Sex and talking

[Fenskie]

Does everybody while haveing sex enjoy talking ? This guy I just met wants me to tell or say things while have sex .. I don't like too... My question is Does majority of people like to say things or whisper in each other's ear .. am I weird for not wanting to do that ...

[ska8er]

I guess whatever gets u off. I have an
older friend that whenever he and his g/f
go at it he likes when she talks dirty to him.
Whatever rocks ur boat. If u don't like it tell
him "chill baby" u want enjoy the ride.

[samuel15]

No I don't like it either. I feel that it's extremely awkward to break
The silence and it's such a turn off for me too.

[Uniquemind]

No I don’t think it’s weird; dirty talk is a thing for some people, and sometimes sweet-nothing statements cause an emotional reaction which has a physical response on the body.

Not weird if you understand the machine of the body, but at the same time feel forced into doing something you don’t want to do. If you do feel forced evaluate the possibility you are in a slightly abusive relationship.

[Zachary G]

No I don't like it either. I feel that it's extremely awkward to break
The silence and it's such a turn off for me too.

My current fwb likes to talk dirty when we have sex and it really gets him off, but I have also been with guys who just like the sound of our heavy breathing, moaning, and body sounds. Everything isnt for everybody and if you find it distracting or a turn off, then you should communicate that to your partner.

[samuel15]

My current fwb likes to talk dirty when we have sex and it really gets him off, but I have also been with guys who just like the sound of our heavy breathing, moaning, and body sounds. Everything isnt for everybody and if you find it distracting or a turn off, then you should communicate that to your partner.

I more mean when you start speaking about random stuff that has nothing to do with sex.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I find the right amount of talking is just enough to have good communication during but other than that I try to keep words to a minimum.

[Uniquemind]

Oh I can see where that’s a problem then.


Because it’s conveying your not involved in the intimacy of the moment and that’s offensive.

That’s not weird that is a problem for a relationship.

[SethfromMI]

I mean it depends. Sometimes we will say stuff here and there, but it is not like an actual conversation or anything. I am fine with not talking during sex, but it all just depends on the situation. Stuff like beautiful, sexy, etc., or a little dirty talk is fine.

[jamie_n5]

My boyfriend and I talk to each other and moan quietly and do lots of stuff while making love.

[comeoneileen]

personally i find like dirty talk too awkward but just joking witheachother can make it less awkward

[Ethan19]

I think it is really situational. I legit have had a full talk with my bf whilst having sex, just about random shit, like our days. Otherwise, have done dirty talk and silent. I liked all the ways, it is just what floats your boat

[Franciscofixe]

If I had sex I would not have a conversation in the middle. I would preserve my energy for more wild movements. But if you are just having sex but not wild (chill sex) it would be cool o have a conversation while my cock is in a vagina.

[mick01]

I talk during sex and have with both girlfriend and boyfriend. It's not a conversation, but it's more about what's happening in that moment. I mean, don't you have to talk to know what each of you wants? Plus, dirty talk can be fun too.

[gina_g]

I'm pretty quiet but its kinda hot hearing a guy talk dirty to me

[Jordan99]

Sometimes my BF and I talk and sometimes we don't. Sometimes it's dirty talk and at other times it's not. All depends on the mood.

[NewLeafsFan]

I think that most people enjoy hearing certain things during sex. That being said, it should be an added bonus, not an expectation. Tell this guy that talking during sex takes away from the experience for you and you are no longer willing to do that.

[Emerald Dream]

Unless my partner were to say the perfect things at the perfect time - I'm more likely to laugh at someone (and not in a fun or playful way) trying to force dirty talk. I think that only breaks the mood. It's probably also partly why I find the whole idea of phone sex hysterically bad (yes, I've had someone attempt that).

[SeansLittleBro]

Oh my bf and I always talk when we are intimate....sometimes its just expressing our love for each other ... sometimes it does become somewhat of fantasy, but I see nothing wrong with it, but then again that is US....you and your bf/gf have got to decide what you want...there are no rules for this and it is all how we act together with our partner

[rioo]

I think I never doing it, or rarely talking loud during sexual activity. I'm enjoy intimate rather than games.

[mattsmith48]

I don't like talking much during sex. Dirty talk is just not my thing

[KatieKat]

I mean isn't there better things to be doing with your mouth during that than making each other feel super awkward?