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male_greece
March 10th, 2014, 04:24 PM
I'm bi, and lately i really want a bf, but i dunno how to approach a guy, what do i say? will i ever find someone?
Elysium
March 10th, 2014, 04:29 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating
Ethe14
March 10th, 2014, 04:36 PM
Well you should first just start looking for guys that you like and start talking to them. I would also recommend you not say your bi right away.
Aidoon123
March 10th, 2014, 05:47 PM
Yeah, firstly even before you look for someone you like, you will have to see if they are bi / gay, then if you like them you can move from there. I would try to become friends with them first, flirting and subtle hints would then follow, the rest will be history!
Brown13
March 10th, 2014, 06:01 PM
1) become friends
2) try to find out if they are bi/gay
3) send them hints
4) when you feel comfortable just tell them youre bi (if they dont already know)
5) confess it all
:D
backjruton
March 10th, 2014, 07:17 PM
My experiences have been terrible and rather embarrassing. This is something I also need help with :D Everyone in college knows how I feel because I told them when the course started, and I think my friend might be the same but because I can't tell emotions properly by faces and actions it's hard for me to tell. IS someone grabbing your cheek just a friendly gesture or something else? XD
WeAreOneRepublic
March 11th, 2014, 09:23 AM
Evening,
So make lots of friends of both genders, if you befriend everyone it looks really good, then just talk to a few, probably the ones you seem to like first and then ask non conspicuous questions or subtle hints, if they reciprocate then great otherwise you just keep them as a friend and keep talking to others, don't make it obvious you are head hunting people.
And yourself backjruton,
The cheek thing isn't defined by itself, it really depends on the context they do it in.
GoWA_Vet
March 11th, 2014, 09:43 AM
be a friend first...see where it goes from there
TheLivingLie
March 12th, 2014, 06:18 PM
If your area is like mine, and if u r not straight u r weird so coming out to anyone is impossible, then only do it if you r 100% sure the guy u like is bi or gay or is at least a good friend. A way to tell this is by saying like 'oh I think this person is gay' and see how he reacts. If he goes omg that's crazy then he is probably str8 but if he doesn't give a shit, then maybe u could come out to him
isaiah
March 13th, 2014, 07:02 PM
I'm bi, and lately i really want a bf, but i dunno how to approach a guy, what do i say? will i ever find someone?
i think you will find one;);)
Dude16
March 13th, 2014, 08:25 PM
Control yourself for as long as you can... trust me when it's time for you to be in a relationship, it'll happen. It happened to me :)
mikeygrif
March 13th, 2014, 08:27 PM
just be yourself
Stephane17
March 13th, 2014, 08:29 PM
I am Bisexual Myself And I Approach a guy by telling them i have something to tell and them and to not take it personally and that i like him, and ive never ever had a guy laugh at me they were serious and very nice about it to :):wub::wub::wub:
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