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Phldet123
March 20th, 2018, 03:28 AM
(Im a guy, 14 y/o) So theres this girl at my school who's pretty much all around amazing, wether its in personality or appearance. We have 3 classes together so I interact with her alot. Im extremely honest with people, have high confidence with talking to others, and have no problem talking to girls. Except when it comes to asking them out. Me and this girl vibe really well together, and always hit it off. I have feelings for her. The the thing is, I think we both know we like eachother, I just have no idea how to approach her. Help/Advice would be great.
NewLeafsFan
March 20th, 2018, 03:45 AM
I would start mildly flirting with her and see how she responds. Compliment her. Don't do anything creepy. If she is receptive then that can help you build the confidence to ask her out.
Just JT
March 20th, 2018, 05:04 AM
Seems to me you got all the skills and all to be confident about asking her out
Maybe just ask her to go to a movie or w cup of coffee or something and just talk, get to know each other better
When the times right, hold her hand. If she pulls away, you’ll know, if she doesn’t, you’ll know to.
West Coast Sheriff
March 20th, 2018, 09:48 AM
Perhaps, start small. Ask her to hangout and see where that goes. Pizza is always good.
Good luck!
Bleppo
March 22nd, 2018, 01:47 PM
Yup id just say ask her to hng out with you and i think itll be obvious to pick up on the signals she gives while you are hanging out
SpicyCurryyy
March 22nd, 2018, 02:51 PM
Do you have her snap/number? My general formula is get the snap/number, ask her to chill as friends maybe get pizza or something, and then ask her out afterwards (if you're feeling it) one-on-one with no other distractions. you have to ask her out in person though don't do it over snap/text, but you can ask he to chill as friends over snap/text/
ImCoolBeans
March 23rd, 2018, 10:54 AM
I say just go for it and ask her out. It doesn't need to be a grand gesture or anything -- just ask her if she would like to hang out with you over the weekend or after school. Maybe get a bite to eat or go out for a coffee. Confidence is key, and you say you have a lot of it, so show her that you are confident and want to spend time with her.