Never had orgasm

[conradpjones]

ok so I never have had an orgasm. I have 4 siblings so it is impossible to have me time. someone told me I should try the shower. problem is it doesn't lead me to cum and I only get like 5 minutes. ive given up. I haven't masturbated since like 3 months ago. I don't know what its like to cum but all my friends brag. is anyone like this?

[tyler1904]

I was like this but then I figured out how to get alone time and I just went from their

[robin246]

ok so I never have had an orgasm. I have 4 siblings so it is impossible to have me time. someone told me I should try the shower. problem is it doesn't lead me to cum and I only get like 5 minutes. ive given up. I haven't masturbated since like 3 months ago. I don't know what its like to cum but all my friends brag. is anyone like this?

i dont know what its like to cum either man cause i can't yet
someone said if u masturbate on your knees or sat in shower that works but they also said its not as good as normal masturbation?
what about standing over toilet? you can say your having massive dump maybe?

[Second Chance]

ok so I never have had an orgasm. I have 4 siblings so it is impossible to have me time. someone told me I should try the shower. problem is it doesn't lead me to cum and I only get like 5 minutes. ive given up. I haven't masturbated since like 3 months ago. I don't know what its like to cum but all my friends brag. is anyone like this?

I totally understand your problem, and it is tough to have that many siblings and family members around and have privacy.

Personally, I would not push yourself that hard and worry about getting an orgasm or being able to cum. Chances are you are not developed enough to do either, and I would wait. When you are developed enough, then you should be able to masturbate in the shower where you have privacy.

All because your friends are able to do something does not mean it applies to you. I am guessing your friends might come from smaller families or may have privacy that you do not. As a result, they have the ability to fully explore their sexuality which you cannot due to your house being crowded. I would not feel badly, and just take things one day at a time. There really is nothing wrong with you, and remember that masturbating is totally optional. It is not like you have to do it and report your results to your friends.

[kyrocks03]

Just go to the bathroom, lock the door as if you are taking a dump and wank while sitting on the toilet. I do that all the time when we are vacationing and don't have the privacy for a wank on the bed.

[conradpjones]

I totally understand your problem, and it is tough to have that many siblings and family members around and have privacy.

Personally, I would not push yourself that hard and worry about getting an orgasm or being able to cum. Chances are you are not developed enough to do either, and I would wait. When you are developed enough, then you should be able to masturbate in the shower where you have privacy.

All because your friends are able to do something does not mean it applies to you. I am guessing your friends might come from smaller families or may have privacy that you do not. As a result, they have the ability to fully explore their sexuality which you cannot due to your house being crowded. I would not feel badly, and just take things one day at a time. There really is nothing wrong with you, and remember that masturbating is totally optional. It is not like you have to do it and report your results to your friends.

thx ford advice but im 16 so im pretty sure Im developed. I have pubes and everything

[Jake445]

I have a twin sister who I share a room with so I do it in the shower sometimes. I have more than 5 minutes though. When do you shower?

[jamie_n5]

Where there is a will there is a way. You will figure out the where and when.

[Turbofan explosion]

What about in the bathroom?

[Second Chance]

thx ford advice but im 16 so im pretty sure Im developed. I have pubes and everything

Oh wow, in light of your being 16 you should be old enough to have an orgasm on your own.

I am not sure how things work in your country, but when you are old enough to go away to college or live on your own, then you should be able to explore your sexuality in a way you would like.

Do you have wet dreams, or are you totally unable to do anything sexual with your body?

Your situation is really tough, and I am not sure how best to answer it because you have so many people in your house. My only suggestion at this point is if there is not a big line to use the washroom in your house, then try to masturbate at a time when no one is using the restroom. There must be times when there are fewer people home than others, and try to schedule your personal time when those free times happen.

Assuming you share your room with other boys and assuming they are developed, then maybe you can work something out with them for times when you all can masturbate?

I am really sorry about your situation, and I regret not being able to give you better advice. Just know there's nothing wrong with you, and plenty of people in large households have the exact same problem as you.

[NewLeafsFan]

If you make things a priority, you will find time to make things happen. Believe me, after you do it once, you'll always fine time.

[user-999]

You could just go to the toilet and do it. And for the shower try sitting down it helped me the first few times I did it in there.

[TWDjacob]

Can't you do it when it's time for bed? Unless you share a room which could be slightly more difficult

[tdog123]

i would try just doing it whenever you are with you brothers are around

i really would only be worried about my mum and sisters
but if you dont want to try that well then just do it while you are on the toilet

[Hermes]

This sounds very similar to the common college roommate problem and the usual solutions there are:

1. With no need to discuss it, learn your roommate's schedule and use the room when you know he'll not be there.
2. Talk to him about it and agree that you both need some private time in the room and that the other will study in the library or do something else to stay out of the way during that time.
3. Agree that you both need to do it and that its no big deal to do it when the other is there.

On the last of these, this has what has happened every time I have been camping. With very few exceptions, most guys have masturbated last thing at night but inside their sleeping bags so not showing off, but not pretending they're not doing it either.

So, could you apply any of this to your home situation? I think the thing about the college situation or being with friends of a similar age is that you can all understand the need. Might that be the case with your brothers in particular?