Experimenting

[Lisa R]

I have a bf friend and he is a complete gentlemen he has never mentioned,anything about sex if any kind. I want to please him orally or by give him a handjob.
I have heard other girls talk in how much they enjoy it and i wanted to experience that too.My question is of two questions.
1.Do you think that this is weird to want this experience?
2. At what age or when did you wanted to experience giving oral,Handjob?
PS. I don't want to go all the way with intercourse yet I'm to young.

[ScottishCanary]

Hey,

No I don't think you are too young to be curious about experimenting with your boyfriend who you like so much. I think you are being very wise in deciding you don't want to go any further than oral or a handjob. I was 14 (same age I am now) when I first did this to a friend of mine. I mainly did it because he wanted to know what it felt like and I thought it would also be fun to try it. It was a kind of one off FWB type thing. So yeah if you want to try it with him you can bring it up that you are interested in seeing what it feels like and see what he says, he seems like a guy who will be very respectful about the whole thing. Good luck :)

[Lisa R]

Hey,

No I don't think you are too young to be curious about experimenting with your boyfriend who you like so much. I think you are being very wise in deciding you don't want to go any further than oral or a handjob. I was 14 (same age I am now) when I first did this to a friend of mine. I mainly did it because he wanted to know what it felt like and I thought it would also be fun to try it. It was a kind of one off FWB type thing. So yeah if you want to try it with him you can bring it up that you are interested in seeing what it feels like and see what he says, he seems like a guy who will be very respectful about the whole thing. Good luck :)

I thank you for your reply. :yeah:

[satarra3180]

Love the fact he has not mentioned anything sexual and appreciate the fact you are not ready for sex yet. You two sound really sweet together and I think its perfectly fine you want to experiment with someone you care about and who respects you.

[ScottishCanary]

I thank you for your reply. :yeah:

You are more than welcome and if you need any advice over PM you are more than welcome to PM me. As I said I am also a virgin but have done the two things you mentioned in your post! It seems you do have a gentleman there, hold him close, they aree extra special :)!

[watermelon_pineapple]

1. It not weird at all you a teenager and want to experiment with this see how it fells and that totally normal do have that felling
2. I am 16 but i started felling it around 14 when i had my first bf

[ninja789]

.Do you think that this is weird to want this experience?nope
2. At what age or when did you wanted to experience giving oral,Handjob? around your age I think

[Sarah_Ward]

Wow, he sounds really sweet and I think its natural for you to want to give him a hand job too, i have done it twice up to now with my boyfriend and its totally AWESOME and im sure you will like it too, just ask him how he likes it and he will show you how to do it like my boyfriend did and im 14 now.

[Karkat]

Love the fact he has not mentioned anything sexual and appreciate the fact you are not ready for sex yet. You two sound really sweet together and I think its perfectly fine you want to experiment with someone you care about and who respects you.

Thought the same thing. :)

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1.Do you think that this is weird to want this experience? Absolutely not. I think it's perfectly natural.
2. At what age or when did you wanted to experience giving oral,Handjob? Probably about 14/15.

[Lisa R]

I talked to my bf now my exbf that i wanted to please him either hj or bj and he turned me down.
After talking for awhile he admitted he would rather get it from his boyfriend.
I was devastated. So experiencing it won't happen.

[ScottishCanary]

OMG Lisa! So sorry to hear that it you need any help or support I shall be PMable soon. Take care hunni.

[anyone50]

I talked to my bf now my exbf that i wanted to please him either hj or bj and he turned me down.
After talking for awhile he admitted he would rather get it from his boyfriend.
I was devastated. So experiencing it won't happen.

is he gay?

[Lisa R]

is he gay?

Yea he must be.

[Pensive]

I talked to my bf now my exbf that i wanted to please him either hj or bj and he turned me down.
After talking for awhile he admitted he would rather get it from his boyfriend.
I was devastated. So experiencing it won't happen.

Look at it this way - at least you didn't give yourself sexually to him, as the relationship was doomed. Next time you'll know better

[Juana]

Not nice for you that he seems to be gay, but wait till you find a new good boyfriend and I had once the experience of doing HJ and BJ together with my older sister, oops a threesome, haha, she instructed me, haha!! Now like you I'm looking for a boyfriend.

[Amsey]

1.Do you think that this is weird to want this experience? nope not at all it natural to want to experiment :)
2. At what age or when did you wanted to experience giving oral, Handjob? I personally have never experienced this at all but I understand that you wanna try it out as I also sometimes think it might be fun :)

my advice is if you really want to do it ask your bf if you can but I don't think he'll say no lol

[jenna123]

well you are 13 so its normal that you are curious to experiment about these things. But i agree you are too young for sex. But handjob or blowjob at your age its normal to be curious about it. If you trsut and like your bf, you guys can talk about it and then decide to do it or not to do it

[Lisa R]

well you are 13 so its normal that you are curious to experiment about these things. But i agree you are too young for sex. But handjob or blowjob at your age its normal to be curious about it. If you trsut and like your bf, you guys can talk about it and then decide to do it or not to do it

Thanks for your help we are no longer together.. I have posted what happend a few posts back. So it will never happen for me

[jenna123]

Thanks for your help we are no longer together.. I have posted what happend a few posts back. So it will never happen for me

oh im sorry about that didnt read that :(. Well he is clearly gay and not interested in women so dont worry. You will have other chances with other guys trust me. If you need anything PM me for help :)