My job's keeping me away from her

[JamesBunker]

I’m engaged to my asian girlfriend I met in a foreign date live some years ago. Our relationship seems to be perfect, we travel a lot, she visits me here in the States like twice a year. I couldn’t ask for more not until I became very busy with my work. My job’s keeping me away from her. She is really affected. We even came to the point where we fight through phone calls since I can’t give her enough time to spend with. I am hurting her so bad. And I want the same old things again. Please tell me, what should I do to cope up with her?

[bunnyhabit]

you need decide what is most important to you. highly doubt she is faithful at twice a year visit. she probably has other opportunities available if you continue to blow her off. us asian girls are not famous for being faithful to one guy from what i heard.

[NewLeafsFan]

I'm going to start by saying that the two of you should not be engaged. Long distance online relationships are not the same as regular dating. When you live this far apart, your lives are too separate. You are not going through anything real together. That's what dating is. Going through live together with someone to figure out if the two of you should be together permanently. And now, there is a slight problem and your "relationship" is on the rocks. Where did you expect this to go?

Even if I was willing to buy this whole committed online long distance relationship thing, which I'm not, you have a girlfriend that wants you to pick between time dedicated to her and your job. That alone is reason enough to dump someone. Have that long overdue conversation with her and tell her that you are ready to move on. And she should do the same. This time, try to find girls in your area and your life will probably be a lot better.

[Dalcourt]

Locking this since OP is banned :locked: