BF drama, I need advice

[headhunterbg]

First of all, I'm 16 years old,gay and I have a boyfriend from 3 months.
A little flashback - 3-4 years ago me and my cousin (who is straight) had a few sexual experiences, which for me was just (let's call it like this) an experiment - no feelings, nothing...
My bf knows all about this and he is ok with it, he is just jealous everytime I hang out with my cousin.
Back to today - I went to a swimming pool with my cousin, my bf knew about this and he was like really jealous, because we were shirtless. We talked about this for a long time, I explained that nothing happened, but he is still mad at me, because I went to the swimming pool with him.
My question is - Who do you think is right in this situation? Should I apologize?

[BlackParadePixie]

What do you have to apologize for? Your bf is getting jealous for no reason at all.

[Zachary G]

theres nothing for you to apologize for because you did nothing wrong. Your bf is being petty with his jealousy and it is misplaced. If he cant accept your past, then he has the problem.

[Bakingboy03]

It seems to me this is kind of a reoccurring problem for you, I personally feel that it would be the deal breaker for me. I understand how he can get jealous but for this to keep happening is most likely difficult on you! Express how you feel to him and let him know that you think he needs to understand that what happened between you and your cousin is over and won’t happen again. You have nothing to apologize for also.

Hope this helps!

[ska8er]

U have no reason to apologize.
Y not ask him to go swimming
next. Don't bring up ur cousin
let it go. If he is still mad its
his loss.
.

[CoryW]

Dump him. He's never gonna trust you no matter.
Find another guy but don't tell him about experimenting

[mick01]

Dump him. He's never gonna trust you no matter.
Find another guy but don't tell him about experimenting

I agree with the first part of this. Trust and jealousy will always be an issue with your current bf. he seems unreasonable.
But you shouldn't have to bury your past for anyone. If someone can't handle or understand the things you did before you met him, then that relationship is doomed as well.

[CoryW]

I agree with the first part of this. Trust and jealousy will always be an issue with your current bf. he seems unreasonable.
But you shouldn't have to bury your past for anyone. If someone can't handle or understand the things you did before you met him, then that relationship is doomed as well.
Agreed
But all I meant was the cousin thing isn't worth telling. I bet half the guys here have messed around with their cousin , gay or not.