
Only u know ur brother. U already
told him what u were doing and what
he saw so he got a good idea. Tell him
if he has any other questions-just ask
but I wouldn't show him. Soon he will
get the idea of what to do.
This seems like a solid strategy, only you can predict how certain actions would affect your brother, and whether those effects would be good or bad. For now, I would keep it on the downlow and be open to answering questions he has. I would guide him, rather than directly teach him.
nicktheman2003
May 7th, 2018, 12:39 AM
If your brother is 13 he probably has a good idea about masturbation. I would answer his questions and explain how to do it.
jamie_n5
May 7th, 2018, 11:58 AM
Yeah just explain things to him and answer his questions. I see no problem with showing him how either.
Jake445
May 7th, 2018, 02:28 PM
Just to confirm the general statement, I'd talk with him about it and if you are comfortable with it, show him too.
NewLeafsFan
May 8th, 2018, 12:12 AM
I think that you should at least talk to him and be willing to answer questions. Teaching him or doing it together depends on how close you and him are.
Jonnieboy909
May 8th, 2018, 12:18 AM
Talk to him about it and if so maybe show him
Harrier
May 9th, 2018, 03:42 AM
If your brother is 13 he probably has a good idea about masturbation. I would answer his questions and explain how to do it.
This. He's 13! He must know the basics! Maybe just answer his questions if he has any - like the ones we all had at first - like how often is normal and stuff.
Brandon618
May 9th, 2018, 10:42 AM
Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. We share a room so it wasn't difficult for him to catch me I'm sure. I explained it to him and then one night while I thought he was asleep he jumped off the bunk and watched me, so in a way I guess I showed him. We are close and nothing weird or anything seems to be happening.
AmberTra
May 9th, 2018, 04:30 PM
Just answer question if he has any.
MasonBA
May 9th, 2018, 06:32 PM
I didn't know my brother was watching me when I thought he was asleep. He asked and I told him. He's cool with it
Pitsirikos
May 12th, 2018, 01:02 PM
I believe that you must talk with him, explain everything to him and answer all his questions but I also believe that's nothing wrong show him either.
imanopenbook
May 12th, 2018, 04:28 PM
My brother is older and I asked him what he was doing and he told me. He did show me and taught me a few things as well. I guess you could wait until he asks about it and if he wants to know specifics then thats up to you how much you show or tell.
scott2002
May 13th, 2018, 10:11 AM
He wants to know more. What should I do? Should I teach him?
How I wish I had an older brother to help me out and answer my questions about masturbation when I was 13 and just starting to do it. I had SO MANY questions, and same-age friends (I soon discovered) did not know enough yet either to give reliable and factual answers. (Like making me worry that I was going to use up my entire lifetime supply of sperm if I kept doing it.)
JohnnyMac
May 13th, 2018, 04:13 PM
My brother who is thirteen caught me jerking off. He asked me what I was doing. I said I was masturbating. He asked me what it was. I told him it felt good. He wants to know more. What should I do? Should I teach him?
I was taught by my brother when i was 12 and he was 14, but didnt cum until i was 13. He showed my how to touch my penis and where yo for the best feeling. I had never heard of masturbation or anything like that, so it was nee for me. He just sat me down, took off his pants, told me to get naked, and watch him. I did the same thing with my younger brother the other day. He watched me do it until i came, and then he did it. I had to show him where to touch his penis, but he eventually came.
sumatera
May 14th, 2018, 10:38 PM
Just answer and if u get no problem to show him then show him.. it better for him to know this things from near person than from others or internet (imho).
MiniYoda
May 15th, 2018, 02:53 AM
I started around that age so it would be fine to show him
Kakashi03
August 5th, 2018, 05:48 PM
It would be fine to show him. You'll probably get a jerking partner out of it
Tsall
August 6th, 2018, 12:23 AM
Tell him what you are doing in depth. Explain why you are doing it. Tell him it feels good. Tell him what an orgasm and ejaculation is. Make sure to tell him he will feel a pressure when he’s about to cum and that’s ok. If you are comfortable, have him watch you masturbate to orgasm, ejaculate in front of him to show him what it looks like. Then have him do it, in front of you, so you can give him pointers. Let him cum, and if his semen is not the same as yours, or he can’t, explain why.
BlackParadePixie
August 6th, 2018, 12:30 AM
Tell him what you are doing in depth. Explain why you are doing it. Tell him it feels good. Tell him what an orgasm and ejaculation is. Make sure to tell him he will feel a pressure when he’s about to cum and that’s ok. If you are comfortable, have him watch you masturbate to orgasm, ejaculate in front of him to show him what it looks like. Then have him do it, in front of you, so you can give him pointers. Let him cum, and if his semen is not the same as yours, or he can’t, explain why.
is this really necessary? what happened to giving teens books to read about the subject? Yes, as a brother the OP can explain what he was doing...but I don't think there's any reason to go into so much depth about it.
ashdaniel
August 6th, 2018, 01:36 AM
I don’t have a brother but I do have younger cous. He is around 11-12 I think he stared puberty yet since he have grow pubes. He caught me once then I pretty open about it. I answer all his question and how him. I pretty much teach him and let him explore. I don’t have a brother to teach me so I understand. I was super curious and his age and no one shown me. So I know how that feel so I was cool about it
Aussiekid2018
August 6th, 2018, 01:46 AM
I woild just explain to him what it is and that its perfectally normal to do.
Gabriel The French
August 6th, 2018, 03:23 AM
I think it’s better to teach him rather than him finding by himself with porn
Sailor Mars
August 6th, 2018, 03:37 PM
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