What is wrong with me?

[Caver]

Last weekend I found out that somebody I was talking to had actually met a girlfriend who lived closer to him, and he basically told me i'm a piece of shit and doesn't want anything to do with me. I live alone in London and have literally no one here i'm close with and it feels isolating and kinda sucks. Since then i've not been able to sleep and have been feeling sick and just generally in a low mood. :(

[blackashday]

just get over it, enjoy your life. if someone say saying you are shit it does not mean that you are totally shit. get a part time job and travel some beautiful places.

[AussieNicholas]

As blackashday posted above, enjoy the things that you usually enjoy, especially if it's something that allows you to meet other people. I'm probably not qualified in this regard (having never been in a relationship in my life), but I don't see how a relationship can work out if both people don't have a few similar interests. I get the feeling of isolation that you're talk about; I was in a low mood for a lot of last year but I found a group of friends who have made Year 12 far more bearable for me. I think if you continue putting yourself out there into the world and living your life you will find people.

As for the guy who talked to you that way, I'd honestly say you're better off overall without someone like that in your life. People who act like that are actual pieces of shit and having that kind of toxicity around isn't good for people in my opinion.

[nick_1999]

Absolutely nothing is wrong with you. Anybody who calls you a piece of shit with no reason behind it is toxic and shouldn't be in your life anyway. I know how hard it is, but you just have to move on, stay busy, and you will forget about them. In time, you'll realize that they're just not worth the hurt

[DragonflySphere]

As nick_1999 said, nothing is wrong with you. While you may feel upset about what happened, you need to remember what sort of personality he had developed to say something like that to you. There’s no point in talking to someone’s like that. As for being alone in London, you’re the only one who can fix that. Try going out to a place crowded with people your age and just start up a conversation. While it may sound easier than what it is, getting turned down is better than being lonely. If you’re turned down, you can always pick yourself back up and go again.