Oddly specific question

[SpicyCurryyy]

I'm posting a lot about this but my girlfriend is coming over tomorrow at 1:00. My mom comes home at 3:45. How do I get her to leave before then without being rude?

[mick01]

Why do you need her out by the time your mom gets home? But if you have a good reason, tell her ahead of time that she needs to be gone by a certain time and tell her why.

[drhalsey1]

Why do you need her out by the time your mom gets home? But if you have a good reason, tell her ahead of time that she needs to be gone by a certain time and tell her why.

Yep, pretty much just this, tell her ahead of time the time frame, when, and why she'll need to leave if she does

[SpicyCurryyy]

Why do you need her out by the time your mom gets home? But if you have a good reason, tell her ahead of time that she needs to be gone by a certain time and tell her why.

My mom and I have a great relationship I told her about my girl. I know a lot of people are secretive with their parents but I'm not. Although I feel uncomfortable with my mom knowing we were messing around at my house because I don't know how she'd react. Also the relationship isn't at the meet the parents stage yet.

[mick01]

I don't understand. Your mom knows about your relationship, and you're not secretive with your parents. But you're intending to be very secretive by having a girl over without your mom finding out. Doesn't make any sense to me dude.

[SpicyCurryyy]

I don't understand. Your mom knows about your relationship, and you're not secretive with your parents. But you're intending to be very secretive by having a girl over without your mom finding out. Doesn't make any sense to me dude.

It's not really that it's more that if my mom knows she's going to want to meet her and I'm not prepared for that and neither is she we've only been together for 2.5 weeks.

[benlodge123]

It's not really that it's more that if my mom knows she's going to want to meet her and I'm not prepared for that and neither is she we've only been together for 2.5 weeks.

Hehe get it over and done with. Your mum will accept you having a girlfriend man. It's part of growing up and going through life. No matter what your girlfriend is like, you mum will always love you.

[NewLeafsFan]

I'm posting a lot about this but my girlfriend is coming over tomorrow at 1:00. My mom comes home at 3:45. How do I get her to leave before then without being rude?

Before she comes over, talk to your girl and tell her that as much as you love and care for her you are not ready to let her meet your parents. And soon, after the relationship has developed a bit more, you would love for her to meet your family.

Do not commit to letting her meet your family in a specific amount of time as you don't know when you will feel ready.

And how would her still being there when your mother gets home mean that you guys are fooling around?

[SpicyCurryyy]

Before she comes over, talk to your girl and tell her that as much as you love and care for her you are not ready to let her meet your parents. And soon, after the relationship has developed a bit more, you would love for her to meet your family.

Do not commit to letting her meet your family in a specific amount of time as you don't know when you will feel ready.

And how would her still being there when your mother gets home mean that you guys are fooling around?

Thanks sm for such an in-depth response. I ended up starting out by telling her when my mom comes home and she understood right away. Really appreciate the help.