1 month

[SpicyCurryyy]

You guys can probably tell it is my first relationship and I really like this girl and don't wanna mess anything up. Hence the excessive posting. Sorry! :whoops:
Our one month is April 10th. My personal opinion is it it too clingy to celebrate it because the relationship has only started taking off in the past few days, so it doesn't technically feel like it has been a whole month. Not many people knew for the first two weeks, and then after our first date I told a few people that publicized it. Then we hooked up and a lottt of people know. But anyway I don't want to NOT mention, because I am worried she'll think I forgot it. On the other hand, if I send her a message about it, she might think I'm a dick that I didn't plan anything for it. What do you guys think?

[Ethan19]

Ask if she wants to celebrate it?

[mick01]

You might want to mention it on the date but don't make a huge deal about it. I don't think it's significant enough to celebrate. It's only a month. If you make it 6 months, then you celebrate.

[jamie_n5]

I think asking her out to dinner might be a good choice and telling her how much you are enjoying the relationship and tell her that you think she is a beautiful and remarkable person. Or whatever you want to use as complimenting.

[Alumni]

Depends on how the girl is; if she's very abstract, then you should do something surprising and special. If she's simple, keep it vibrant but simple.

[NewLeafsFan]

You guys can probably tell it is my first relationship and I really like this girl and don't wanna mess anything up. Hence the excessive posting. Sorry! :whoops:
Our one month is April 10th. My personal opinion is it it too clingy to celebrate it because the relationship has only started taking off in the past few days, so it doesn't technically feel like it has been a whole month. Not many people knew for the first two weeks, and then after our first date I told a few people that publicized it. Then we hooked up and a lottt of people know. But anyway I don't want to NOT mention, because I am worried she'll think I forgot it. On the other hand, if I send her a message about it, she might think I'm a dick that I didn't plan anything for it. What do you guys think?


If you ask me, your anniversary is in celebration of when you started dating; not when you met. Are you trying to say that you have been dating for a month, having sex for a month, or met a month ago? I'm guessing you didn't meet and instantly run for the nearest bed.

[SpicyCurryyy]

If you ask me, your anniversary is in celebration of when you started dating; not when you met. Are you trying to say that you have been dating for a month, having sex for a month, or met a month ago? I'm guessing you didn't meet and instantly run for the nearest bed.

Thanks again for the response! I asked her out a month ago after we finished eating frozen yogurt as friends. We haven’t had sex yet we’ve only made out.

[SpicyCurryyy]

Thanks for all the responses. When we go out after the 10th, I’m just gonna genuinely tell her how much I’ve enjoyed the relationship and subtly let her know that I remembered it’s been a month

[imanopenbook]

Thanks for all the responses. When we go out after the 10th, I’m just gonna genuinely tell her how much I’ve enjoyed the relationship and subtly let her know that I remembered it’s been a month

good idea. I wouldn't make a huge thing of it but mention it.

[shainalia]

wow that's cool

[ska8er]

Take her out for ice cream or
a soda and u can mention it
but don't make a big thing
out of it.

[scottishlooby]

What happened with this?? It's so cute :)

[SpicyCurryyy]

What happened with this?? It's so cute :)


Awww thanks sm for wanting to know! I actually went out with her last night. She met me outside my house and we walked down for dinner to a local place, probably about a 20 minute walk. We ate there and afterwards got ice cream at this new place, where the line was sooo long! She wanted me to try it so we waited ofc ;) I actually think my favorite part was after we got the ice cream. It was about 9:00 at night, and she lives a long way away. But I thought it would be cute if I offered to walk her home! We went right by my house but I stayed with her and took her home in the pitch black. It was so fun she made me this really cute friendship bracelet that she gave to me. But I reallyyy felt like we connected that walk back idk. It was dark and I was freaking her out because I was paranoid we'd see a skunk haha. It was the first time I felt like I could talk to her without any sort of filter, and I could really feel it clicking. I got to her place at like 10ish and we did like an extended goodbye kiss. And then I had to walk all the way back :( haha. I didn't mention the 1 month. At the end of the day, I went with what I was feeling, and I wasn't feeling like we were serious enough to bring that up. As of right now it's cute and fun ig but thanks for inquiring:D

[scottishlooby]

Aww that's so cool! I'm really happy for you ��

[Jordan99]

You're putting way too much thought into this. The next time you're with her just tell her you like her and that you've enjoyed the last month you've spent together.