Normal to want to be the bottom?

[wolfbuddy]

Im just curious if it is normal to want to be the submissive one in a bondage fantasy? I'm gay and I too like the idea of penetrating into someone but the idea of having a dick inside me always sounded more arousing to me. :whoops:

[CoryW]

To me it sounds normal but I'm gay and I like boys. To a straight guy it might not sound normal.

[TWDjacob]

It's normal everyone has different feelings and tastes. There are straight guys too that would rather be in a submissive position with a girl as well

[jamie_n5]

There are always preferences I guess. My BF and I like both so we are versatile.

[Nnoki]

I think this isn't appropriate, but yeah, I think it is actually pretty normal to want to be top/bottom of a relationship, everyone has their own likes and dislikes and it is pretty okay

[Spooky_Eli]

(as has been said above) perfectly normal

[teenboyNathan]

It's normal. Everyone probably has their preference on what they want to do during sex

[Chris298]

Yeah nothing wrong with it... I've only had sex with girls but even then sometimes I like being on the bottom... Makes it feel a little different and you get a nice view :D and its kind cool where the girl is kinda controlling things, kinda makes thing more spontaneous and stuff

[kyrocks03]

There are always preferences I guess. My BF and I like both so we are versatile.

I agree with this. My BF and I are exactly the same.

[Tim the Enchanter]

Sounds gross haha. But it's up to you I guess.

[user-999]

It's completely normal. I'd even suggest that there is a similar spectrum of the position in sex (most likely gay) as there is with sexuality. Others like/prefer to bottom, while some like/prefer being on top. There are also many that like to do both.

[CoryW]

Sounds gross haha. But it's up to you I guess.

Im guessing your straight,But I still like you anyways.

[scott2002]

...Im just curious if it is normal to want to be the submissive one in a bondage fantasy?
...I'm gay and I too like the idea of penetrating into someone
...but the idea of having a dick inside me always sounded more arousing to me. :whoops:
I see you're just 13, and I dissected what you posted because it sounds to me like you have a few different things all mixed together.
1. You mention bondage fantasy and then you mention what sounds like regular, normal being a bottom in having sex with another guy. That's not 'bondage', it's just thinking you might like being a bottom.
2. You say you're aroused about maybe having a dick inside of you. I think that's pretty normal for even someone your age who feels he's gay. Have you ever had anything in there yet to feel what it's like having your prostate directly rubbed?
If you find a willing buddy, I'd say go ahead and try it.

[JohnnyMac]

It’s completely normal. I’m not gay, and having a penis inside me feels absolutely amazing.

[Tim the Enchanter]

Im guessing your straight,But I still like you anyways.

Thanks, but hey I have nothing against gay people in general. But the dude was asking and I just answered in my opinion. Like I said, it's up for you to decide what you do with yourself.

[Turbofan explosion]

Yes. Some people might want to impress others by showing off their dick, while some people feel like they are too small and decide to be on the top. Or if you want to be neutral, switch off.

[CoryW]

Thanks, but hey I have nothing against gay people in general. But the dude was asking and I just answered in my opinion. Like I said, it's up for you to decide what you do with yourself.
I was just joking with you. I know your a good guy.

[kro814]

If you are a boy and like having a penis inside you then you are not straight.

[CoryW]

If you are a boy and like having a penis inside you then you are not straight.

I was thinking about that too. I mean that's what makes me gay. Lol

[Spooky_Eli]

If you are a boy and like having a penis inside you then you are not straight.i don't think anyone said that that did & where.......

[azurzg]

If you are a boy and like having a penis inside you then you are not straight.

I was thinking about that too. I mean that's what makes me gay. Lol

i don't think anyone said that that did & where.......


Hey guys, the sexuality spectrum is not binary. :yes:

Also, many people are sexually fluid. I'm not a big fan of labels; but, if asked, I'd identify as "bi".

[AmberTra]

yes!

[ShiveringScientist]

its less work when youre on the bottom, get to enjoy it more.

[Dalcourt]

This isn't puberty related :locked: