My boyfriend deleted my phone number

[Ama-Uwana]

Please I need ur advice. I started dating my boyfriend 3 wks ago at b4 den we've knwn each other for 4 yrs. he's 19 and am 17. he asked me to either tell him how much i love him or kiss him. and i wasn't comfortable with it, so i told him that i was leaving and i left. since then, he refuse to see me, and he deleted my phone number. when i called yesterday he was angry and asked me why did i walk out on him and ended the call. please i really like him and i don't know what to do.

[Double]

I'd skedaddle and leave him. He doesn't seem to care much about your own comfortability. It seems to me that he has some self-esteem issues to where he needed a lot of reassurance from you. When he didn't receive the reassurance he was looking for, he got angry.

He wanted to move much faster than you did and I don't see this working out well at all.

[NewLeafsFan]

You and your ex-boyfriend should not be together. (I say ex because it sounds like you are already separated). You clearly like him, but he is not interested in your best interests. He put you in a situation that you were not comfortable in. That is NOT ok. Be glad that you broke up so that you can move on to someone that will treat you better.

[West Coast Sheriff]

If he is not willing to understand that you are uncomfortable moving at his pace, you should drop him. If he expects too much from you, you should drop him.

[Barbara.]

I agree with all the above posters. It seems to me that he gives no value to your comfort and more to his self-esteem. This could be at first sign of him becoming too possessive. I would walk away before the relationship progresses and before he comes more possessive.

[Ama-Uwana]

You and your ex-boyfriend should not be together. (I say ex because it sounds like you are already separated). You clearly like him, but he is not interested in your best interests. He put you in a situation that you were not comfortable in. That is NOT ok. Be glad that you broke up so that you can move on to someone that will treat you better.

well, he hasn't yet ask for a breakup. but he is now ignoring me. i know that he is really mad at me.

Thanks, but how do i walk away? i saw him today, all of his friends were staring at me but he ignored me. am so confused.

I'd skedaddle and leave him. He doesn't seem to care much about your own comfortability. It seems to me that he has some self-esteem issues to where he needed a lot of reassurance from you. When he didn't receive the reassurance he was looking for, he got angry.

He wanted to move much faster than you did and I don't see this working out well at all.

But how do i make it work out? if he has self-esteem issues how do i help him out. i really love him and i know that he also loves me.

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[Uniquemind]

You don’t.

He has to workout his own mental issues and emotional stability issues himself. Once’s he’s a whole person, then you can begin relationship.

You don’t want to be in an emotionally abusive relationship.

[Ama-Uwana]

You don’t.

He has to workout his own mental issues and emotional stability issues himself. Once’s he’s a whole person, then you can begin relationship.

You don’t want to be in an emotionally abusive relationship.

ok thanks