Sex Question

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I have a quick question for any gay/bisexual people here, what is pleasurable about having gay sex, if you are the bottom? I have a feeling that it would just hurt too much and be kinda painful if you ask me. This also isn't meant to be homophobic or whatever just fyi.

[Spooky_Eli]

well, from what i know it's about the prostate, a muscle that can be reached through the rectum & when it gets tuched it creates a pleasurable feeling, and as for the pain you'd be surprised what a bit of lube can do.

[mick01]

The physical pleasure is from the prostate getting hit for sure. With experience, it stops hurting and you're used to it and it becomes totally pleasurable, using lube of course.
But there's an emotional or psychological side to it that makes it amazing if you're really into the guy who is topping you.

[Bleppo]

Does it take a long time to adjust to the feeling or is it pretty quick tho?

[Vegas2933]

Does it take a long time to adjust to the feeling or is it pretty quick tho?

I've never had anal sex but I have a feeling it would differ from person to person.

[mick01]

Does it take a long time to adjust to the feeling or is it pretty quick tho?

I don't think it takes that long.

[Bleppo]

I don't think it takes that long.

Good to know lmao

I've never had anal sex but I have a feeling it would differ from person to person.

I guess youre right, ive never really worried about it hurting before now tho

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[CoryW]

I guess youre right, ive never really worried about it hurting before now tho

I've tried it. It hurts at first maybe a few minutes. But then it feels good

[Bleppo]

I've tried it. It hurts at first maybe a few minutes. But then it feels good

Sounds pretty good but i didnt expect a 15 year old guy to have done it already lol, is 15 early for that

[CoryW]

Sounds pretty good but i didnt expect a 15 year old guy to have done it already lol, is 15 early for that

I don't think it is but everyone is different.
I know a bunch my age that have done something.

[Bleppo]

I don't think it is but everyone is different.
I know a bunch my age that have done something.

Ive heard a lot about heterosexual stuff happening, but no gay guys i know have done anything

[jamie_n5]

The physical pleasure is from the prostate getting hit for sure. With experience, it stops hurting and you're used to it and it becomes totally pleasurable, using lube of course.
But there's an emotional or psychological side to it that makes it amazing if you're really into the guy who is topping you.

This is a really great answer. It may be a bit uncomfortable at first but you take it easy and it really feels great after a while.

[Andrewpaul922]

Does it take a long time to adjust to the feeling or is it pretty quick tho?

The first time I had anal sex, the guy was 14, and about 3 inches bigger than my penis. I wasn’t sure what to expect when his penis entered me. It hurt a lot at first, but eventually faded and felt amazing. It still hurts when he thrusts really hard and fast, but it goes away.

[Dude1]

It hurt a lot at first but we continued during that sesh and I had the best orgasm of my life to date lol

[xXCaptainteemoXx]

These guys have pretty much said it. It hurts when you're not used to it or experienced with it, but if you use a bit of lubrication then it won't hurt as much.

[user-999]

Well I haven't have sex, but while experimenting with that area, I've found it to be quite pleasurable. It's the prostate that brings all they joy of male anal sex.

[Zachary G]

The physical pleasure is from the prostate getting hit for sure. With experience, it stops hurting and you're used to it and it becomes totally pleasurable, using lube of course.
But there's an emotional or psychological side to it that makes it amazing if you're really into the guy who is topping you.

Absolutely correct in saying this, but every experience is different for everyone.

[BluePi]

It does hurt in the beginning, but the plesure becomes bigger with time because you start to get used to the size, but it's always best to use fingers first and go slow

[Phldet123]

The male g-spot

[kyrocks03]

I love it. In my case it did not hurt really at all, we researched and used quite a lot of lube and took our time. I've only been with one boy and we are still together now after nearly 2 years. We both do it to each other and I think a lot of it has to do with our feelings for each other. When you hit the prostate, it is amazing and sometimes we'll even jizz without touching ourselves just from the contact of his or my penis hitting the prostate repeatedly.

[lolshanedawson]

I have been the bottom twice in my life (never topped) and the first time was honestly pretty painful. The second time felt better and actually was pleasurable to me. To me, although it feels good when the prostate is hit, it's more of a mentality thing and letting a guy that you really like top you and giving him immense pleasure. Idk tho

[ilc.69]

At first it might hurt a Little bit, but it's normal. You get used to it, and well at some point it get's really pleasurable. Just try it carefully, with someone you trust, and kinda knows about the subject a bit, and you might enjoy. It's also important to say that not everybody ends up liking it

[SilverSM]

I'm a top but people like for me to bottom but I hate it personally, it just feels weird for me having up my ass.

[jaret]

The first time I had anal sex, the guy was 14, and about 3 inches bigger than my penis. I wasn’t sure what to expect when his penis entered me. It hurt a lot at first, but eventually faded and felt amazing. It still hurts when he thrusts really hard and fast, but it goes away.
he was 3 inches larger than you? how old were you?

[ashdaniel]

I have bott before and it does hurt. Personally I don’t find the pleasure. I only done it twice and coping the pain take away the pleasure for me but after a while it is just fine.

[ChaseDakoda]

It's great, but no one mentioned to do a enema, clean out your butt, or Rectum first.

[imanopenbook]

For me it hurt a lot the first couple times I bottomed but I didn't know what I was doing. Now it hurts when he enters but after I adjust to it, it feels great. Usually.

I think the mental part of it makes a big difference too being into it at that time or him at that time.

[TWDjacob]

The prostate is the main reason it's enjoyable. If you go slow the first few times and use lube it's not very painful