i coutch my little sister age 13 kissing " tongue " with other boy

[lonalordic]

He is her friend , he comes allot really sweety kid .

But i find today that was french kissing .

Is that normal for there age . What should i do ??

[ScottishCanary]

Yup totally normal, if you want to talk to her about it you can but she's 13 and will be having feelings for boys. We all grow up sometime.

[lonalordic]

Yea i know but 13 should not french kiss ech other maybe with close mouth

[Karkat]

I'd say it's relatively normal. Could be a lot worse.

When kids my age were that age...People were getting pregnant. Or, at the very least, weren't virgins. Most people were french kissing.

[ninja789]

agree with Ren
I was up to a lot worse then

[TheLivingLie]

i'm 13, and my friends think its normal in a way that every has to do it

[ksdnfkfr]

Leave them alone.

[lonalordic]

i'm 13, and my friends think its normal in a way that every has to do it

so kid do u say that u and your friend do it , or just u want to do it ?! :what::what::what:

[everlong]

Nothing bad about that. I'd just leave them alone.

[lonalordic]

are u serious all , why every body think its cool beside me ??

[Karkat]

are u serious all , why every body think its cool beside me ??

Not so much "cool" (I certainly do not think 12 and 13 year olds going around having sex is "cool". It's their body, their choice in the end, but it's almost never legal, and if someone gets pregnant it could be a serious health risk to both mom and baby.) as normal.

It was normal five years ago, it'll be normal in five years, just hope that she's smart about her decisions in the long-run.

Edit: I'm not saying that your sister is having sex- just that french kissing is hardly a worry when I think back to when I was that age.

[Luminous]

It's normal. Maybe not the best decision of their life but hey, you could have caught them having sex or doing something else worse than making out.

[ScottishCanary]

are u serious all , why every body think its cool beside me ??

I think it's one of these things where everyoine has a different view of it. In the place where I'm from, Gran Canaria in Spain many people would worry about 2 13 year olds french kissing but perhaps most of the posters here come from more liberal backgrounds. I mean it would be more serious if they were giving each other oral or actually having sex but kissing is pretty tame. Again though I didn't mean to belittle your own cultural views and I certainly come from a culture where some would view french kissing as a 16+ activity.

[lonalordic]

It's normal. Maybe not the best decision of their life but hey, you could have caught them having sex or doing something else worse than making out.


i don't think that the will do sex , they didn't seen me but I'm sure that was kissing if they kissed with closed lips i will say oooooowww but know say wtf

[kovy27x]

It's not the best thing that she can be doing. But as far as I know, it's common for that to happen lol
Don't worry abt it

[lonalordic]

I think it's one of these things where everyoine has a different view of it. In the place where I'm from, Gran Canaria in Spain many people would worry about 2 13 year olds french kissing but perhaps most of the posters here come from more liberal backgrounds. I mean it would be more serious if they were giving each other oral or actually having sex but kissing is pretty tame. Again though I didn't mean to belittle your own cultural views and I certainly come from a culture where some would view french kissing as a 16+ activity.

im not close minded but tell me do u really think its "cute " to see kids kissing like adults ?!

should i talk to theme both

[Karkat]

im not close minded but tell me do u really think its "cute " to see kids kissing like adults ?!

At 13, you're not really a kid anymore. You are, but you aren't.

You're starting to become a young man/woman.

If she was like 10, I think it'd be a completely different story, but I think you're viewing her too much as a kid- which is natural. She's young, just barely a teenager, and you're her big sis.

And I'd much rather see two 'kids' kissing like adults than...Touching. Like adults.

[lonalordic]

At 13, you're not really a kid anymore. You are, but you aren't.

You're starting to become a young man/woman.

If she was like 10, I think it'd be a completely different story, but I think you're viewing her too much as a kid- which is natural. She's young, just barely a teenager, and you're her big sis.

