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Matt 04
April 29th, 2018, 05:46 PM
Do you have a best friend or friend that you tell what you are going through in puberty? Have you compared? My best guy friend is fairly religious and when I have asked him or told him things he has said he doesn't want to talk about it. I have never seen him naked. My friend who is a girl has told me things like her first period, first pubes, breast changes and things like that. I have told her things like first pubes, first wet dream and how often I jack. We have shown each other what we look like naked but it has not gone further than that.

jamie_n5
April 29th, 2018, 06:13 PM
You may find an other guy friend that is curious like you and you can compare and experiment with him. It's cool that you have a girl friend that you can talk with and share your puberty things with.

HeyCameron
April 29th, 2018, 08:16 PM
My best friend and I talk about puberty stuff. And since he's already like way ahead of me puberty-wise, he's given me some advice (even though we're the same age lol) and I keep him updated about certain things. He's the only one I really talk about it with.

TWDjacob
April 29th, 2018, 09:55 PM
Yeah I have a friend that I talked about all that stuff and we've compared

NotSky
April 29th, 2018, 10:53 PM
You are lucky to have a girl that so open and willing to share with you. Most people have a person of the same sexto compare and talk. I have my cousin, boy, who is also going through puberty but one year older than me. I wish I had a girl to confide in also.

Jake445
April 30th, 2018, 08:46 AM
I shower with most of my friends in school after PE etc. so we see each other naked. Also, I have talked about puberty with a few close ones, some also being girls. I think it's interesting and fun!

Shamal
April 30th, 2018, 09:51 AM
I guess if it comes up we might have a quick chat about stuff like that, but I don't have anyone in particular I'll talk to about it regularly.

Chris2005
April 30th, 2018, 02:47 PM
yeh i've talked about stuff with my guy friends but never with a girl. i've compared with friends as well

Nnoki
April 30th, 2018, 08:22 PM
I've never met someone who's comfortable talking about it, or that I'm comfortable with them
Maybe some guys are lucky to find eachother, some others sadly just never find that good trustful friend, just gotta say if you ever find him, he's a keeper

scott2002
April 30th, 2018, 10:25 PM
Do you have a best friend or friend that you tell what you are going through in puberty? Have you compared?
I see you are 13. When I was 12 or maybe even still 11 (I'm 16 now) I did have a friend who confided in me that he had discovered he was growing little hairs around his dick, and asked me if I was growing any hairs too. I told him I was, and then he asked me if I wanted to see his. Well, he and I confided in each other whenever changes happened. He was so curious to compare with me, and I didn't mind. That went on for I think until we both were almost 14.

Nnoki
April 30th, 2018, 10:29 PM
I see you are 13. When I was 12 or maybe even still 11 (I'm 16 now) I did have a friend who confided in me that he had discovered he was growing little hairs around his dick, and asked me if I was growing any hairs too. I told him I was, and then he asked me if I wanted to see his. Well, he and I confided in each other whenever changes happened. He was so curious to compare with me, and I didn't mind. That went on for I think until we both were almost 14.

Then what happened between you 2?

scott2002
April 30th, 2018, 10:40 PM
Then what happened between you 2?
All the discoveries, I think you can figure it out. He always liked to compare and measure. I was too embarrassed to tell him I had my first orgasm and cum, but when he accidentally discovered it on his own he texted me barely minutes later, that he needed to come over to my house NOW cuz he had something "exciting" to needed to show me.

varun.karma
May 1st, 2018, 02:08 AM
Do you have a best friend or friend that you tell what you are going through in puberty? Have you compared? My best guy friend is fairly religious and when I have asked him or told him things he has said he doesn't want to talk about it. I have never seen him naked. My friend who is a girl has told me things like her first period, first pubes, breast changes and things like that. I have told her things like first pubes, first wet dream and how often I jack. We have shown each other what we look like naked but it has not gone further than that.
all the time, its cool to have close friends that you can share personal information with and also recieve information from others to reassure yourself that you aren't the only one going through puberty lol. Even me and my gf talk to each other about thinks that are happening to ourselves like whenever im curious about her body or shes curious about mine we share information. puberty should be a fun experience

MasonBA
May 1st, 2018, 05:23 PM
Yep, talk about everything with my best friend. He's ahead of me so whenever something changes, like getting pubes, he shows me. It's cool being able to see what will happen to me

NewLeafsFan
May 2nd, 2018, 12:21 AM
I have not compared or experimented with anybody. That being said, it is a normal thing to do.

Your friend that is uncomfortable comparing doesn't have to. It's his business and he is under no obligation to do so. His privacy should be respected. And the other friend that gives regular updates is fine provided that you are both comfortable with such conversations.

london98765
June 1st, 2018, 03:34 AM
i talk to lots of my friends about puberty, i don't really talk to girls about it though. its nice to compare with people

Brandon618
June 2nd, 2018, 03:06 PM
My best friend and I have always been able to talk about what is happening with us. I'm a bit more advanced in that area than him and he assumes I know more. WRONG! We both are experiencing things and letting the other know what has changed if anything. And yes we have compared for a few years, actually.