I have a crush on my friends girlfriend. HELP!

[Chatsworth]

Ok first of all my best friend is Jordan and the person I like is Amanda. It started off a few months ago when I recently started talking to Amanda in science class. From then on we were getting along extremly well while often talking for an hour straight just about life. This continues on till a week ago. Of course we wind up asking who each other likes. She decides to go first and it turns out she was secretly going out with my best friend. *thats when my heart goes OMG*. I decided not to share who I liked *twas her by then*. Now since we are still friends we were talking about Jordan. Turns out they never talk and she is having major doubts. And while this is happening we are getting alot more attached and she agrees with me. But this is the worst part. I don't want to mess up my friends realationship, but still I can see its going downhill and me and Amanda are going so well.

Please any advice would be good.

Thanks

[Gumleaf]

alright. its important that you try not to interfere as much as possible. if its going downhill, it simply won't last. let them work it out themselves. so when they do break up, you might get your opportunity to ask her out. but you need to be careful though, because he might not be too happy if they break up and then suddenly the next day you 2 have hooked up. you need to be a good friend to him too and be supportive of him so he knows that your still his friend. hope it all works itself out for you.

[Chatsworth]

Thanks man, I know my friend would never be really angry at me but I reallly just don't want to be the one caught red handed. Also while this is happening Amanda and I seem to flirt alot, but its usually Amanda who will sit next to me and start chatting rather than me.

[Gumleaf]

Thanks man, I know my friend would never be really angry at me but I reallly just don't want to be the one caught red handed. Also while this is happening Amanda and I seem to flirt alot, but its usually Amanda who will sit next to me and start chatting rather than me.

well you can't help what she does, but what you can do is be a good friend and wait for them to break up before you try and hook up with her.

[IplayJordanonExpert]

Tell your friend and talk it out with him. It'll actually build trust rather than tear it up. I had a similar situation, and I just talked to him about it. Really helped things out.

[Chatsworth]

Hey I got an update. I was talking to Amanda and she asked why I liked her, I explained all the things i liked about her and she said it had put a smile on her face. I think we are falling for each other. I made sure I was clear I was happy if she stuck with Jordan or not as it was her decision.

I'm really pissed with myself cause deep inside i want Amanda for myself.

[Gumleaf]

Hey I got an update. I was talking to Amanda and she asked why I liked her, I explained all the things i liked about her and she said it had put a smile on her face. I think we are falling for each other. I made sure I was clear I was happy if she stuck with Jordan or not as it was her decision.

I'm really pissed with myself cause deep inside i want Amanda for myself.

well you might feel pissed off inside, but if their relationship is sliding, you need to let them break up themselves. so you have done the right thing.