And I'd much rather see two 'kids' kissing like adults than...Touching. Like adults.

will maybe its not the worst part right like having sex .

but they are kids the kid is very amateur all of my house know him and love him he is not much an teen . he sound like an 5 yo

[Karkat]

will maybe its not the worst part right like having sex .

but they are kids the kid is very amateur all of my house know him and love him he is not much an teen . he sound like an 5 yo

I think most 13 year olds do to anyone older than them, to be honest. I'm almost 1000% sure I did.

[ScottishCanary]

im not close minded but tell me do u really think its "cute " to see kids kissing like adults ?!

I don't think it's cute as much as something that is likely to happen. Obviously people will have different views on it and if you want to talk to your sister and her friend/partner then you can but I would certainly not make them feel bad. As they grow up they will get feelings towards other people that are new, it is sometimes hard to fight those feelings.

[lonalordic]

i will not scream at theme or threaten theme . i just want to know if they are aware for there acts . etc etc

[MechaSniper]

Just let it go. they're kids

[lonalordic]

Just let it go. they're kids


and thats the prob

[MechaSniper]

and thats the prob

Well it was bound to happen. you cant protect her for ever.

[lonalordic]

Well it was bound to happen. you cant protect her for ever.

don't you think its a little to young for theme ?

[MechaSniper]

Not really. That's the age kids get curious. and they start likeing boys/girls. they should lern on there own. exept for sex. Make sure they use plenty of protection.

[hermanthefish]

Heres my take on this. Everybody moves at their own rate. Some people (in my view) move way to fast, such as having sex at 13 or 14. However, I dont think making out at 13 is a bad thing. There are couples in my grade that I know have french kissed. My girlfriend and I (both 13) have kissed normally, and are getting to a point where we will probably french kiss soon. We are both ready for that and both want to. So if your sister and her friend both want to do what they are doing, and understand it, I see no issue. As long as it doesn't go any farther, she's fine.
All of that being said, you are still entitled to your opinion. While I dont necessarily agree with it, I cant change it. If you want to talk to her, you can, but i dont think it is needed. It also might make your relationship with her a little awkward, especially if she disagrees with you. Then she might get mad because she feels you are butting into her life. I know I would feel that way if my sister (15) started telling me what is ok or not ok for me to be doing. Anyway, thats where I stand on this.

[lonalordic]

Not really. That's the age kids get curious. and they start likeing boys/girls. they should lern on there own. exept for sex. Make sure they use plenty of protection.


now u want to tell mr that you tongue was in another girl moth at age 13 ??

don't think so and i will never give a condom to a kid

[hermanthefish]

now u want to tell mr that you tongue was in another girl moth at age 13 ??

don't think so and i will never give a condom to a kid

I agree with the second part. Dont give them any protection, because that is like saying you give them permission to have sex. However, a lot of people have french kissed by 13

[Karkat]

I agree with the second part. Dont give them any protection, because that is like saying you give them permission to have sex. However, a lot of people have french kissed by 13

I disagree with this- if they're going to have sex, you absolutely want to make sure they'll have protection.

Not giving them the precaution, and telling them that protection is the way to go is just going to end up with a pregnancy, or a pregnancy scare, STDs. This is the problem with most sex ed classes- they teach abstinence, but ignore birth control, and therefore you've got a ton of kids out there having unprotected sex.

Sometimes kids will just have sex anyways. I wouldn't say this will definitely happen to your sister, but it could, and I'm almost positive (as a sister myself, and an aunt) that you'd rather have them doing things the right way than to go through the heartbreak because they didn't know how to do things the right way.

[MechaSniper]

now u want to tell mr that you tongue was in another girl moth at age 13 ??

don't think so and i will never give a condom to a kid

No I'm saying girls experament

[hermanthefish]

I disagree with this- if they're going to have sex, you absolutely want to make sure they'll have protection.

Not giving them the precaution, and telling them that protection is the way to go is just going to end up with a pregnancy, or a pregnancy scare, STDs. This is the problem with most sex ed classes- they teach abstinence, but ignore birth control, and therefore you've got a ton of kids out there having unprotected sex.

