Visit the dead.

[CoryW]

Hey guy I've got a small problem.
In about a month it will be my brother Nicks dad birthday. He died when Nicky was real small. He told his mom he wanted to visit his dad's grave (don't know why) she say "it's not a good idea".
He has come up with a plan to go and wants me to go with him. It 2 1/2 hours by bus and I know when we get home we want be able to sit. But I really want to go with him. Not to visit a dead guy but to make sure he's alright.
He would go with or without me.
My question is knowing the out come would you go with him or tell Mom and Dad ?
It might sound stupid to some of you guys but to him it's not.

[mick01]

If I were you, I'd mention it to your dad. If something were to go wrong on the trip, either with or without you, and they found out you knew, that just wouldn't be good for you.

[Alex_Swim]

I would tell your Dad or SMom that you are going. (But don't tell your SBro u told them).

Just a guess, but with your Dad married your Smom, your Sbro wants to go "Tell" his dad that he still loves him, and he will always be his dad, But "Mom" found someone special, and he loves your dad also, and he wanted him (His dad) to know that he has not forgotten about him, and he can love both dads.

[CoryW]

If I were you, I'd mention it to your dad. If something were to go wrong on the trip, either with or without you, and they found out you knew, that just wouldn't be good for you.
I thought about that thanks. He want to go as soon as they leave for work. We would be back in like six hours.
Not sure dad would approve.

[ska8er]

Hey guy I've got a small problem.
In about a month it will be my brother Nicks dad birthday. He died when Nicky was real small. He told his mom he wanted to visit his dad's grave (don't know why) she say "it's not a good idea".
He has come up with a plan to go and wants me to go with him. It 2 1/2 hours by bus and I know when we get home we want be able to sit. But I really want to go with him. Not to visit a dead guy but to make sure he's alright.
He would go with or without me.
My question is knowing the out come would you go with him or tell Mom and Dad ?
It might sound stupid to some of you guys but to him it's not.

Id go but why did his Mom say "it not a good idea"?
I think it depends on how old Nicky is? Maybe she
doesn't want him to travel that long or far. :what:

[CoryW]

Id go but why did his Mom say "it not a good idea"?
I think it depends on how old Nicky is? Maybe she
doesn't want him to travel that long or far. :what:
He is 12 will be 13 in October. She kinda over protected.

[ska8er]

He is 12 will be 13 in October. She kinda over protected.

I would not go with him "on your own" unless
u tell someone. Y don't u ask ur Dad what he
thinks bout the idea. I would say he is too
young even tho u plan to go with him. Since
she is over protective and she finds out that
u went without her permission-u will end up
in deep S**t. If ur going just to make sure he
is OK then he shouldn't go. Talk to him and tell
him once he gets a bit older then maybe it would
b a good idea.

[NewLeafsFan]

Hey guy I've got a small problem.
In about a month it will be my brother Nicks dad birthday. He died when Nicky was real small. He told his mom he wanted to visit his dad's grave (don't know why) she say "it's not a good idea".
He has come up with a plan to go and wants me to go with him. It 2 1/2 hours by bus and I know when we get home we want be able to sit. But I really want to go with him. Not to visit a dead guy but to make sure he's alright.
He would go with or without me.
My question is knowing the out come would you go with him or tell Mom and Dad ?
It might sound stupid to some of you guys but to him it's not.

What do you mean "you won't be able to sit"?

[nicktheman2003]

What do you mean "you won't be able to sit"?

You might not know this but Cory passed away, May 8th.

[Dalcourt]

I guess it is better to close this thread :locked: