I need to "WOW" her

[NewLeafsFan]

This is the third post I've made about this girl. We were texting for a while. Now we've been seeing each other in person more often. I enjoy our time together. She's usually really chatty. I've asked her to lunch a couple of times and shes agreed.

I feel like a need to add a "wow" moment or factor about myself. Am I overthinking it? Or is there a way to do that?

[benlodge123]

This is the third post I've made about this girl. We were texting for a while. Now we've been seeing each other in person more often. I enjoy our time together. She's usually really chatty. I've asked her to lunch a couple of times and shes agreed.

I feel like a need to add a "wow" moment or factor about myself. Am I overthinking it? Or is there a way to do that?

What do you mean wow factor?
being yourself is key, never try and be someone your not; it gets you no where.

If you mean "wow factor" as in doing something good with her try these:

Movies
Star watching
Meal
Ice-skating

If i got the wrong end, then please tell me and i will try to help!

[mick01]

As soon as you think you need a "wow" factor, you're overthinking it and trying to be somebody you're not. If it doesn't come natural to you, it's not you being you.

[SethfromMI]

As soon as you think you need a "wow" factor, you're overthinking it and trying to be somebody you're not. If it doesn't come natural to you, it's not you being you.

Well said my friend.

OP, you need to be you. She will either like you for you or she won't. I know the prospect of her not might seem scary but if she doesn't like you for you, then she isn't for you and in the long run, it simply would not work. You certainly wouldn't be happy anyways. Just be you.

[ska8er]

Just b urself-let her know Ur her "wow" factor.

[Just JT]

The “wow” is something she’s just gonna see or like about you or something you experience together. Just let that happen naturally. If it doesn’t then it doesn’t. And that doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you either. Just let nature takes its course bro

[rioo]

I think 'Wow factor' here is mean Sex Appeal.
I've read some on internet but not sure if I can bring it here.
And yeah we need to working on that even just little bit. This is something that attracting each other in relationship.
Making yourselft more valuable for her and thinking on future step.

[Rendez-Vous]

as stated above, i would recommend you to be yourself. but if you'd decide to impress herself with a "wow" factor, be careful ;)
https://cdn.dopl3r.com/memes_files/blind-datel-her-im-a-big-country-fan-me-trying-to-impress-her-china-is-very-large-twitter-ethetoddwilliams-L9kVF.jpg

[bouldghirl]

She’s said yes. You’ve done the hard bit. Just take things as they come. You don’t make a ‘WOW’ factor - they just happen.

[Scott Pilgrim]

She’s said yes. You’ve done the hard bit. Just take things as they come. You don’t make a ‘WOW’ factor - they just happen.

Exactly, don't try to force them. I used to always think about things I could do like that, thinking I'd have to force it into getting started until I met this girl who I've been talking to a lot lately and the types of spontaneous adventures I always thought I'd have to come up with are just happening. Had a lame auto-correct thing where I typed "but no" and it added "bread" behind it so we started laughing about that and coming up with dumb scenarios where we'd say that and ended up with the idea to go to Subway with a loaf of bread and when they ask what kind of bread we'd say "oh no thanks I have my own" lol it's so dumb but it's great, and then we added that onto something else we were thinking about like going to a bridge her friend showed her and climbing to the top to have a picnic, used the no bread food from Subway for that and ended up with a nice lil date. My nickname on her messenger is still "But No Bread" -_- lol

[Max the Disenchanter]

Unless you're a serial killer, just be you.

[TheMagicPotato]

Unless you're a serial killer, just be you.

LifeProTip: Unless you kill, always be chill.