Met a girl today

[benlodge123]

I know some peopel do not agree with meeting people on social media. But this girl "Lauren" asked for my snapchat today. I gave it to her at 4 in the afternoon and we have been speaking until 12am. 8 hours of messaging. We have lots in common. She told me about her past experiences with boys, all of which where; boys being difficult with her. I promised her I would not be like that and would always be there. i dont make promises i cant keep. I will keep it!
I want to meet her, but i dont want to ask her yet.

1. How long shall I leave it until i ask her?
2. What signs do I look for that she likes me when we do meet?
3. How long after meeting should I ask her out?

Hope you can help me with these questions
Thanks a lot ladies and gents :)

[lliam]

1. How long shall I leave it until i ask her?

until your gut-feeling tells you to do so, cause it feels to be the right time even though it may be too early or too late asking her anyway. so don't rush or hush it.


2. What signs do I look for that she likes me when we do meet? - body language, the way she talkss, eye contact and such ... eg if she acts bored, something goes wrong. if she keeps talking, seems being interested etc, then there's a big chance she likes you.


3. How long after meeting should I ask her out? - so you consider first time meeting her isn't a date?

[benlodge123]

1. How long shall I leave it until i ask her?

until your gut-feeling tells you to do so, cause it feels to be the right time even though it may be too early or too late asking her anyway. so don't rush or hush it.


2. What signs do I look for that she likes me when we do meet? - body language, the way she talkss, eye contact and such ... eg if she acts bored, something goes wrong. if she keeps talking, seems being interested etc, then there's a big chance she likes you.


3. How long after meeting should I ask her out? - so you consider first time meeting her isn't a date?

1. okay, i will leave it until my gut says. This probs mean however i will be friendzoned lol.

2. I will keep an eye out for them signs.

3. I wouldnt want it to be a huge thing. Just like a boy and a girl meeting. I guess it would be a date yes.

[jamie_n5]

1. How long shall I leave it until i ask her? Until you feel comfortable about it.
2. What signs do I look for that she likes me when we do meet? The way she acts and looks at you and treats you. You could also just ask her what she thinks about you.
3. How long after meeting should I ask her out? When you feel like you know her well enough to start a relationship.

[lliam]

1. okay, i will leave it until my gut says. This probs mean however i will be friendzoned lol. .

OK. When your gut is such sluggish - push it ... at the right moment. :D




3. I wouldnt want it to be a huge thing. Just like a boy and a girl meeting. I guess it would be a date yes.

I think any date doesn't have necessarily to be a big event either. This is always dependent on your own feelings anyway and the expectations that you associate with them.


But I also think, despite all the non-bindingness that you describe here, if you expect to meet her another time, that's depending on your first meeting ... first impression and such.

But maybe it happens to you like I experienced it, as I met my gf the first time. I didn't know that meeting me was already a date for her.

I guess, I act pretty awkward at that date.

On the other hand, I unintentionally seemed to be a funny guy to her and therefore was somehow interesting according to her first impression of me ... she later told me so.

That's why she decided to date me so often until she knew exactly what kind of dude I really was.



So, wish you good luck then.

[CoryW]

I hope she turns out to be ok