What would you do?

[CoryW]

I've been watching my soon to be (step)brother because we're on spring break. To day his grandparents came to my house and asked him Nick) if he wanted to go get lunch and see a movie. His grandpa asked if I wanted to go. I said if it's ok.
I went to change and I heard grandma say that " that little bastard isn't going with us"
I waited a minute and went back and thanked them and said I couldn't go. Grandpa wouldn't even look at me.
Should I say something to my dad about this or just keep quite.
I'm really hurt right now and don't know why it's bothering me.

[Stanley02]

I would tell your dad... that’s really horrible

[mick01]

I would definitely tell your dad. If they have some issue with you, your dad needs to know about it before he marries into the family.

[Dalcourt]

As the others said, tell your Dad. It never ends well if you keep quiet about such things, speaking from experience here.

[CoryW]

My only thing is. I never met them til today. I'm not a bastard because my mom was a druggie , I have a dad.
But did his gf tell them something about me. ? I'm affrid dad wouldn't believe me and it would start something.

[Tim the Enchanter]

I'd be a little mad, that's super rude and the fact she didn't have the guts to say it to your face is even worse. If someone was going to be mean to be, I would rather them look me in the eye while doing it.

[CoryW]

I decided to take all your advice. I rode my bike down to his shop and ask if we could talk without having an agreement.... I told him everything that happened and I started to tear up some. He asked why I was crying an I said he wouldn't believe me. He started to walk off and turned around and he was tearing up. He hugged me and said don't be a moron .
He said Kathy's mom didn't like him is probably the reason she said it.
I really want to thank everyone I feel so much better

[beachdude]

I decided to take all your advice. I rode my bike down to his shop and ask if we could talk without having an agreement.... I told him everything that happened and I started to tear up some. He asked why I was crying an I said he wouldn't believe me. He started to walk off and turned around and he was tearing up. He hugged me and said don't be a moron .
He said Kathy's mom didn't like him is probably the reason she said it.
I really want to thank everyone I feel so much better

I’d trust your Dad, he listens, believes you and in you and sounds honest with his own feelings with you. Your Dad sounds like a great guy.

[CoryW]

I’d trust your Dad, he listens, believes you and in you and sounds honest with his own feelings with you. Your Dad sounds like a great guy.
Thanks I really appreciate you

[SethfromMI]

I am glad you told. They have no right to treat you that way and he needed to know.

[beachdude]

Thanks I really appreciate you

Thanks

[beachdude]

I am glad you told. They have no right to treat you that way and he needed to know.

Agree with Seth. They she had no right to treat you that way, ESPECIALLY in your own house! That makes me angry!

[Just JT]

You did the right thing. Your dad and his wife have this thing and Thanys cool
But doesn’t mean it’s cool for you
And he should know that
Was a hard stand bro good job
Hope it all works out for you bro

[NewLeafsFan]

Some people, especially the older generation, do not believe that blended families work. Your a nice guy, its unfortunate that you'll have to, but at some point you'll likely win grandma over. When they come to visit, spend more time bonding with grandpa. Some people might suggest ignoring her or trying to avoid her. If you're gonna learn to be a family it is in everyone's best interests to get along.

I think you did the right thing by not going out with them. If someone doesn't want you there, you are unlikely to have a good time. And yes, you should tell your father immediately. Everyone needs to be understanding of the family dynamics.

[Dalcourt]

I decided to take all your advice. I rode my bike down to his shop and ask if we could talk without having an agreement.... I told him everything that happened and I started to tear up some. He asked why I was crying an I said he wouldn't believe me. He started to walk off and turned around and he was tearing up. He hugged me and said don't be a moron .
He said Kathy's mom didn't like him is probably the reason she said it.
I really want to thank everyone I feel so much better

I'm happy to hear our advice worked out.
Your Dad seems cool and understanding.

[CoryW]

I'm happy to hear our advice worked out.
Your Dad seems cool and understanding.

Thanks he is pretty cool

[Chrisbm]

That’s good that you told your dad how you feel.

[nicktheman2003]

You did the right thing by telling your Dad about it and I think it was really mean what the grandmother said about you. I would of done the same as you and not go. At least you future stepmom trusts you to hang with your future stepbrother, that means she trusts you and likes you.

[Sofiya02]

You should tell your dad cuz that’s really mean. You didn’t do anything wrong.

[Zachary G]

My only thing is. I never met them til today. I'm not a bastard because my mom was a druggie , I have a dad.
But did his gf tell them something about me. ? I'm affrid dad wouldn't believe me and it would start something.

Why would your dad think you would make something up like that? I would just take him aside and let him know what you overheard and your feelings on the matter. If you dont want to be specific about what they said, just say you think they dont like you and then tell him why you feel that way.

[Brandon618]

That is so uncool and I understand how you feel. Your Dad needs to know if you all are going to live together.