Sometimes kids will just have sex anyways. I wouldn't say this will definitely happen to your sister, but it could, and I'm almost positive (as a sister myself, and an aunt) that you'd rather have them doing things the right way than to go through the heartbreak because they didn't know how to do things the right way.
While there is a small possibility of them having sex without protection, it is not likely. Also i am sure they know about using protection and when they are ready to move on, will do so in an appropriate manner and with protection.

[Karkat]

While there is a small possibility of them having sex without protection, it is not likely. Also i am sure they know about using protection and when they are ready to move on, will do so in an appropriate manner and with protection.

Eh, I wouldn't be too sure- I, at 16, had to tell my 20 year old boyfriend where to buy condoms.

He was 20.

Had no clue.

And while I agree that it's not a huge possibility, it still is one.

[hermanthefish]

Eh, I wouldn't be too sure- I, at 16, had to tell my 20 year old boyfriend where to buy condoms.

He was 20.

Had no clue.

And while I agree that it's not a huge possibility, it still is one.

ok i take it back

[lonalordic]

While there is a small possibility of them having sex without protection, it is not likely. Also i am sure they know about using protection and when they are ready to move on, will do so in an appropriate manner and with protection.

so kiddo before u said that some of kids at :what::what::what:that age in your school was french kiss right ??

did u see theme in real or that just talk u know that they can laying

[hermanthefish]

so kiddo before u said that some of kids at :what::what::what:that age in your school was french kiss right ??

did u see theme in real or that just talk u know that they can laying

While i did not see them, other people have, and knowing the two people, i know they are not lying. Also I know what is going on with my and my gf.

[lonalordic]

While i did not see them, other people have, and knowing the two people, i know they are not lying. Also I know what is going on with my and my gf.

so maybe laying and still u didn't do it it u just thinking about it

and maybe the other kids not u are slutiy

[hermanthefish]

They are 100% not lying. I know this. People have seen them. And they are not sluty, they are doing something normal. While we have not yet, we most certainly will before we are 14.

[Dwemer]

Its a normal age for kissing :)

[hermanthefish]

Its a normal age for kissing :)

This is correct

[nklarke]

Just be sure that she is mature and knows about condoms, protection, etc.

[lonalordic]

Its a normal age for kissing :)

im sorry but maybe you think its normal for there ages to kiss with close lips

Just be sure that she is mature and knows about condoms, protection, etc.



i didnt ssy that i coutch theme nude on ech other

[TheLivingLie]

so kid do u say that u and your friend do it , or just u want to do it ?! :what::what::what:

My friends do it (well all that have dates) but I would if i could

[lonalordic]

My friends do it (well all that have dates) but I would if i could



how you sound it seems they kissed there barbies :yes: and you dont know if they really did it . if you didnt saw theme

[Dwemer]

im sorry but maybe you think its normal for there ages to kiss with close lips

No it all depends on the persons themselves. For some its to early to even kiss for others its perfectly normal. Just be glad they arent doing more then this.

I think 13 is a nice age to enjoy kissing with someone u like , tonguekissing or normal. No point or use in worrying about it at this point.

[TheLivingLie]

how you sound it seems they kissed there barbies :yes: and you dont know if they really did it . if you didnt saw theme

well, half the time its like kiss kiss kiss in the playground, so i see a bit, but not all

[Wyatt 13]

I think is normal

[lonalordic]

I think is normal

who you figure that out ?!

[hermanthefish]

I think you have asked our opinion and have gotten told by this whole site that we think you are wrong. You can continue to fight us and attempt to convince us you are right, which wont happen. Or you can accept that it is normal for them to be doing that, and you are over reacting and babying your sister. While some people might not be ready for that, i am sure that they know what they are doing and are making that right choice.

Ian OUT!

[nklarke]

i didnt ssy that i coutch theme nude on ech other



No, and I didn't say you did. But, if they're not having something more already, it's just matter of time, maybe some weeks.

[loliqueen123]

Its fine, but I would subtly hint to your parents what happened