My Love

[Mini]

It has been around a year now since I noticed I had a crush on him, and it has been around 6 months since my "crush" cannot be called a crush anymore. I am truly in love.

I am 13 and turning 14 on May 4th, and my crush is already 14 and has been for around a month or so. We both have blonde hair and blue eyes, but I am pale and he has the specific tan that seems to be born on him :wub:.

We have 2 classes in which we sit next to each other, both of my favorite classes (gee I wonder): Spanish and Health. It is hard not to talk to him and sometimes he opens up to me and acts like a true friend, talking about stuff he wouldn't normally talk to me about (his birthday, what he likes, he isn't really open).

For around a year, I have been curious if he likes men or not but I think he have been dropping some hints or has been teasing me. This year he said "Me mucho boys" in Spanish (which is not even the correct translation I think), and when I was dumbfounded, he explained it meant "I like boys." The next day I asked him if he was serious and he said he was "joking", partial, I suppose, to my red-faced response of "I need to talk to you".

Recently he has been more open to me, joking around and the such, but sometimes it seems as if he doesn't even recognize me as a friend. Nearly a week ago he asked me if I masturbated and I didn't respond with a bi-answer... answer, and he kept saying "I wasn't denying it".:what:

Either way, I love him but the hard part is that I don't know if he loves me.

/end teenage love story rant thing.

What should I do? Should I do anything? Should I wait?

Give your advise, VT.

[Croconaw]

He admitted to liking boys, soo that means he is either gay or bisexual. If you want a chance with him, you better hope he's bisexual. It seems like you love this boy a lot. Does he show any hints of liking girls in general? You have to find out if he even likes girls before you go and chase him. You mentioned that he is open to you, but that doesn't necessarily means that he likes you. The only way to know for surre is to ask him. You might not get the answer you want, but at least you'll have closure. It's better than crushing on a guy who doesn't reciprocate the feelings. Good luck!

[ScottishCanary]

Feraligatr: I think the OP is a dude!!

My advice would be to keep talking this boy to see for sure whether he likes guys or not, though keep in mind that often guys won't admit to liking guys unless they feel it's totally safe. Have you told him that you like guys? Might be a way for you to start a conversation there. I think it's one of these situations where it's going to be really tough to make a move in a non-awkward way. Just explain that you like guys (if you feel comfortable with that) and that you kind of also fancy him (if he doesn't freak at your "I like guys" thing!!)

Oh and by the way from a Spanish girl, the correct translation of "I like guys" is "Me gustan los chicos" ;)

[Mini]

It will take time for me to feel that he won't scream and run away with hands up yelling, "OP is a faggot!"

[Karkat]

Feraligatr: I think the OP is a dude!!

My advice would be to keep talking this boy to see for sure whether he likes guys or not, though keep in mind that often guys won't admit to liking guys unless they feel it's totally safe. Have you told him that you like guys? Might be a way for you to start a conversation there. I think it's one of these situations where it's going to be really tough to make a move in a non-awkward way. Just explain that you like guys (if you feel comfortable with that) and that you kind of also fancy him (if he doesn't freak at your "I like guys" thing!!)

Oh and by the way from a Spanish girl, the correct translation of "I like guys" is "Me gustan los chicos" ;)

I agree, you might earn his trust by coming out to him first. If he really is attracted to men, he might feel safer opening up afterwards.

Haha, I chuckled a little bit at that. You might uh, want to study with him, I'm afraid. :whoops:

It will take time for me to feel that he won't scream and run away with hands up yelling, "OP is a faggot!"

It took me a while to figure that out, but I get it now. GG OP, GG

That deserves a *ba dum tss*

Well, don't rush yourself either way. Since I don't know how serious you were being in this post ;) I don't quite know how to respond to it, but good luck. :)

[Mini]

Oh, I was being partially serious.

He's an unpredictable fellow, and that is how I like them packaged.