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[milesparker]

I have a girlfriend. there were a few times we were alone and we almost kissed but we never did. she saw that I had a huge boner and we talked about how horny I was for her. she asked to pleasure me but I chickened out and said no. I am worried that she is going to break up with me. I lover her and she loves me. there is much more to our relationship but we both want sex but I could get her pregnant and I want to take things slowly. thoughts?

[jamie_n5]

Well always have some condoms available or with you when you go out. She may want to give you a blow job and you could pleasure her at the same time.

[TWDjacob]

Well if both of you want to do it but are nervous, start out slow. You don't need to have sex right away but when you do, you can (and should) use cautions like condoms or birth control pills if it gets serious

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

I have a girlfriend. there were a few times we were alone and we almost kissed but we never did. she saw that I had a huge boner and we talked about how horny I was for her. she asked to pleasure me but I chickened out and said no. I am worried that she is going to break up with me. I lover her and she loves me. there is much more to our relationship but we both want sex but I could get her pregnant and I want to take things slowly. thoughts?

You're wise to want to take things slow, just work at your guys' comfort level. Bring it up next time you're together and see what you're ready for. If you decide to have sex then go with condoms or the pill for sure. Otherwise there's plenty of intimate things you can do as well before or instead of sex.

[NewLeafsFan]

I have a girlfriend. there were a few times we were alone and we almost kissed but we never did. she saw that I had a huge boner and we talked about how horny I was for her. she asked to pleasure me but I chickened out and said no. I am worried that she is going to break up with me. I lover her and she loves me. there is much more to our relationship but we both want sex but I could get her pregnant and I want to take things slowly. thoughts?

How did the conversation go when she asked to pleasure you and you said no? Did u chicken out in the convo too and just say you 'didn't feel like it' (which would have been a really obvious lie lol)?

You need to have a conversation about how and why you feel the need to take things slowly. I doubt that she will break up with you if the two of you remain on the same page.

[robin246]

I have a girlfriend. there were a few times we were alone and we almost kissed but we never did. she saw that I had a huge boner and we talked about how horny I was for her. she asked to pleasure me but I chickened out and said no. I am worried that she is going to break up with me. I lover her and she loves me. there is much more to our relationship but we both want sex but I could get her pregnant and I want to take things slowly. thoughts?

it sounds more like your not ready dispite wanting too man? she sounds like she might be pressuring u make sure u are ready too.
if you cant even kiss you shouldn't be thinking about sex? just cause u got a boner we all get boners m8 :)

[Atlantis]

OP banned :locked: